This is a fetish site, so may as well be brutally honest... I have spent years very reluctant to ever share this lol.

My DARKEST fantasy definitely has something to do with my "origin" story. As a kid, something stirred in me when I came across the story of Hansel and Gretel. Maybe it's the sinister/secret motives. maybe it's the control. Maybe it's the absolute submission/dominance of a predator/prey situation? Also probably one of the reason I like contrast... Me, the athlete, and her--the soft plump piggy.

The psychology of it is the turn on far more so than the actual act... I can't say i'm into vore or anything criminal, painful, or unrealistic. I think it's the lead up--being captured/trapped, tied, fattened, measured, teased, massaged, oiled, the process of turning a woman into a "Christmas ham." Maybe she can convince me she is "not ready" and needs a few more pounds, and then a few more. etc. idk.

I know it's probably considered very "weird." I have never had the courage to share with anyone before, I've always had a relatively "normal" sex life, and I really don't know what to do with such thoughts.

I feel very exposed now haha.

I relate.

I remember listening to the story of Hansel and Gretel when I was a kid, idk why that story just stuck with me, but that's definitely where it first started. I've always enjoyed the feeling of power dynamics, but I have never vulnerably explored my feeder fantasies in real life... I myself prefer to remain very athletic.