Ditzy:
Its pretty common so you are not alone.
Just let go and indulge and if you gain a little and see how you like it.
I did that in the beginning more as a spite thing because my marriage wasn't working too well and I know me getting fat would piss my husband.
MRFATS53:
Did you never consider that he'd won though?
I guess you like being fat for yourself and many others here as well. Reckon you look great in any case.
Won what exactly?
1 month
Its pretty common so you are not alone.
Just let go and indulge and if you gain a little and see how you like it.
I did that in the beginning more as a spite thing because my marriage wasn't working too well and I knew me getting fat would piss my husband off.
1 month
Its a common question but the answer is no.
As you gain your body and genetics pretty much decide where you gain.
If you have fat parents or an aunt maybe there is a better chance your body shape will look like them but thats not guaranteed.
My Aunt and I are the heaviest in the family and our body shape is quite similar.
Big butt, big belly and wide hips.
If you are trans and on HRT I'm sure there will be some fat distribution changes.
1 month
I found the quality at Torrid to be pretty good.
I buy a lot from Woman within and Catherine's.
Zulilly has really cute fashions but they are your low end quality wise and wear out quicker.
I have some Verarose brand tops and they are very nice quality.
2 months
I've never been gassy just from being fat.
I think its more the type of foods you eat.
Greasy food will cause gas and or indigestion.
Cooked cabbage or lima beans make me gassy but it did that when I was 110 lbs.
2 months
Goodwill or any thrift store.
I buy clothes there sometimes for working in my shop.
2 months
Cliques are too much like high school.
Dimensions for some was like a competition.
I never felt that way and was just there to make friends that would accept chubby people.
2 months
Glad FF is still here.
Dimensions used to be OK but I can't get into my account anymore.
I have been here for 14 years in total.
Left for a few years and came back.
Again I'm so glad FF is still running.
Got to thinking when I first came on here IIRC I was around 225 lbs.
I have to give credit to a few nice guys and ladies on here that gave me their tips on gaining plus the messages of encouragement.
That really helped to help me to stay with it and keep gaining.
I am a very happy 440+ lbs now and love it.
2 months
I've had barista give me looks or say something when ordering something decadent loaded with calories.
Its only rude if it was said in a condescending way.
I don't worry about what others think so that may be something you need to work on.
2 months
Sure and I love it when it happens.
2 months
