Feabie was too much like high school.
You had to be in one of the cliques to be accepted.
I was there when it went online and left after a month.
The level of immaturity of people there was so bad.

I understand how it feels to be second best thats why I have an ex husband.

I'm supportive and think everybody deserves to be happy and content.

I think 90% of us feel frustration when it comes to dating at some time.
I had been on dating sites but usually when guys learned I was fat and didn't mind being fat they lost interest and thats OK .
I'm old school when it comes to dating so pretty much blah for most people with a kink.
Not being gay myself I know lots of gay men but those guys are really fussy about who they date.
Far more than a woman honestly.
I do hope you find someone because you deserve to be happy

It can't be that hard to find people to date in your area.
You just have to put yourself out there and meet people.
Be open about what you are into.
That may scare some off but you just might find someone real not a profile on some kink website.
Your match isn't going to come to you so you will have to find them.

Any social network is like that so don't get discouraged.
The main thing is don't take it so personally its the internet after all.
Now don't take this personally as a put down but maybe you need step back and look what image you are sending.
If you complain a lot about the site or about not finding anyone people will look at you as a person that will never be satisfied.
If they never respond well you don't want to be friends with them anyway.
You can't force people to like you.
I never came here looking to hook up with anyone just make a few friends to chat with.
No expectations really.
I have met some nice people on here and have met some in real life and dated some that were local to me.
One tip is be friendly not pushy and demanding.

Not sure but I'm sure its over 50 these days.

Good for you !!
Making yourself happy is always a great idea

Not sure what kind of relationship you are looking for.
On line or in real life you need to be specific.
I never came here to find a relationship but I have met some really nice people on this site over the 13 or so years I have been here.
Met some in person as well.

You have been here 3 days so that is one factor.
No pics in your profile is another.
Comment in forums if that forum interests you.
Put yourself out there and don't expect people to come to you.