Carolinequinne3:
If you could plan the ultimate indulgent feast with no limits, what would be on the menu?🥵🤔
Couldn’t go wrong with things like pizza, pasta and ice cream 👍
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LoLbreadplease:
Hah, I'm kind of relieved to hear you compare it to coming out, because that's what it felt like for me too. I had to tell my husband a couple years ago, finally. And while it wasn't easy, I'm ultimately glad I did, because I feel like I'm more true to myself. It wasn't easy with him because he isn't pro fat, but how could I hide this from him forever??
I lightly "came out" to a few friends as well, and no one has been anything but full of love and understanding. Telling my best friend has been the most positive thing. It feels amazing to have someone you know and love to know this about you and how you see yourself and what makes you tick, someone who is willing to see it through your eyes, but also knows and understands everything else about you. I get to be myself with them truly!
I found it difficult to talk to a therapist about it. The pro fetish therapist I talked to didn't know a lot about this and couldn't find a lot of information to educate herself. I didn't find it helpful to talk to her, unfortunately, but that is just my experience with one person. And sometimes it's reassuring to have someone professional to talk to anyway. You might also try a therapist who has experience as a relationship counselor, but mention fetishes early on.
Excellent to hear you’ve explored your feelings and made it known to your hubby. I wish all hubbies were like me, but I know many men have been conditioned to like a certain figure. My brain has been different much of my life, though :-) I’ll always have words of encouragement to those confident enough to enjoy a fuller body :-)
5 days
Learning to cook and prepare one’s own meals can go a long way toward a better budget for eating. Wife and I keep our weight up because of our love of the kitchen. It surely isn’t because of spending what they charge now at the fast food chains! :-)
1 week
Joej35900:
Preface- I've been lurking on this website for years, but I've never actually interacted with anyone or used any features.
If there are any unwritten or better known rules regarding etiquette/behavior would love to know. (Besides common sense stuff like don't be a creep or an asshole.)
Thanks and lookin forward to shooting the shit on here.
Take Care - Anon.
Munchies:
I mean, if you act like you have common sense, that pretty much covers it.
Don't give internet strangers money.
Don't be an asshole.
Don't be a creep.
Post your personal ads in the personal ad section.
Everything else is written down in the site rules.
Pretty straightforward enough, I’d say? :-)
1 week
Cattastrophe:
God I need to be fatter. I just do. I wanna be massive and I just am so needy for it. My belly hanging down, my boobs bigger and softer and milkier, my ass and thighs filling any seat I sit in. I want my belly to hang over my belt. My ass to struggle into pants. I want to have stretch marks. I want my body to jiggle when I walk and be soft to the touch. I want to close my thigh gap and have my thighs to pop out of ripped jeans. I want my zippers to struggle and I want my bras to be tight. Im just so needy.
Goals indeed :-) Keep eating, the pounds will come!
1 week
ASMR is quite relaxing and tingly in the head if you find the right channels on YT. I’m more into just the right vocal touch, not so much the random tapping stuff. To each their own, of course.
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Sweetfattie:
I’m on a couple different psych meds. It’s in everyone’s best interest for me to take them as prescribed, and my life is far better without the extreme highs and lows of bipolar disorder. So trust me when I say that you do NOT want to take this stuff unless you have to. The side effects are no joke. I can go into detail if you really want, but honestly it’s kind of depressing when I let myself think about it too much. You should only take mood stabilizers or antipsychotics (the usual suspects in medication induced weight gain) if your mental illness is making you miserable and/or impacting your ability to perform activities of daily living.
Well-said đź‘Ť
1 week
Sounds good to me :-)
1 week
I gained by ball belly in my 30s and occasionally hear a bit of grief from my mother but that’s about it. I like it and don’t plan on losing it :-)
My wife has been north of 300 pounds for several years now. I can copy and paste the story I’ve posted in the forums to any interested folks :-)
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Who24:
has anyone else witnessed a relative pack on the pounds? was wondering if anyone wanted to dm or chat about their experience here
I’ve had several cousins and other relatives pack on the pounds after high school. Just something about the freedom to eat what you want just unleashes the fat :-)
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