I wish you all the best on your journey, and thank you for the kind and encouraging words!

You goal weight is one I aspire too, in my still under control unrealistic aspirations.

I must say that I shared because it took me more than 20 years to finally take the small steps towards fatness. Don't miss out like I did. Even if I started 10 years ago, I'd be significantly fatter and my confidence would be much higher.

It sounds like regrets, but I'm also happy I finally did it at all. So if what I wrote here could help someone take the step right now, they might enjoy it longer.

Getting intentionally fatter is a serious step to think about in depth, but if someone's only reason not to do it is apprehension-based, baby steps to dip your toe in the feedee mindset are easier to undo than regretting not doing it at all.

Gaining weight on purpose is probably the best idea I ever had.

Like I probably explained elsewhere, I wanted to get fat since childhood. I won't lie, its hard. I have a high metabolism, a fragilized digestion due to a severe apendicitis a while back, but it still fucking works!

I stretched my stomach, took gainer, ate tons of carbs and nuts. Although I'll have the occasional fast-food binge to reward myself for a positive accomplishment, I try to gain as healthily as I can stand. Being from the country, my tolerance ends up still higher than most to vegetables, so yaaay, vitamins!

The real main feature of this captivating introduction is that I finally have a pinch of blubber on my abdomen. I never loved my body so much since it gently started filling-out. I genuinely turn myself on.

I mean, I get aroused by my progressively balloning midsection, my rounding and cellulite-covered ass, my slightly thicker thighs, my small A cup moobs, my love handles, my burgeoning rolls, the flab forming on my sides...

Since when do I find myself attractive? I can't stop filming and taking selfies of myself and my new girth. I'm preparing a stop motion progression of my gain, but I'll share it once I reach 80 kg.

There isn't a thing I dislike about getting fat. It doesn't go as fast as I anticipated, but I have more time to enjoy my progress.

The only thing missing for my literal and metaphoric fullfilment would be a woman sharing the fetish and hopefully with gentle but demanding feeder tendencies or mastery (if there's such a thing).

BTW, this isn't a cry for help or a thirst trap. It's just an idealized projection of myself in a future where I'll reach 80kg and above. I'll probably stop at 84, I tend to lose weight easily, I want to stay the magical (for me, now around 75 kg) eighty for at least a while and, fingers crossed, forever. I also daydream about getting help and reaching 100 and above, but beyond daydreaming, I already love myself as is, and I'll get fatter and fatter at my rhythm, enjoying each delights and ordeals of my gently growing frame at my own pace.

Thank you for the tips!

Dude, at our age (I'm 41), gaining is even easier.

We burn less calories, our metabolism slows and we naturally accumulate belly fat without trying.

I weigh 71 kg for 177 cm, I'm a twig and still have a tiny paunch.

I started to gain on purpose this week and although I didn't gain much weight yet (around a kilo) it went straight to my belly.

Define "short term" please. I started a mass gainer and I would like an estimation of what time-frame could be relatively safe. If I should take breaks every now and then and so on.

I don't care much about my health, if I'm honest, but I wouldn't want too disabling consequences.

I've been a shadow in the feederism/FA community since puberty and finally got out of the closet as a feedee.

I'm skinny at the moment (70kg for 177cm, so yeah, I'm mostly a twig), and I'm taking a weight gainer to change that, but the process is so fucking slow given my crazy high metabolism and my body taking time to adjust to the higher calorie intake (currently 2000 cal of weight gainer a day plus snacks here and there, but my appetite is slowly increasing, I just sarted).

Want to partake in or take charge of my gain? If you're authoritary (but no need to be mean) and convincing enough, I might do exactly what you want.

PM me if interested, curious or if you just want to chat.

I recently came out of a 20 years relationship and I'm not necessarily ready for anything long term for now, but who knows where it might lead us?

Women only, please.

I'm not homophobic, or adverse to trans people, but I have huge trust issues with men (I'm in therapy, so I won't whine about my issues with you).

Yes, when I saw how nice people were here, I destroyed my Feabie account. What a toxc site full of assholes and weirdoes (the bad kind, not the fun one).

I know no site is devoid of them, but I never saw such a concentration in one place, and I've been in videogames forums!

Oh, and my stomach is used to overeating, it's just that I never keep the weight.

Thank you all for all the excellent advice and to worry for me!

I was planning to start slow anyway.

I waited 25 years to gain, I won't risk ruining everything I wished for me by being reckless.

I won't do sport, because I never did and never will, but I have a relatively active job and a lot of stairs to keep a semblance of shape. Being agoraphobic, I also tend to walk often to avoid public transports as much as possible.

for the rest I will follow your tips (the reasonable ones, although the unreasonable ones still gave me a kick in the fetish), so thank you all again!

PS : I'm on other fetish sites and forums, and you lot are the first people I interacted with who felt like human beings and not freakish online goblins.

I just received a notification that the powder was on its way, hiiiiiiii!