Am i overthinking this?

You are over thinking.
I like when a server asks that question.
My BF is 350+ and I weigh more than him so its obvious a table not a booth.
5 hours

Coworkers reaction

Wannajigglybelly:
That is a decent reaction from a Normie! Glad he did not judge you.


I think so.
1 week

Coworkers reaction

Not from any work people because I have been fat most of the time the newer employees have been there.
When I started in the stables working horses I was 250 ish.
My boss noticed and said something to me about my weight gain and I told him the truth I was trying to get fat.
He didn't know what to say and said I don't get it but OK as long as you work and do your job.
1 week

Weird looks at the grocery store.

It happens sometimes but it doesn't bother me all that much.
Years ago I was at Target shopping and in the checkout in front of me was a lady and her grand child.
The child said "look Grandma that lady behind us has a butt in the front".
She apologized profusely and I said kids say the cutest things so no need to apologize.
2 weeks

From virtual to reality: have you met online friends in person?

I had been here 5 or 6 years and a member from here said he was passing thru my area and asked if we could have a dinner date.
He was very nice and we had a great time.
In total there have been three from here that I have met personally and each time was a great experience.
There was a couple in my area that contacted me and that didn't go well at all.
Get to know them here first before actually meeting up might be the best thing to do.
Just be careful.
2 weeks

Uncomfortable when people talk weight

Bigdoug:
I am not a big fan either. I find diet talk annoying, even when it’s not directed at me (which it normally isn’t). And it’s really kind of sad when people who are barely overweight put themselves down and talk about themselves like they are deeply flawed and/or sick just because they are chubby.


Yeah it is annoying I agree.
3 weeks

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

I guess I need to be more careful.
I think you are right Enas.
3 weeks

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

I'll be more careful when asking questions next time.
3 weeks

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

What is a Lil Nas X ?
A person, place or thing?
3 weeks

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

AskDrFeeder:
Weight-gain (and weight-loss, for that matter!) can be a symptom of depression or other health problems. It is natural for your loved ones to be concerned about that possibility; if you can put their minds at ease that would be gracious.[/quote]

That is a good point too.
3 weeks
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