Appetite changes
Out of nowhere I realize that I have gained a little weight and then I think back to how hungry I have been and how much hungrier I am lately. This is usually the time I get intrigued and intentionally start stuffing more because of my big appetite and see how much more I can gain.
My question is does anyone else go through this sudden appetite increase and ability to consume more food out of now where? Why does this happen....any ideas?
Not paying to much attention I would say it happens maybe 2-4 times per years for me....and I usually only act on really gaining maybe once or twice per year.
My question is does anyone else go through this sudden appetite increase and ability to consume more food out of now where? Why does this happen....any ideas?
Not paying to much attention I would say it happens maybe 2-4 times per years for me....and I usually only act on really gaining maybe once or twice per year.
11 years
Why do i feel so horrible? d;
All great stuff has been detailed here for her!
I want to echo the point of liquid for not only stuffing and to distend the belly in a huge way.....but once I used to get so full and tired of chewing I could still easily down several huge glasses of milk or even several milk shakes ....adding many calories that will soon get you fat as well.
I want to echo the point of liquid for not only stuffing and to distend the belly in a huge way.....but once I used to get so full and tired of chewing I could still easily down several huge glasses of milk or even several milk shakes ....adding many calories that will soon get you fat as well.
11 years
Noticing the gain around you
Being and FA and really into weight gain.....I feel like I always notice this...from a co-worker, a waitress at a restaurant I frequent, random people you see from time to time & obviously my wife.
I can tell if my wife gains 2 Lbs. and what part of her gets slightly fatter :




....but on the flip if she loses 2 lbs. I notice that as well (and it makes me sad).
Clothes have a lot to do with it as well as other factors with the small gains. Not to mention during that time of the month my wife can gain 3+ Lbs. and her breasts won;\'t barely fit into her bra "bulging out" and she look's much heavier





Actually seeing a woman I know..... or which can even be a news caster and notice that they have gained a good amount of weight really makes my day and puts a smile on my face with desire.
I can tell if my wife gains 2 Lbs. and what part of her gets slightly fatter :






Clothes have a lot to do with it as well as other factors with the small gains. Not to mention during that time of the month my wife can gain 3+ Lbs. and her breasts won;\'t barely fit into her bra "bulging out" and she look's much heavier






Actually seeing a woman I know..... or which can even be a news caster and notice that they have gained a good amount of weight really makes my day and puts a smile on my face with desire.
11 years
Feedees: ever orgasm just...
I have always loved my significant other being fatter and gaining weight.
But my biggest orgasms have come after I gained a lot of weight with a big gut and my significant other fatter with a lot of weight gain and being stuffed to the max both of us and making love with our big bellies getting in the way.
As far as orgasm myself as a male with being stuffed and already fatter I would say No....but certainly aroused and "Diamond cutter hard" to the max with the thought of fattening. It definitely is an erotic feeling being stuffed and fatter!
Also, my orgasms even with my wife being at her fattest didn't get to my most extreme until I got a big belly of my own for our sexual activities. But what obviously puts me over the edge is when we both have gained weight and she teases and discusses her weight gain or mine for that matter "EXCTASY"
But my biggest orgasms have come after I gained a lot of weight with a big gut and my significant other fatter with a lot of weight gain and being stuffed to the max both of us and making love with our big bellies getting in the way.
As far as orgasm myself as a male with being stuffed and already fatter I would say No....but certainly aroused and "Diamond cutter hard" to the max with the thought of fattening. It definitely is an erotic feeling being stuffed and fatter!
Also, my orgasms even with my wife being at her fattest didn't get to my most extreme until I got a big belly of my own for our sexual activities. But what obviously puts me over the edge is when we both have gained weight and she teases and discusses her weight gain or mine for that matter "EXCTASY"
11 years
Ocd numbers game?
Definitely do this ......and it usually happens at first when unintentionally I notice a gain, so I try and push it to the next increment intentionally.
Also, when I am actively and intentionally gaining ....like several times in the past few years the scale has a very interesting role. After eating and stuffing I will weigh myself which happens to be kind of thrilling in the first place because the scale usually reads higher because I am so full and stuffed not to mention when my Gut is so stuffed and bloated I can barely read the numbers on the scale because my huge Gut is in the way. During these times I will keep stuffing and then weigh myself several more times after eating, drinking and consuming more just to see the numbers rise higher in a matter of tens of minutes. I have actually drank several milk shakes after being so stuffed just to see the scale go up.
Also, when I am actively and intentionally gaining ....like several times in the past few years the scale has a very interesting role. After eating and stuffing I will weigh myself which happens to be kind of thrilling in the first place because the scale usually reads higher because I am so full and stuffed not to mention when my Gut is so stuffed and bloated I can barely read the numbers on the scale because my huge Gut is in the way. During these times I will keep stuffing and then weigh myself several more times after eating, drinking and consuming more just to see the numbers rise higher in a matter of tens of minutes. I have actually drank several milk shakes after being so stuffed just to see the scale go up.
11 years
Letting go
weighting4u wrote:
I have always been someone who puts on weight easily, but have never gotten too far overweight because I like to exercise (sometimes) and keep in shape (sometimes). But I go through phases where I just don't care about all that, and I get lazy and pack on the pounds. That is what has happened over the last year or so. I've gone from 128 to 154 and it is 100% unintentional. I have learned to embrace this about myself and to enjoy my body when I'm fat almost as much as when I'm fit. But now I'm at the point where I've gained too much to be in that grey area, of neither thin nor fat. I can no longer throw on a loose fitting blouse and hide the rolls. I can no longer look trim. Not by a long shot. The more it sinks in that people are seeing me as an overweight person, the more I wonder what difference it makes if I lose the weight or not. And I think of all the delicious things I could be eating right now if I had no desire to try to stop myself from gaining more weight. And these thoughts kind of blow my mind. I wonder what would happen if I just ate whatever I wanted whenever I wanted and gave in to every temptation. Would I blow up like a balloon?
Has anyone who had previously kept themselves in decent shape throughout their life ever felt this way? Was there a point when you were really able to say, "I don't care any more, I'm going to indulge and never look back!" If there was, what was the turning point for you? Or what event in your life caused you to change your perspective? And finally, did you gain an enormous amount of weight? If so, did you regret it?
I have always been someone who puts on weight easily, but have never gotten too far overweight because I like to exercise (sometimes) and keep in shape (sometimes). But I go through phases where I just don't care about all that, and I get lazy and pack on the pounds. That is what has happened over the last year or so. I've gone from 128 to 154 and it is 100% unintentional. I have learned to embrace this about myself and to enjoy my body when I'm fat almost as much as when I'm fit. But now I'm at the point where I've gained too much to be in that grey area, of neither thin nor fat. I can no longer throw on a loose fitting blouse and hide the rolls. I can no longer look trim. Not by a long shot. The more it sinks in that people are seeing me as an overweight person, the more I wonder what difference it makes if I lose the weight or not. And I think of all the delicious things I could be eating right now if I had no desire to try to stop myself from gaining more weight. And these thoughts kind of blow my mind. I wonder what would happen if I just ate whatever I wanted whenever I wanted and gave in to every temptation. Would I blow up like a balloon?
Has anyone who had previously kept themselves in decent shape throughout their life ever felt this way? Was there a point when you were really able to say, "I don't care any more, I'm going to indulge and never look back!" If there was, what was the turning point for you? Or what event in your life caused you to change your perspective? And finally, did you gain an enormous amount of weight? If so, did you regret it?
It's crazy how when you first gain a good amount of weight after being thin.....everyone who ever knew you becomes in shock and don't really hesitate to not only stare and double take but comment "Wow, you got FAT"
But as time goes on and those people get used to you being bigger it becomes almost natural and even the modest extra gains go not even noticed or discussed by the same people. It makes sense that it is a shock at first but it is funny that they almost accept the fatter you like it is normal now and the few extra Lbs. that you recently gained are either unnoticed or not that big of a deal like they have accepted the change. So, it is not really that the gain ever looked bad it is just a change or big difference at first i think. Or maybenthey have just put you into the Fat category now and assume that you will keep getting fatter!
As people get used to you being bigger than once thin it takes quite a bit more weight to usually induce a comment. I have found after I went through a phase of shock with friends from thin to much bigger it took a lot of weight to even get a comment. I would say even when I gained a good 30-40 Lbs. not to many of my friends really commented....I am sure several of them noticed and thought things to themselves and only a few commented, one being a girl friend of mine that I hadn't seen in several months, after we greeted each other with a big hug she said "Wow, you look good, you filled out a little, huh?" Almost a complimentary statement to say I got Fat in a non threatinng way.
Actually, several times I tried exactly what you said intentionally. I tried to fatten up to my highest weight for lack of my wife gaining weight and I became pretty turned on by how easy it seemed and how erotic and naughty it felt. I was trying to get up to 260--270 Lbs.
I never quite reached it but during this time there were many times where I felt totally out of control with my appetite and eating and couldn't believe how much I could consume. I can certainly see how when you get to a certain weight or get used to eating so much it is almost impossible to slow down and lose weight.
After I got to a point the intense desire to keep getting fatter kind of wore off but I still was the fattest I had ever been and it showed. My wife only commented a couple of times and a few colleagues at work noticed and in a round about way mentioned it.
The strangest thing was I tried multiple times to try and eat less and not snack or eat as much junk. I couldn't stop eating so much even though I tried. After I got to this weight I almost needed so much extra food to consume.....nearly 4 times as much as what I used to eat just 35 Lbs. earlier.
I sometimes wonder if there will be another adventure to try and beat my last weight gain?
11 years
How will it come back?
In my experiences with myself and my wife......It is easier to gain back much quicker...kind of like muscle memory....but it is Fat memory.
I noticed with myself that not only did I gain back very quick with eating more but it was softer on my belly not to mention some others areas fattened up softer and quicker.....like my butt, love handles and thighs.
My wife has gained , lost & re gained many more times. When she first started gaining her lower belly would really stick out with a nice huge lower belly roll when sitting but when standing it would look like she was pregnant. Her Butt, thighs and other areas would get thick and full along with her breasts expanding. Every regain she had was much softer and jiggly fat as opposed to her first gaining. Her Belly not only didn't blow outward as much but it really expanded wide through her waist and her love handles got really big and soft. Not to mention that lower belly bulge was much softer and she even formed softer fat above that lower belly bulge making it a slight double belly roll while sitting....still with the lower belly much bigger and prominent. Her thighs and Butt got really huge and soft not as tight and thick and her breast got really big and soft. Her upper arms really expanded and got very soft.....I love me some Fat upper arms.
So, I assume everyone is different but there is some similar progression to the weight that is re gained which it is softer and comes back on much quicker than the initial gain.
I noticed with myself that not only did I gain back very quick with eating more but it was softer on my belly not to mention some others areas fattened up softer and quicker.....like my butt, love handles and thighs.
My wife has gained , lost & re gained many more times. When she first started gaining her lower belly would really stick out with a nice huge lower belly roll when sitting but when standing it would look like she was pregnant. Her Butt, thighs and other areas would get thick and full along with her breasts expanding. Every regain she had was much softer and jiggly fat as opposed to her first gaining. Her Belly not only didn't blow outward as much but it really expanded wide through her waist and her love handles got really big and soft. Not to mention that lower belly bulge was much softer and she even formed softer fat above that lower belly bulge making it a slight double belly roll while sitting....still with the lower belly much bigger and prominent. Her thighs and Butt got really huge and soft not as tight and thick and her breast got really big and soft. Her upper arms really expanded and got very soft.....I love me some Fat upper arms.
So, I assume everyone is different but there is some similar progression to the weight that is re gained which it is softer and comes back on much quicker than the initial gain.
11 years
Outgrowing the non-fa crowd
weighting4u wrote:
Voluptuouslover, we did not talk about weight or how we looked in swimsuits, lol. We had a very real connection I thought. He had seen a few pics of me, and I saw some of him. To be honest, my were about 15 lbs ago, but they were only from head to above the waist. He had pics where he was shirtless and was really trim, but when I met him he had a large spare tire. LOL
Voluptuouslover, we did not talk about weight or how we looked in swimsuits, lol. We had a very real connection I thought. He had seen a few pics of me, and I saw some of him. To be honest, my were about 15 lbs ago, but they were only from head to above the waist. He had pics where he was shirtless and was really trim, but when I met him he had a large spare tire. LOL
Gotcha....I meant talked physical appearance what so ever or in anyway.
Funny about he ....having a spare tire from the picture shown to you prior. I guess everyone does that a bit I guess.
Ok....I hear ya....kinda erotic knowing that somebody turned you down because you were fatter than expected.
Hopefully your next blind set up will work something like this..........
You talk several times on the phone and find yourself growing more interested to meet him in person. Not only do you have many things in common but you like the sound of his deep voice and he likes your quick wit not to mention you find out that you both have a great love for fine dining. You finally meet up and you think he is not only great looking but think his muscular physique compliments your soft overly fleshy figure. You go out to romantic dinner and both overeat to a great extent while he he orders each of you deserts after asking what your favorite is on the menu....he then gently feeds the first bites of your desert to you softly and soon after starts seductively eating his. Your next several dates are centered around great dinning, food and wine. After a while you start to notice that you having been gaining a good amount of weight since you have been dating him and he has shown great affection towards all your chubbier parts. He comes to pick you up for the weekend to go away for a nice break to a resort and spa and you realize that his once tight ripped abs have formed a little soft belly that is straining his shirt. After arriving at the resort you both change into your bathing suits and for the first time see each other out of clothes in your respective bathing suits....his eyes bulge as he look's at your amazing figure and then say's you look truly Beautiful and proceeds to put his arm around your waist and his hand on your love handle that quivers a bit as it squishes in to his touch. As you walk to the pool you notice his once tight abs have a nice belly roll hanging over his waist band that jiggles with every step. It look's as if his once perfectly fitting bathing suit is much to small already.
Upon arriving to the pool he takes it upon himself to order from the waitress a nice array of food for both of you to eat. as you both lay down in the lounge chairs he leans over to you and whispers in your ear "you look absolutely stunning" and tells you that your curves are breathtaking. He then tells you he better watch his fine eating habits or you might make him Fat ....just while he finishes telling you this the huge spread of food he ordered arrives and he look's extremely happy as he starts stuffing his face.
To be continued...... But I think it is heading for a Mutual Fattening future!
11 years
Outgrowing the non-fa crowd
Did you discuss anything on your phone conversations about each others builds etc.?
Did you get any idea of the physical style of woman he likes on the phone?
As far as your figure.....for example your Bikini pic with your lower belly bulge....myself being an FA and into weight gain would be thrilled and couldn't wait to help get you bigger after seeing that remarkable belly bulge.
Even if I was a guy that wasn't into weight gain I still wouldn't discount you based on your figure or weight especially since he is out of shape. But that is usually the type of guy that thinks having a scrawny beautiful woman by his side makes him look better.
For the record.....you have an amazing figure from the pics I have seen....and to me it only looks better with the more weight you gain. You have a extremely cute lower belly bulge. Also, on the flip side I have plenty of friends that are not FA's whose wives or girlfriends have developed a belly bulge and they seem to like it.
So I think it may just be the wrong guy. I would be interested to know how some of your phone conversations went without even discussing appearance at all?
Did you get any idea of the physical style of woman he likes on the phone?
As far as your figure.....for example your Bikini pic with your lower belly bulge....myself being an FA and into weight gain would be thrilled and couldn't wait to help get you bigger after seeing that remarkable belly bulge.
Even if I was a guy that wasn't into weight gain I still wouldn't discount you based on your figure or weight especially since he is out of shape. But that is usually the type of guy that thinks having a scrawny beautiful woman by his side makes him look better.
For the record.....you have an amazing figure from the pics I have seen....and to me it only looks better with the more weight you gain. You have a extremely cute lower belly bulge. Also, on the flip side I have plenty of friends that are not FA's whose wives or girlfriends have developed a belly bulge and they seem to like it.
So I think it may just be the wrong guy. I would be interested to know how some of your phone conversations went without even discussing appearance at all?
11 years
Coming out - feeders & feedees
Interesting topic.....with varied responses I am sure!
As far as myself I guess it was sort of different with everyone I told or alluded this to.
My first long term girlfriend during High School who happened to be very open and quite adventurous. I told her I liked it when she gained weight. She was pretty open to it and gained weight fairly easy. She would eat tons of food and stuff herself in front of me and others and then make comments about how Fat she was getting. On several occasions usually after one of these stuffings around friends and acquaintances she would comment right in front of me that I don't seem to mind how Fat she has become and for that matter how much Fatter she is going to get. It was pretty arousing but kind of embarrassing the same at this time. So, indirectly speaking many of her friends and some of her work acquaintances found out about my fetish as well.
I openly told many of my buddies back just after High
school that I hung out with that I like thicker women with Big butts and big breasts. They probably thought that I liked a little bit of extra weight on the women I desired...or at least that's what I thought they were thinking. Until one day a couple of these friends and I were at a bar and one of them asked me and pointed in the direction of a girl and said is she thick enough while smiling at me. As I looked over this pretty girl was around 5' 3" and gorgeous weighing around 230 Lbs. and I was definitely thinking she was exactly what I like and I said kinda of slowly "now thats a big one" as if I thought she was to big.....just as I did the one friend said oh she is to thick? I just let it go....even though I thought she was so damn sexy. But at this stage of my openness I tried to deny liking girls that fat. It's crazy to think that I would desire that same girl with an extra 100+ Lbs. today and be totally comfortable letting everyone know.
Lastly, my wife know's I would love her to gain weight and when she does I encourage her to gain even more when she considers herself Fat at that point already. Little does she know that even at her heaviest, which I loved, she couldn't believe how much I liked her at that weight, which she considered so Fat.......she would be totally disgusted if she knew I dream of her getting even 100 Lbs. bigger than she was.
So, when you say coming out I am sure it will be varied based on many situations. A couple of my past girlfriends and my wife know I love weight gain on them and like Fat but I have only really discussed extreme weight gain with one of them. I told her she would only be sexier with the more she gained and she would never get Fat enough that I wouldn't love every one of her Lbs. She would always want to know and role play how Fat I would want her to get. She was probably the one I talked most openly about how Fat I would love for her to get because she always wanted to know. Still I never put a number on it because she was kind of insecure I would just show her as I placed my arms around her and move them out and she would get pretty excited about me loving her fatter because she struggled with her weight several times in her life and just loved that I loved her even Fatter.
As far as myself I guess it was sort of different with everyone I told or alluded this to.
My first long term girlfriend during High School who happened to be very open and quite adventurous. I told her I liked it when she gained weight. She was pretty open to it and gained weight fairly easy. She would eat tons of food and stuff herself in front of me and others and then make comments about how Fat she was getting. On several occasions usually after one of these stuffings around friends and acquaintances she would comment right in front of me that I don't seem to mind how Fat she has become and for that matter how much Fatter she is going to get. It was pretty arousing but kind of embarrassing the same at this time. So, indirectly speaking many of her friends and some of her work acquaintances found out about my fetish as well.
I openly told many of my buddies back just after High
school that I hung out with that I like thicker women with Big butts and big breasts. They probably thought that I liked a little bit of extra weight on the women I desired...or at least that's what I thought they were thinking. Until one day a couple of these friends and I were at a bar and one of them asked me and pointed in the direction of a girl and said is she thick enough while smiling at me. As I looked over this pretty girl was around 5' 3" and gorgeous weighing around 230 Lbs. and I was definitely thinking she was exactly what I like and I said kinda of slowly "now thats a big one" as if I thought she was to big.....just as I did the one friend said oh she is to thick? I just let it go....even though I thought she was so damn sexy. But at this stage of my openness I tried to deny liking girls that fat. It's crazy to think that I would desire that same girl with an extra 100+ Lbs. today and be totally comfortable letting everyone know.
Lastly, my wife know's I would love her to gain weight and when she does I encourage her to gain even more when she considers herself Fat at that point already. Little does she know that even at her heaviest, which I loved, she couldn't believe how much I liked her at that weight, which she considered so Fat.......she would be totally disgusted if she knew I dream of her getting even 100 Lbs. bigger than she was.
So, when you say coming out I am sure it will be varied based on many situations. A couple of my past girlfriends and my wife know I love weight gain on them and like Fat but I have only really discussed extreme weight gain with one of them. I told her she would only be sexier with the more she gained and she would never get Fat enough that I wouldn't love every one of her Lbs. She would always want to know and role play how Fat I would want her to get. She was probably the one I talked most openly about how Fat I would love for her to get because she always wanted to know. Still I never put a number on it because she was kind of insecure I would just show her as I placed my arms around her and move them out and she would get pretty excited about me loving her fatter because she struggled with her weight several times in her life and just loved that I loved her even Fatter.
11 years