Kitsune:
While my world is burning, I try to stop and smell the roses. This handsome man is my roses.

I wish I could kiss him on the lips. But for obvious reasons I sadly can't. At least his works made me smile during my lowest points in life. Black Sheep is my all-time favorite movie from him and it's my ultimate favorite comedy.

If anyone is a Chris Farley fan, I will be happy to hear from you guys!

HappyBigBelly:
Longtime SNL fan here. Farley is certainly on the Mount Rushmore of greats from the show. It’s a big mountain indeed, too.

I have some age on me, so I can remember seeing his classic skits the first time they ran. The Chippendale skit with Patrick Swayze (who was also gone far too soon), the Matt Foley skit, the several ones where he’s dressed as a woman, etc. He just couldn’t control the substances. They controlled him.

Kitsune:
That last part is well said. It angers me whenever trolls act like it was his own fault for his drug addiction. They even would defend the evil hooker that left Chris dying in his apartment.

Ranting aside, I think my favorite Farley sketches are The Schmitts Gay ad and the Japanese Gameshow that had Mike Meyers in it.

Kitsune:
While my world is burning, I try to stop and smell the roses. This handsome man is my roses.

I wish I could kiss him on the lips. But for obvious reasons I sadly can't. At least his works made me smile during my lowest points in life. Black Sheep is my all-time favorite movie from him and it's my ultimate favorite comedy.

If anyone is a Chris Farley fan, I will be happy to hear from you guys!

Gluttony Incarnate:
Is anyone else titillated by that inflation scene?

Carolinequinne3:
If you could plan the ultimate indulgent feast with no limits, what would be on the menu?🥵🤔

LoLbreadplease:
Hah, I'm kind of relieved to hear you compare it to coming out, because that's what it felt like for me too. I had to tell my husband a couple years ago, finally. And while it wasn't easy, I'm ultimately glad I did, because I feel like I'm more true to myself. It wasn't easy with him because he isn't pro fat, but how could I hide this from him forever??

I lightly "came out" to a few friends as well, and no one has been anything but full of love and understanding. Telling my best friend has been the most positive thing. It feels amazing to have someone you know and love to know this about you and how you see yourself and what makes you tick, someone who is willing to see it through your eyes, but also knows and understands everything else about you. I get to be myself with them truly!

I found it difficult to talk to a therapist about it. The pro fetish therapist I talked to didn't know a lot about this and couldn't find a lot of information to educate herself. I didn't find it helpful to talk to her, unfortunately, but that is just my experience with one person. And sometimes it's reassuring to have someone professional to talk to anyway. You might also try a therapist who has experience as a relationship counselor, but mention fetishes early on.

Joej35900:
Preface- I've been lurking on this website for years, but I've never actually interacted with anyone or used any features.

If there are any unwritten or better known rules regarding etiquette/behavior would love to know. (Besides common sense stuff like don't be a creep or an asshole.)

Thanks and lookin forward to shooting the shit on here.

Take Care - Anon.

Munchies:
I mean, if you act like you have common sense, that pretty much covers it.

Don't give internet strangers money.

Don't be an asshole.

Don't be a creep.

Post your personal ads in the personal ad section.

Everything else is written down in the site rules.