Sounds great to me!
11 years
Azrael wrote:
You reap what you sow.
You're a feeder and/or mutual gainer and you're upset that someone is losing weight.
Surely you must have realized that if you have a partner who is not into the whole kink that they may very well desire losing weight.
This is a type of thing that feeders have to consider BEFORE they decide to take a partner who isn't into it.
If you decide to talk to her about it
I would be very mindful about what you say as sometimes feeders will come off as pushy when they talk about this sort of problem.
ANYWAYS beyond talking to her about your feelings the other thing you need to do is be supportive. It is HER BODY HER CHOICE and if she wants to lose weight, you best be supportive.
That's really all I can think about doing.
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I don't seem very sympathetic because I view that such a problem should be thought about before you are with someone as this scenario is always a possibility for feeders when they are with someone who isn't a feedee.
I wouldn't call myself a feeder! In fact I like it when my wife gains weight by herself from good eating and over indulging with great meals I take her out to, not to mention snacking and eating desserts. I simply at various times make sure there is enough good food around in the house to allow her to snack.
To top it off I have like three of my close friends always complaining to me that their wives keep getting fatter and fatter and that they need to lose weight. All I wish for is my wife to gain that weight, crazy to think about.
Trust me, any weight my wife gains she just keeps looking hotter and hotter.
11 years
johnxyz wrote:
Dieting slows the metabolism. Green tea doesn't work anyway. It is very likely she will regain more than she loses.
I disagree about discussing it with her. Let nature take its course.
I hope this will happen! Thanks for your input.
11 years
My wife has been drinking "green Tea" for around a month now. When I first saw it in the fridge I was like Ok she is trying to lose weight (Damn). I have not brought anything up to her but I have seen some weight loss on her after about a month of drinking plenty of it, nothing dramatic but even 5-7 Lbs. is devastating in my eyes.
I of course was wanting her to gain weight not lose and here it goes in a terrible direction.
The very thought of her getting thinner depresses me, not only because she look's so much better and healthy when she gains weight, but I feel a sense of betrayal almost when she is trying to lose weight. I know it's weird but I totally feel disattatched and betrayed.
Just when I was hoping she would pack on 10-15 Lbs. before bikini season and I wouldn't even be able to take my hands off of her and dream about her all the time.
Any guy feel the same way about this?
Anyone know how much potentially she could lose if she keeps drinking this stuff? I have noticed it definitely has curbed her appetite, because she hardly snacks and eats considerably less during meals.
How fast can her weight come back on if she stops drinking it?
I am so frustrated and I hate the feeling of not even being connected to her through this!
Should I talk to her about it, and if so, how should I approach? She know's I have always wanted her to gain weight but I never bring it up anymore.
11 years
rubens_feeder wrote:
I have made a very hot discovery: Fenugreek the herb.
Centuries past, they used it to fatten up animals, it worked very reliable. And as I write these lines, I can attest that it is working on me as efficiently as it did on the pigs. It is so exciting to feel it in my belly, how it is making me hungry and how I yearn to be fattened up more.
It seems to lower the blood sugar and even though I have eaten like a pig all day long, I am still hungry, I sometimes get the feeling I am starving.
No wonder it make pigs fatter, you eat nonstop with this thing.
I have also noticed that the full bloated feeling that tells me "stop eating, you have more than too much" goes away. Suddenly, my stomach does not feel so uncomfortable pumped up anymore and I feel like eating more.
And it's probably important to watch out, to not overdo it, because a stomach cannot take unlimited pressure. And now that the feeling of being sated is gone, it will animate you to eat constantly. What this does in terms of stretching the stomach is a total dream and how strongly fattening, the next weeks will clearly show in my picture gallery.
I wonder what fenugreek does with the sugar, if it neutralizes it? That would be less fattening.
But if it makes the body believe that it is starving, even while you eat so copiously and fat, the hunger will open up the fat cells and store much more fat. Much like the yoyo effect does.
Do you guys have experience with fenugreek? Does this only work so well for me?
Taking too much of this stuff could also be potentially dangerous, as your blood sugar might fall too low and create a dangerous situation for your body. But that is just theory.
I take two capsules of Nature's Way Fenugreek Seed 610 mg and that makes me really hungry, and mind you, I'm 6 foot 4.
It is really hot for me to realize that this herb was used to fatten up animals and that it will work exactly as efficiently on me.
How long have you been taking and how much have you gained?
Are the Nature made pills your taking gels, capsules or regular pills?
Do you know of any other's that have taken and gained a significant amount of weight......or does it just give a boost in appetite for a few weeks and then go away?
I read some stuff and it all sounds pretty good.....just would like to know any other results. Also, the fenugreek tea seems like it can help weight loss.....I would hate to take and lose weight not gain....right?
11 years
I think like most have said is genetics.....but with that said changes in weights at certain points can change body types a bit.
For example my wife being fairly short at 5' 3" at 150 Lbs. was a total hour glass......at 175 Lbs. hour glass but merging into a little more pear......just over 200 Lbs. she was more a pear than hour glass with her legs and hips and butt really gaining at that stage. Even though her upper arms, lower belly and breasts were quite big her shoulders stayed the same obviously and her lower half kept growing.
I woul imagine if I was ever fortunate enough to see her gain to 250 Lbs. she would keep growing in the pear direction and much more bottom heavy that would be totally sexy for my liking.
11 years
I have been finding I can actually eat more but I almost get lazy chewing.....so during these times it's amazing how I can drink 4-5 glasses of whole milk after eating and it goes down pretty darn easy.
My stomach balloons out so huge and I am sure it stretches it for more food intake in the future.
even a thicker liquid like milk shakes go down pretty easy after I am already stuffed and add a lot of calories and stretch the belly more.
11 years
Like several people have said previously:
Mostly things to do with Weight gain and Fat!!!
Also, with the weight gain and Fat.... I really love Femininity!
I guess these don't really qualify as a Fetish but here are some I really like......
> How a women makes gestures with her Hands in a soft feminine way.
> I love when my wife turns her hands backwards on her hips...actually above her hips squishing into her Love handles and pushing her love handles a good four inches of blubber on each side... sigh!
> When a women sits and her Fat lower belly spills on to her lap
> I love small to tight Lingerie on a fattened up woman
> I like beautiful women's hands that when they gain there fingers even puff up.....oh ya they have to be feminine.
The thing that really get's me going along with weight gain...... is the smell of soap on a women's skin....or the smell of a woman all soaped up in a shower drives me pretty crazy!
I guess I really like Fat women who are very pretty and feminine that smell like soap and keep gaining weight.....oh ya....while they are wearing lingerie!
11 years
I have been eating like crazy.....big heavy Italian, Mexican etc. lunches & dinners totally fattening along with stuffing Milk shakes and cookies etc. after eating these meals.
It has started for me....time for my next meal and I don't even feel hungry after all the food and calories I consumed stuffing my belly from the previous meal. The minute I start eating surprisingly I can not only finish another fattening meal but can certainly drink a lot after wards. For example if I have sweets and I start to feel full and not even want my jaws to move up and down kind of like they are tired of chewing.....I still can drink probably 40 plus ounces of while milk. It goes down so easy and expands my belly so much. I almost feel like I could drink a whole gallon if I tried.
I guess that's why the big time gainers start funnel feeding their huge bellies. I almost feel like I could do that when I get so bored of chewing.
Anyone else experience this?
11 years
You never know......but one thing for certain is that most people are not into weight gain like we are.
With that said she may get comfortable with you gaining and start to gain herself because f the company and feel that she has a partnership against her parents and become a bit liberated with it. But on the other hand you may get fatter and her as well and she might get more embarrassed by it.
I say......go for it and see where things go....I am certainly no expert at this and there are so many combinations of things that can happen and develop.
Maybe you guy's turn into a happy Fat loving mutual gaining couple and you relationship and love making become unbelievable perfect weighing in at a combined weight of 600 Lbs. together and rocking your bed.
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