Nice Post....I totally get it!
Hope you get back together or find someone else to share this unbelievable relationship with.

Yep....I think Sarahhh is exactly right!

Your girl has been leading to liking extra weight and also to really liking you with how she commented about your ex-weight.

The surprise is so much more erotic and sexy. You can actually give her such an erotic shock. Especially on this first visit....then after you discuss it with her possibly ask if you should keep going with the gain. Then your next visit leading up you guys can discuss on the phone how much you have been eating and how stuffed you always are and how fat you are getting/feel. This will be a thrill while waiting to see her next.

Happy times I believe are in your near future.

As far as things to eat to gain....Carbs, sweets and protein...anything you feel like and really just keep try to eat more and more. Remember when you get full you still should be able to drink lots of calories such as fattening milk shakes. I always seem to be able to drink at least two fattening milk shakes when I already think I am stuffed to the max.

Eventually with all this eating, stuffing and stretching of your new fat belly you will soon be able to eat so much more in every meal and actually become a greedy pig with your appetite.

Good luck and keep us posted!

Hey last_key....No.. that's not all I care about with regard to my Wife but as previously stated I was simply venting my frustration as an FA going through this loss of weight and explaining my feelings about it. Even if my feeling's were wrong they are my feeling's and I wanted to discuss them at that time in a place where some like minded people have felt the same way possibly.

I come here like I previously stated to discuss similar things with people into the same fetish and not really impose my aggressive thoughts on. I know myself that I try not to be judgmental to any posts I read but rather offer info. regarding the topic.... or I merely pass over them and not get involved. I am not really sure what upset you so much but Wow bro....sorry if I struck a wrong chord with you. And that goes for anyone else as well.

Also, I firmly believe and actually live my life this way.....that every situation is truly different even though they may be similar... but there are still many different variables that change the total equation.

Some things get better with age.... Good Wine, WISDOM, Wealth and hopefully with my Wife an increase in Weight.

I appreciate the last two posts....Thank you!

Simply stating my feeling's which is why I would imagine people come to this board as well as support with people who have the same particular fetish/ kink etc.

Yep one of the sexiest things is when my wife starts to gain a few extra Lbs. ..... after she showers and she is in her Bra and tiny panties. Walking around before she gets dressed all the way and watching her belly jiggle and bounce with every step and when she really gains some good Lbs. her belly kind of jiggles and sways a bit from side to side!

Very erotic just thinking about it!

Something like Pomegranite Green Tea

That is very cool.....that teasing adds so much to the erotic nature of it all.

In the past several years I almost get more turned on by my wife noticing my gain and Fat Gut. She only seems to mention or tease about it slightly when she is a bit intoxicated though. It is a crazy turn on when she say's something like "Wow, what is all this, as she palms and shakes my big Gut after being stuffed." I really need to play with more and take it to the next level but I almost think that would over do it.

I Know what you mean, this started happening to me when I put on a lot of weight and my Gut was big and bloated all the time. My wife was pretty heavy at the time as well. I was always horny not to mention always stuffed because I couldn't stop stuffing myself. Many times after a big meal followed by several desserts we would settle down to go to bed both of us stuffed looking and "Feeling" 60 Lbs. heavier. She was so stuffed and I would initiate sex she was uncomfortable at first being so stuffed and it was unbelievably great. Afterwards she laid there looking beautifully Fat and exhausted still panting and breathing heavy while I tried to roll off of her with my big distended Gut squishing into her and then me falling to the side of her on the bed making it shake for what seemed like several minutes as I lay on my back with my huge Gut sticking up compressing in and out rapidly trying to catch my breath. (Got a little descriptive)

I think it hits on all levels of arousal for us FA/Weight gain enthusiasts because we are not only feeling that much bigger because we are so stuffed/bloated along with our partners but even our movements were struggling feeling that bloated and fat. Not to mention she looked and felt so much fatter. I can truly say it has a lot to do for me with my bigger belly also. Before I had this big of a gut she was even heavier and had a bigger belly and the struggles of our bellies pushing together now made it that much more erotic for me. It was almost the effort that it took and our bellies getting in the way and feeling way more out of breath made it so much better.

It's kind of strange as time goes on my fetish has turned from FA and weight gain on partner to Mutual gaining even more. Not to mention now Mutual Gaining with Stuffing, unfortunately I am not there with my wife but I would imagine that would be the ultimate. I simply enjoy when she gains weight and try to get her to notice my gains and tease me when I go through a stuffing gaining phase myself.

lLoved your post....you are one Lucky guy having your Girl gain so much weight for you.

Does she tease you with her gaining and discuss gaining all the time with you?

In my case weight gain depended on my age and more with when my metabolism finally slowed down a bit. Which is the case with most guy's.

So I was tall and really lean muscle and could not gain any weight. I would lift weights, drink huge calorie weight gain shakes, eat fast food & junk like donuts etc. when I was younger to try and get as much calories in to gain. I would gain some weight after several weeks to a month with eating and consuming many many calories maybe 5-7 Lbs. but the workouts turned it mostly into slightly bigger muscle still lean and I couldn't even pinch much belly fat at all. Back in those days I was trying to get the all over bulkier build and didn't mind some belly fat, in fact I kind of wanted a belly along with bulkier muscles. After i slowed down on eating that much, which was impossible for me to keep up, I would lose all the weight.

All of a sudden when I hit 25 yrs. old my metabolism changed and I began to gain weight. At this stage of my life I wasn't playing any more competitive sports and I had a desk job. My eating fast food and junk food any time I wanted didn't change. in the course of 2 years my total body changed from Tall, thin lean muscle to Big, bulky muscle with a fat gut. I gained around 60 Lbs. in that time. During the beginning I didn't even realize I was gaining weight because I never could ever gain weight before without huge effort. During this time I was living with a serious girlfriend and she was always cooking and baking and we were like a young married couple.

Obviously all these factors played a roll but it is usually age, metabolism changing and stage of life with activity.
Mine happened to develop all at the same time and it was a big bang.

As far as your Partner eating a bunch of junk food, I don't think it is that terrible being that he is so under weight and if he is fairly young. It would be a good idea to try and have him consume a ton of carbohydrates along with protein to give him a hearty base along with fatty desserts afterwards.

How old is he? Do you want your partner to gain a lot more?

I have read and understand all your insight and points. Obviously there are many variables and every situation is different even though the main principle is very general and applies simply.

When I was your age unfortunately I had No knowledge of anyone with the same fetish of Weight gain. Not to mention the Internet was not as user friendly as now, or possibly not as much activity. So needless to say I had no idea anyone else liked what I liked with regard to Fat and Weight gain. I simply encountered in my past relationships and with my wife when we were dating that we would eat together all the time and my partners would start to gain some weight and I would tell them how great they looked and in only a few cases tell them that I liked them curvier and I wouldn't mind if they gained more weight. Mind you these were serious relationships with Girlfriends for at least 3 years or more. One of my Girlfriends and my Wife both had a point in their lives in the past were they were heavier so I kind of imagined that would happen again and I would certainly be fine with that.

So when I met my Wife as we were dating I was in love, not only for her physically but for many other factors: Personality, how she carried herself, her caring nature, and maturity. Also, I never knew there would be a girl/women that was turned on by weight gain like me. Many years later I realize their are women that have this same fetish, albeit kind of rare to find a women that you connect on all levels and love and that is into this Fetish.

Yes, it would definitely be much much much easier if my Wife was into this Fetish but she isn't. But I have always imagined that she would really gain a lot of weight and eventually be fine with it with all the love and attention I give her. With that said and I don't know if anyone else can relate to this or has experienced this but when she is heavier she is much more relaxed, softer, gentle and more vulnerable. Now she has never been one to discuss her weight gain a lot but when she is heavier she will start to joke around a bit for example while eating a bag of chocolates she will say something like "well I guess finishing the last of these isn't going to make me any fatter than I already am" . Which obviously I love hearing so I relish in the moments that she would say things like while lying down in bed next to me as she groans "wow, it's hard moving all this extra weight around, Your wife is getting Fat". Also she is more cuddly and less objective of others. When she get's thinner she is less sensitive and has a tendency to comment on others about their weight. She will mention things like "she is getting really big and unhealthy" , so its almost like she changes as a person also.

A perfect example of how different her attitude and reactions are when she is thinner. Her friend gained 20+ Lbs. and I thought she looked great and my wife said "she really needs to get her weight under control, she is getting really big" as opposed to when my wife is heavier she has commented before when the same girl gained around the same amount she said after I commented to my wife "she tends to go up and down a bit but she still look's good I think." So her outlook is totally different. I feel mainstream society has a lot to do with her perception of weight not only on her but others as well.

So, I agree with what you said but I can't say that I feel any different not to mention I want my cuddly, gentler and vulnerable wife back with the weight she one had who doesn't eat like a bird and actually enjoy's eating some great meals not to mention all the desserts she use to enjoy with a passion.

Sorry so long-