What brought about your fat fetish and when?

HappyBigBelly:
I always love telling mine and my wife’s gaining story — always love seeing these “origin story” threads :-)

My first memory of encountering fat was a regained memory told to me years after the fact by my mother. I would play with the arm fat of any female relative when I was a toddler and was being held. I’m told my grandmother slapped me one time for doing it.

In young adulthood, I felt the attraction to chubby girls starting in middle school and on into high school. I didn’t have a girlfriend until I was out of high school (wasn’t ever part of the clique, as they say), but nothing turned me on like a pair of chubby cheeks, chubby upper arms or big thighs. Chubby bare feet still turn me on as well :-)

My first steady girlfriend wasn’t all that fat to start out with, but over five years we ate well enough to fill out the both of us. Her arms and belly puffed out mightily; probably gained at least 50 pounds being with me.

Another five-year relationship followed when I moved to another state. She was already heavy, about 5-6 and anywhere between 220 and 270 over the course of that time. She was insecure about it and, along with being bipolar and in denial about it, never really relaxed and enjoyed her own existence, much less her luscious figure.

I met my wife 10 years ago now, at a concert. Mutual friend of ours made sure we were both there. The friend figured we both needed to stumble upon each other after going through such rough previous relationships. I can still remember the first time I saw her short, 5-3 figure walking upon the rest of our friend group to meet up. A black blouse cut low to emphasize what I would eventually find out were 46 DDD breasts. Cute, chubby face and such a soft touch with everything. I was smitten, though it was another year before we started dating officially.

I was slowly but steadily getting a big ol’ ball belly during these years. A big, hard visceral fat basketball belly! She sure hasn’t minded, being a big girl herself for so long now. She was actually a tiny teen, just with out-of-proportion breasts for what was then her figure. I just recently saw pics of her at 13 that I hadn’t seen before. It’s truly amazing how petite and skinny she was before puberty and the rest of her teen years.

She had her first child barely out of high school and, according to her accounts, gained between 80 and 100 pounds between the pregnancy and health-related issues with certain meds’ effects on her. Three years later, she had the depo shot for birth control and got pregnant (and fatter) anyway with her second child. Wish I’d have known her then so I could have witnessed her body change. Her waistline and belly just exploded in size :-) She stopped wearing underwear at a certain point and her back is big and broad with luscious layers of fat all 300+ pound ladies seem to have. Her butt also grew into a full-fledged “buttshelf” during that time. This is as good a point in the story as any to mention her bra band size was only in the low 30s entering her 20s. So that’s more than 12 inches gained just in her middle since then :-)

We had our first child together three years ago now. She was already just at 300 pounds, so she didn’t have to gain but maybe 20 during the pregnancy. Today, I’m at 205 after gaining some weight back that I lost after a cold. She’s a proud 353 pounds with a spirit that’s just as soft and tender as her skin :-) We’d have each other no other way but fat and happy :-)

FatVixen:
That is so wonderful and congrats on the little one. I can feel all the admiration in your writing for her. She seems so soft and spicy. Yeah lol 😆 its hard to see my back my husband loves it good thing for lots of mirrors. Glad you 2 "found" each other.


Ha, thanks indeed and for reading 😁❤️
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Fat celebrities

People in my age range might can appreciate a Delta Burke reference. She was on Designing Women in the ‘80s and on a football-centered series on HBO called “1st and 10.” I remember the tabloids gave her hell when she got plump by Hollywood standards. Looking back on it, she simply got more beautiful!
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What my 62,00 calorie day looked like

Morkattack:
Only 5,000 calories, huh? That's like twice the average person's daily calorie allotment and that's your rest day.

What all did you eat?

BigBallBellyGirl:
It ended up being a little more than that, but I definitely consider it a light day for me:

1 bowl of chicken tortilla soup - 320 calories
2 glasses of cranberry juice - 210 calories
1 grilled cheese sandwich - 300 calories
1 green apple - 80 calories
1 peanut butter sandwich - 245 calories
1 cup of tea with honey - 60 calories
1 Chipotle loaded burrito - 1,500 calories
1 32 oz. Dr. Pepper - 340 calories
1 entree Southern Fried Chicken salad - 960 calories
1 Ensure - 500 calories
1 32 oz. Sweet Tea - 360 calories
1 cup of Dannon's strawberry yogurt
1 Big Mac with cheese - 580 calories
1 can of Diet Coke - 0 calories

Total: ~5,900 calories


Still quite the tasty menu 👍😁
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Before and after

We all love before and afters here, but my favorite are when you know the person loves it and is confident in a new shape.

I was so skinny and bony as young adult it would be garish to show the befores next to my current ball-gut 😁 Overall, I’m up about 65 pounds since the early part of this century.

My wife’s would certainly fall into the category of barely recognizable, especially if you go back to just after high school. She’s easily gained 200 pounds since then.

I’ve told mine and my wife’s story her me a few times in the forums and have updated the link recently with our current weights. I pass along before/afters to people we trust 👍
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What do y'all like??

Jamie2002:
hi. hopefully i'm making this post correctly. i'm still trying to understand what y'all like on here. seems like most of you are saying that you like making someone bigger. what do y'all actually like, kink-wise?


It’s different from person to person, as others have said. Showing confidence in your shape regardless of what society might say is always best 👍❤️
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At what weight does a bbw/bhm become a ssbbw/ssbhm

Probably depends on the height and proportion.

At 5-11 and 205, I wouldn’t be a bhm. I just have a big ball belly :-) But my wife, at 5-2 and 353, would be a ssbbw. She is lusciously fat pretty much everywhere 👍
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Boyfriends getting softer

I’m a bit jealous of his moobs, ha. It’s my hope I can gain some to go along with my ball belly 👍😁
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Were there any warning signs in your childhood or adolescence that you would develop your fetish

I’ve told mine and my wife’s gaining story on here a few times, so this link can go right along with this thread title 😁 My warning sign was simply being attracted to fuller figures from a young age…

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts
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Milestone!

Milkybonezz:
realised recently that within the next 3 pounds or so i’ll have gained 20 pounds since september. i’m thinking ill reach my goal weight in now time if i keep ballooning like this


Congrats! You’ll achieve your goal weight and then some 👍
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General hangouts and nightlife

Auradreamer:
May be more relevant to a different topic but I'll still ask. (Noob here)

For the bigger gals and guys, what the best nightlife activities that works for you? For bars and clubs, is there anything you look to avoid or are drawn too?
During these moments, are you generally disinterested in getting hit on?
Or is chatting and meeting others more interesting?

Bellyempire:
Most seem to avoid nightclubs from my experience


Depends on the location. Wife and I were accepted most places we went while we dated. Course, we live in a state full of chubby and fat people. So it was easier.
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