Not really much you can do. If he knows and is even indulging in this fetish he's probably taking it at his own pace.

Simply continue to support him and remind him how much you appreciate him. Maybe sometimes pick up a snack he likes occasionally to show him you like the results?

Being patient and understanding is the best course of action right now. Even then buying them snacks to urge them on might be kinda teetering between none consensual feeding. As long as both parties understand each others wants and desires and respect each others boundaries.

I suppose you could also just ask him straight up how he feels abount your desire for him to chub up and how it feels at the moment.

Yes you're completely in the wrong. Sabotoging your partners life choices for your own amusement is wrong. You know she does not share your preferences and yet you're forcing them upon her despite having the opposite goal.

You watched her cry for fucks sakes... She trusts and believes you and you're lying to her face. If she gains weight due to her own choices that's one thing. To directly sabotage her routine to meet your own ends knowing full well how she feels is aweful.

Theres nothing wrong about having a fetish. What is wrong is when you put getting off above your partners feelings. Don't be another addition to those feederism horror stories...

Also if you truly cannot sacrifice your fetish and willing to go this far, perhaps you need to step away before things get worse. Getting engaged to someone you can't trust/ share indulge in fantasies with is a huge mistake.

Hey hey just got your comment and shot you a message.

No problem. Glad I can help. The more power you give yourself over them the better it gets. =p

Generally things that point out their size/ increasing weight. Something not fitting like it once did, or taking up more space in a chair... Things taking more effort due to their increased mass/ lack of motion now they've become your feedee.

Aswell as pointing out their change in mentality... They were more active and outgoing and rather conservative with their eating, now they eat without restraint.

Basicly what Chubby said... Make what you like known. Give them a list of things to work with. A list of weaknesses if you will? Things you can't say no to for the sake of them being able to take the position you want them to.

While what he was trying was fairly sweet...? ( I mean you did say he was doing it for you correct?) He was trying to force a food you couldn't enjoy and tried sticking in the dom position trying to force it despite you saying no because he thought that's what he should do as the dom.

Work these things out with them after, and try keeping your patience if they aren't exactly experienced in these fetishes. If they are trying something and stumbling, have a calm talk, let them know they appreciate the thought, and move forward with what you like, don't like, and make the lines they are working with a little bit more clear.

Maybe give them some hints on to getting on the right path when they do try and it isn't exactly what your in the mood for... Like "Phew I was worried you were going to use donuts.. Those reeeeeeally stick to me... " Or something to that effect with mention to what you do like.

Didn't that lead to a whole bunch of tumblr's freaking out about it and saying it's promoting abuse?

Sooo You're looking for tips to keep up on your size but doing so without being noticed?

I suppose some larger portions, or maybe midnight snacking? Eating what you normally eat but in semi larger portions. Just big enough to stick, but small enough that it isn't too noticeable.

Let's look at it like this... Being a bit bigger is kinda a taboo in today's world. So of course it makes sense that you have reservations about this to begin with. But there's a deeper interest that was buried beneath that you've stumbled upon, and now you're conflicted upon it, as do many that do find themselves in their initial discovery.

You don't need to gain. Explore the idea's and interests mentally first. Maybe talk about it with some folks here expressing your ideals and concerns.

as for being here, you don't need to gain to be part of the fetish. There's plenty that enjoy stuffing/ bloating to feel bigger then they normally are without the permanent effects of weightgain.

Whichever one feels more important.. But if he values you above all else he can accept your fetish and roll with it.

If he doesn't and you still want to gain, it just wasn't in the stars. =/

But this all comes down to what you want.. And sometimes there's a choice.. Talk with him about it and see if he's supportive of your wishes. He knows you have it and that it's purely from your own desire. And sometimes if you love someone enough, even if you aren't crazy about what you are crazy about.. they'll indulge in it.