Petitegirl:
I don’t know if some feeders here agree with me. I also experience it in real life in my friendgroup a lot: women that are so thoughtful of their own diet/excercise regime while they complete ignore that their partner is getting fat/are fattening him on purpose! Have you experienced that too?
I personally know that I am a feeder, super attracted to fat men and making them fatter. But sometimes I think it is crazy what different kind of standarts/rules I have for myself. For me it is really important so stay super skinny and fit, to workout everyday, be super active/healthy etc. The food i am cooking/preparing and feeding to others I would never touch. Also I would never want a partner to be as active/sporty. I want to make sure that they can be as lazy as possible (for example I would always get up to bring whatever).
And weirdly enough I also like if a partner checks that I am keeping my figure. For example that he would touch my stomach to make sure there is not a single bit of fat or that in a restaurant he would tell me to stop eating and than finish my portion.
Yes, yes, yes! Absolutely love everything about this dynamic.
Have definitely experienced it too, though not directly. I know one couple where the husband works and the wife says at home. She's as trim as ever, while he seems to be fatter every time we see him. I can imagine him getting home from work and immediately sitting is big bum down in front of the TV, while his wife scurries around bringing him him drinks, dinner, snacks, and more drinks. The irony is that she's been burning calories doing housework duing the day, hoovering, cleaning etc, while he's been sitting in an office on his bum all day, snacking a lot and eating a burger and fries or overstuffed dehli sandwich for his lunch. She's light and sprightly, while he gets winded walking to the car. Gee, wonder why?!
Also, I love the contrast of lifestyles that goes with the contrast of figures. The wife/girlfriend up early, going for a morning jog, while the husband/boyfriend lazes in bed, sleeping off his hangover. She gets back just in time to make him breakfast in bed, followed by some donuts she picked up on her jog, etc. Finishing her portions at dinner also made me chuckle too. How thoughtful of him! 🤣🤣
