My wife has started to gain some weight recently. She has been eating good for around a month now .

I just love every nuance of watching her eat....whether it be meals, snacks, deserts or whatever.

During her meals at home I have been noticing she loads more on her plate. Going out to eat she rarely used to finish her entrees but now the plate look's licked clean.

I love to come home from work and catch her snacking on the couch with a bag of chips or a box of cookies. She always seems a bit shocked. As I go to change my clothes she usually heads into another room with an entirely different snack to start on......somewhat away from me.

Also, I really like seeing her head right for desert immediately following her big dinner. The desert whether it be ice cream or cookies generally are getting way more consumed during these times.

There is something so sexy about the way she eats her dinner so fast or the way she eats her ice cream so gently and seductively but clearly finishes it equally as fast but she almost look's like she is making love to her ice cream as she eats it.

I have noticed she tends to eat way more if it is not right in front of me. I give her plenty of space because ultimately I want her to eat as much as her heart desires to see where all the calories end up fattening her beautiful figure.

I do get sneaky looking at everything she consumes and how quick with the ice cream pints and cartons finished off from the freezer or the multiple cookie boxes blown through in just a couple days. During these times I find myself stocking up on Ice cream, extra cookies and chocolates. During these times she never mentions anything she just keeps eating and it feels like Heaven on Earth.

It's funny because I use to hear all the time from random people, "I can't understand why I am gaining all this weight" because I have not been eating any more and I don't really eat that much at all. All I can say is from my experience and my wife as well.......we get Fat because we start to eat a lot more than usual. During the times we are gaining I can say our meal consumption almost doubles if not more as well as the snacking and higher calorie food.

I love it when my wife is eating out of control and enjoying / relaxing and just eating more and more.

Does anybody else get almost as excited watching there Significant other eat......and for what reasons typically?

1. Because you cant wait to see where the Lbs. will go.

2. Because you know that eating = Lbs. and Fat

3. The overall seductive nature of watching

4. The out of control eating is the biggest turn on all by itself

5. Just the oral fixation of watching

6. the numbers game of watching them eat so much more than they use to.

7. You want to watch them keep eating more and more because you now they will gain but you want them to get unbelievable huge.

That is actually kind of scary.......that may stop me of ever crossing the 250 Lb. mark!

I don't much like the thought of that......I can't imagine a woman would like that very much either.....huh?

My hairdresser is a BBW as well......Big Pear with a cute face big breasts & the most breathtaking creamy white huge upper arms.....they almost look and feel like pillows. Yes and it is kind of wonderful when there bellies bump and squish into your arms as they are cutting your hair......I was the same at first.... feeling a bit awkward as her belly would squish into me and she would just leave it squishing into me for an extra long time.

Early on when I first started getting my haircut by her some three years ago she brought up a conversation with me that she has to watch what she eats because she has gotten to big and she needs to get healthier. I let it go and changed the conversation to food and how much I like to eat and she warmed up to the talk right away and looked and discussed all the food with a passion.

She has gained a bunch more weight over the last several years and has never brought up losing weight again.

For some reason women always want to tell me they need to lose weight....when all I can think about is them getting even heavier.

I would say my hairdresser is 5' 3" and probably around 230-250 Lbs. currently. She is a very Healthy one in my eyes!!!

whoop's....sorry for the triplicate....damn post wouldn't send...or at least I thought...kinda trigger happy I guess!

I don't have much first hand evidence or info.

But I have to say this is a really interesting post.....I think there are many Psychological factors that can play a big role that may even trump genetics. Not to mention Social, environment and medication of any sort.

Psychological - Depression, feeling toward food and comfort eating.

Social - Always hanging around heavier people can rub off on you with eating habits, activities and overall acceptance by comparison.

Environment - I am sure it has something to do with a few Lbs. either way.

medication - A lot of people gain weight from many medications....and not just types for depression.....the list is pretty extensive for side effects of weight gain on so many med's.

I don't have much first hand evidence or info.

But I have to say this is a really interesting post.....I think there are many Psychological factors that can play a big role that may even trump genetics. Not to mention Social, environment and medication of any sort.

Psychological - Depression, feeling toward food and comfort eating.

Social - Always hanging around heavier people can rub off on you with eating habits, activities and overall acceptance by comparison.

Environment - I am sure it has something to do with a few Lbs. either way.

medication - A lot of people gain weight from many medications....and not just types for depression.....the list is pretty extensive for side effects of weight gain on so many med's.

I don't have much first hand evidence or info.

But I have to say this is a really interesting post.....I think there are many Psychological factors that can play a big role that may even trump genetics. Not to mention Social, environment and medication of any sort.

Psychological - Depression, feeling toward food and comfort eating.

Social - Always hanging around heavier people can rub off on you with eating habits, activities and overall acceptance by comparison.

Environment - I am sure it has something to do with a few Lbs. either way.

medication - A lot of people gain weight from many medications....and not just types for depression.....the list is pretty extensive for side effects of weight gain on so many med's.

I really love Pear shape....along with a big belly, Huge breasts and some pretty huge fluffy upper arms!

Pretty interesting......and inspirational!

I don't love handling fish either....could be a texture thing or just fish smell that gets to me.

I wish I had the time and interest to become a good chef....I could cook my wife so many amazing fattening dishes and watch her grow out of clothes week by week.

Best of luck if you move onto challenges with your cooking endeavors.

I definitely get more submissive when I get fatter.

I feel it is part a confidence thing with masculinity and also I cant move around as well.....usually because I am always stuffed to the max.

As I get fatter after stuffing for several months the loss of appetite control plays a roll on feeling a little insecure and out of control....which is fairly new to me and sort of feminizing.

Over eating is a complete turn on but after being so stuffed and lethargic it makes me feel very submissive and vulnerable.


What I see in my wife when she gains quite a bit is the same....she becomes more submissive and way more vulnerable. She generally is pretty strong willed....but after she gains a good amount of weight she is less motivated and she tends to relax more ....sit around and eat and snack when she would otherwise be constantly doing something.

She also becomes more affectionate when she is heavier which I really like.....and definitely less will power and wants to celebrate together over big dinners and deserts.