Precisely! Gaining should be a pleasurable experience and completely a willing one. It's more relaxing anyway to be with someone who is confident about themselves.

Best ways in my experience is to have a loved one who already loves to cook. Mine goes about 290 and has a divinely gushy belly.

Tis a perceived social taboo to compliment a growing belly. Its why I take great pleasure in giving encouragement to the soft, rounding bellies I see on this site each day

I'm about 50 pounds heavier compared to 10 years ago, but have kinda "plateaued" at about 195. Grrr!

Work on the relationship first before you tell her. Make sure she's yours in every sense of the word. I sense telling her this soon might be a little too soon.

My gf appreciates my love for her plus size and that's all that matters

My gf goes 290 or so and has a DDD chest and an apron belly. Rubbing her belly is an instant turn-on, as well as grabbing her massive thighs when we get intense

GrowThatBelly is looking mighty fine as well :-)

You'll be the sexiest girl there if you keep looking great

Everyone gains differently. Those who aren't genetically predisposed usually have to pack the calories and see what happens. If your stomach can stand the dairy, I'd suggest drinking heavy cream. It's a power-shot of calories and a great ingredient in a lot of things.