If you want to get bigger then make the commitment and get bigger.
I have been through all the I want to gain but I don't feelings so I know how you feel.

That has been the way it is for many years so really nothing to worry about.
Don't take it personally is how I deal with it.
I have made tons of friends on here so if some ghost me Its not a big deal.
Its not about views, pics or how many likes you get anyway because those really don't mean anything.
Basically you cant force someone to chat with you.
Worrying about it is just stress you don't need.

Good advice I agree.
Gaining takes time and dedication on your part.
There are no magic pills or food that will make you fat quickly so if that was on you mind for a question the answer is no.
The best advice I can give is just increase portion sizes at mealtime and snack in between meals.
That lets your body adjust to the change in your eating habits.
That aside welcome, you have come to the right place if you want to gain.

My ex had a violent side and his mood swings were horrible.

There are so many its hard to pick just one thing.

It is common for newbies to want or expect to gain very quickly or in certain areas of the body and it just doesn't work that way.
I thought that back when I was beginning and asked the same questions.
The folks here were so nice and explained the reality to me.

There is no one magic food that makes yo gain different kinds of fat.
If you gain weight there is know way to know where the fat will accumulate.
That is up to your body and your genetics.
If you are going for a high beer belly start drinking a lot of beer.
Of course that creates more possible health problem not to mention legal problems if you get caught driving under the influence.

Are you trying to pretend you are the boxer Butterbean?
You are big and fat like him.

I do it out as well I just can't help it.