1) 100 blocks is not NEARLY enough, especially considering...

2) you actively choose to not do anything about people who CONSTANTLY re-delete their accounts *to evade blocking at the outset*

Bots are not the problem. Boundary violators are.

I already explained where the line is. The content is SOLELY for mature adults and it exists on a site that is NOT exclusive to adult viewership. That's the line.

It's not about your feelings. And fat people =/= feedism. Continuing to center ONLY your experience in it devalues fat people as a whole. Because you're then saying that fat people MUST be feedists, and that's not the case.

I'm not saying this as a theory. I'm saying this as someone who's had to moderate content before. It's not about you, it's about liability.

Feedism can include fat people enjoying their bodies. It is not EQUAL to that. That's not how that works. Not all fat people are feedists. Not all feedists are fat people. Stating that tumblr allowing feedism to be reportable content means that they are moralizing fat people as a whole... is EXTREMELY harmful to fat people. Fat people's bodies are not solely for sexual spectacles. That's you stating that fat people ONLY exist in the vacuum of fetishism.

When a website has content policies - whether or not I agree with their standard or execution - it isn't about morals. It's about *liability.* Feedism is NSFW, full stop. Feedist content, regardless of what is or is not included, is exclusively for mature audiences. That's true everywhere. If minors and vulnerable adults access that adult-only content and are harmed as a result, that's on Tumblr. That's why those policies exist. Tumblr is not an adult-only site.

Moreover there IS a lot of parallel if not outright equation of disordered eating and feedist content. Some feedists really *are* quite disordered in their eating. That's just an objective truth. Even if the content is fantasy based or not, the fact that it's structured very similarly to other EDs (body focused, checking, extreme behaviors, value scripting around ones' body, and CAN cause harm to ones' body)... they're gonna lump them together because that's content that ONLY adults should consume and engage in.

No worries! They already know they suck. The insecurity shown by people who behave that way is evident; that's *why* they treat people this way (in a very broad sense, people who feel bad about themselves will treat others in a way to inspire the same feelings in them, aka "hurt people hurt people".

When I comment on these posts, it's not for the OPs/bad actors, it's to set an example for those who are sincerely open to change, who need to see advocacy in action, and to just speak up about it. My goal is never to convince the bad actors of anything, it's just to point out "your behavior is gross and this is why" so others can learn to identify it for themselves.

It's not sexual frustration; that would "justify" their behavior and imply that they are not responsible for their actions, which is not the case. There are plenty of people here who are sexually frustrated and choose not to blame everyone else for it or behave in the ways I mentioned.



Because women aren't people to them. It's that simple. Their behavior wouldn't be like this if they had a shred of empathy for anyone besides themselves.



I understand what you are trying to get at, because of course it sucks to be ripped off and it's not their fault it happens. However, having money scammed from you is not equivalent to the dehumanization people experience here in the ways I described. At the end of the day, the money cannot be scammed (or even stolen) without someone choosing to provide information for it. It can even be restored in many (not all) cases depending on your financial institution. Of course it can cause distress and mistrust, but it can be restored.

What these people do to feedees instead takes away something that cannot be quantified or restored; they know this, that they can get away with it, that is exactly why they treat fat people the way they do.



Exactly! It's almost like there's a common denominator, and the first one is simply whether or not they view fat people as people first.

LoraDayton:
This is a felony

Neonlemonforce:
As long as they aren't adding ingredients or supplements without consent it isn't. Ide wait for an explanation before going straight to "felony"[/quote]

The "without consent" is what makes it a felony regardless.

Stop defending shitty behavior. It's really interesting how y'all will cape for those who condone violating consent. Sure wouldn't want to be known for that, would you?

See, the things is - even if it's just fantasy, we have no way of knowing that.

So many who retort "it's just a joke!" (Fat bodies and consent aren't a punchline) or "it's just a fantasy!" (there's a reason we have forums separate for it, and again - consent and/or disclaimers are still required to ethically share a fantasy) ultimately don't care about consent. Only the violation of it is what matters, that's the point of the material. Therefore, I will treat each one of these as though they are real.

Third parties *cannot* consent in these spaces. Full stop. There are no exceptions. If you speak this way thinking "it's just a fantasy" and you aren't cluing others in - guess what, that makes you wilfully violating/ignoring consent. And we have words for people like that.

This is a felony

Once again:

1) no pictures

2) only activity is to complain about feedees or act entitled to their time

3) "banned from feabie for no reason" - there is always a reason

Fat people don't owe you anything. You get out what you put in. You are the scammer by treating feedees as disposable and objects to which you feel entitled.

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Like every other one that comes here to complain about the same damn thing:

1) you have no profile content or activity outside of you complaining about women and not getting what you want sexually and sound aghast at the prospect of having to pay for content that YOU want

2) you clearly "come and go" from these places, thus never establishing connection and mutual presence in the community you expect "realness" (or whatever) from - people who ARE sincerely connected and active here see that as a red flag

3) "All the women" excuse me? Okay, then: all men here don't value fat women as actual people and see them only as a means to their orgasmic end and don't understand the material, social, financial, and medical impact that gaining has on them, nor believes they deserve to be compensated for those things. That is to say, clearly, you then agree that it's okay to lambast all the men here as seeing all the women as just sexual objects without any humanity.

Clear that up for ya?

You get out what you put in - and I don't mean your dick.

There are a ton on the 'Zon. It's going to be the best place to find a variety rather than *just* cheap itchy polyester lingerie (though there is plenty of that also!) If you have a decent budget or are not in a rush, can likely find some good handmade stuff on Etsy also!