What if there was a feedist version of kickstarter, that would allow people to finance their gain if enough money was donated?

Would anyone here (besides me (I'd be a donor)) participate?

Pot-belly with lovehandles on the side.

I had a gf who lost weight. It was definitely a buzz kill while she was losing, but when she hit her target weight* and stayed there for awhile I eventually adjusted.

Not sure if the same will happen with your bf, but there's a good chance. If you care about each other, hang in there!

* She was still chubby there, just not as much as before. If she had actually gotten THIN I may have had a problem!

Yes. It's a little off on a few details, but it's better than nothing!

Two words: alligator wrestling

P??? Sure about that? This would be p:

It depends on a lot of things besides size, but I reckon the main criterion is : how much she can gain and still do her job?

Then the question is, what's her job? If she's a ballerina, the answer is maybe two pounds. If she does phone support or she's a circus fat lady, it would be a lot more.

After thinking about this quite a bit, my generic advice to feedees is:

If you gain on purpose, there is a risk that you'll get bigger than you want. And you may not be able to change your mind and lose the weight.

It's only a risk, not a certainty, but
you shouldn't gain unless you're prepared to accept the risk.

And that's okay--a lot of people accept risks to do what they love. Mountain climbers, smokers, race car drivers, etc. Why not feedees?

That's true--only trouble is a lot of feedees don't know what they want and what they're specifically trying to do!

"How to Get Fat" on my site may help.