Should i give in to gaining?

Feedee0504:
I've always been fit and I go to the gym regularly. Getting fat has always been a huge fantasy of mine. I would love it but there are obvious downsides. Having a female feeder would make things much easier.

Morbidly A Beast:
It won’t happen overnight if you start to actively gain so why not give in and see how it goes after a few weeks. You kinda want to want for yourself and a lot of female feeders I’ve seen want guys already pretty big like as low as 300 I’ve seen obviously that’s not all female feeders and of course where you live you might have feeders everywhere it all depends. Also there’s no guarantee you’ll ever find a feeder maybe someone who likes your size so it’s gotta be something you want for yourself and external fatter be damned type of thing. I’ve actively gained over 160 lbs and I’m still not worried I won’t find a feeder or something just enjoying myself and food


Idk about necessarily wanting a big guy. It's more about wanting proof that this person won't flake out on them.

I've got nothing against smaller feedees. But, based on my experiences as well as talking to others, the thinner the feedee, the more likely they are to flake out, freak out, or get hostile to you fattening them up.

It's not a fun situation to be in.
7 months

Food intolerances and gaining

CustardCream:
I've finally taken a blood test and I'm now looking for your advice on how to maintain my weight and ideally gain without eating the following things, which I'm highly intolerant of:

Dairy, Wheat, Gluten, Yeast, Soybean, Egg white, Peanut, Hazelnut, and Beef.

That has killed off most of the food groups my autistic mind finds safe to eat, and indeed overeat. I've never been adventurous with food, as many tastes, smells, and textures will set me on edge, however I think I'm going to have to overcome this. For example, avocados are too slimy to me, but I see they are often suggested.

All thoughts and suggestions very gratefully received!


I'm autistic with a lot of food sensitivites and allergies. I'm sorry to say this, but you'll have to suck it up and start exploring.

The good news is that you still have options. Check out the vegan food and the gluten-free section. You can also check out the natural/organic food scene. There's a lot of food diversity that will open up a lot of avenues for you. I'd also start cooking more because your grocery bill is going to go up no matter what.

Speaking from experience.

That said, you'll lose some weight. This is not fat loss, but rather inflammation and fluid retention leaving the body. This is normal and good.

In the mean time, you can try other nuts you aren't allergic too like almonds and pistachios. There are milk alternatives like oat, rice, and almond. You can find turkey versions of most things out there for reasonable prices.

If you want to get something more specific, just ask. I had to live this life since I was 6 and we share similar allergens.
7 months

Appetite stimulants

HRHB15:
Thank you, I tired Apetamin for a few days once. It scared me how tired it made me lol. But maybe I’ll give it another shot at some point.


I wouldn't. There's a reason why it's illegal in our country.

There are better, easier, and most cost effective ways to gain.
7 months

Should i give in to gaining?

Feedee0504:
I've always been fit and I go to the gym regularly. Getting fat has always been a huge fantasy of mine. I would love it but there are obvious downsides. Having a female feeder would make things much easier.


As a female feeder, I disagree. It will only make things easier if you have already committed to it and would happily get fat if she wasn't your feeder.

In my experience, a feedee who hasn't committed will turn around and use their feeder as a scapegoat. That way they don't have to accept responsibility for anything.
7 months

Eating lard?

Dallarydoos:
Just a heads up, all other comments aside about nausea and health risks, you're going to get really bad loose stools. Like "bring a change of pants" bad. I mean you might be able to pair it with foods that slow intestinal motility (foods low in fiber) but I don't know if it's worth the risk above maybe a spoonful for funsies now and then.

LuvsChub04:
ya just like eating a stick of butter you'll get the runs, n sometimes not know when its gunna happen.my ex ate six of butter n was sent home from work for well shitting her pants..

Munchies:
If you ever get a bottle of mineral oil, you'll see it doubles as a laxative. The same goes for all forms of fat consumed in high quantities. It's honestly better to cook with lard instead of eating a whole bunch of it.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Oh, at some point in my gains, I tried vegetable oil, olive oil, shortening, and butter. Let me strongly caution against ALL of this. Why? Because you will defecate randomly and uncontrollably, and it will continue for days. And it won't be pretty or easy to clean. Take it from me, do yourself a favor, and find another way.


I believe it. The human body was not meant to process large amounts of fat at once.

Pairing it with other things will slow it down, but it won't stop the laxative effect. And if you do it long term enough, your organs will not thank you.
7 months

Low sec drive?

MVP76:
Sometimes ones drive is also related entirely to other things besides weight. Have you considered alternative explanations? Could the weight gain just be a red herring?


It often is. The weight in and of itself doesn't effect libido. But it can coexist with other issues - specifically the ones I mentioned in my initial post.
7 months

Low sec drive?

Cinstarly:
Yeah I know, but by exercising they mean they want me to loose weight. They’ve said that I should exercise to lose about 40 pounds.


I'm curious. Do you exercise or eat at least a fairly balanced diet? Fruits, veggies, protein, and all that other good stuff?

I've noticed that those who don't do that can see their energy and sex drive plummet no matter their size.
7 months

Low sec drive?

Cinstarly:
I’ve gone to the doctor about it and they said to do exercise but that’s completely the opposite of what I want lol not sure how to approach it now. They don’t want to do anything about it unless I lose weight, so I’ve kinda lost hope for me


Did you know that you can exercise and still get fatter? Lotta people on here do that very thing. Plus, it boosts your libido.
7 months

Low sec drive?

Cinstarly:
I meant weight gain. But I’m a female so no ED here lol


Apologies. Still need to see a doctor for all the same reasons. Your plumbing might be different, but the effects are the same.

Yes, gaining weight runs the risk of having a low libido, but it doesn't have to.
7 months