Fat in all the wrong places

You both make marvelous points. I suppose back to school shopping just got to me. You try on so many clothes, you start to think things are wrong with you and not that you just haven't found the right ones.
5 years

Fat in all the wrong places

I can't be the only one with fat insecurities. For example, a large portion of plus size clothing, especially bathing suits, expect me to have either a huge rack or a shelf of an ass. But it all goes to my gut! It makes shopping for clothes even more of a pain. I want to here other people's stories about this

Bonus points if you have yo-yoing weight and the new gain comes back in an unexpected way. Example: lost some bulk in my thighs, regained it in my gut :/
5 years

Best sex positions?

Sounds like you're both very willing to try new things! I'm sorry about your chronic illness, but I'm glad that's not stopping you from wanting to be kinky!

Now, I should preface that I'm not a qualified sex worker or sexologist and would recommend seeing a sexologist for more informed information and advice.

That being said, while penetrative sex is amazing you definitely should not throw out oral. 69 sounds out of the question taking turns can be fun! Possibly straddling his belly while he fingers you could give a simulation of penetration without penile penetration then finishing him off orally or manually.

Also, have you looked up the kamasutra? They often have pictures so you can preview positions and see if they would cause you or your husband discomfort.
6 years

Dealing with weight loss: venting

projectpolemics:
Weight Watchers food?

Blech...I feel ya!

No one ought to live that way, no matter their body size!

ChubbyHubby:
LOLOLOL Maybe that's how it works... you really, truly don't want it and have to be very hungry to suffer through it??


Funny story, I tried to do Weight Watchers in middle school and gained 5lbs in the first week. I wish that would happen again now, but then I swore off diets forever. So at least WW did one good thing.
6 years

Dealing with weight loss: venting

projectpolemics:
Weight Watchers food?

Blech...I feel ya!

No one ought to live that way, no matter their body size!


*sighs* You understand. Fat free anything is a crime against nature.
6 years

Dealing with weight loss: venting

fatspank:
What's happening is your metabolism is freaking out, it thinks you're starving because of the sudden lack of food. Meaning, that once it gets access to lots of food again, its going to store it as fat just in case you 'starve' again.

If you do want to get big again some day, have like 2 meals a day, randomly have a big meal when you can. This will train your metabolism to store as much fat as it can. So when you do start fatting up again, you'll probably blow past 400lbs with ease!

Isn't science fun? smiley


Yes it is!!! And noted to implement asap! I can't wait to binge like this. One day, one day. For now, midnight fast food and too big bags of sweets.
6 years

Dealing with weight loss: venting

SahX:
This kind of situation is exactly one of the reasons why she finished by getting pessimistic about her gaining capabilities and also one of the points to which why she temporairly dropped down the idea to fatten up herself. Working time, irregular food diets, up-and-down metabolic system, weight yoyo-ing, weekly outside activities, ecetera.


I'm sorry about your friend and I genuinely hope the drop was temporary or that she found happiness in something else. It sounds like if you ride to much on gaining, you can become as crazy as any health fanatic smiley
Seriously though, I hope she finds comfort in the small gains, the small tastes of fatty food when she can have it, that she truly loses her love of gaining.
6 years

Dealing with weight loss: venting

johnxyz:
Usually when someone regains the weight, they pack it on very quickly. So, when you are able to gain again, you'll do it very quickly.


Thank you! Ever since I made this I have been getting a lot of support. I'm hoping to gain back what I lost and then some smiley
This helped me regain my patience and made me realize just how good I felt big. Looking on the bright side, if I lose some now, I can gain more later! ^_^ And now I know it will be quickly, which is a comfort! Thank you!
6 years

Dealing with weight loss: venting

Currently living with my mother and sister while I go to college. My hours got cut so I'm behind and relying on the food in the house more often then being able to go out and buy my own supply.

Not only is the physical labor in my work causing me to lose much more weight then I have before, but now everyone else is on Weight Watchers so the food in house is so...empty.

I miss the richness! The feeling full. I want my jiggle back! My clothes fit better sure but I don't feel as soft or comfortable. I was on the brink of 400lbs not even 2 years ago! Now I'm on the edge of 200lbs and I just feel so disappointed...like I'm disappearing.

This was mostly just a scream into the void deal but I would be interested to see if anyone here has had similar experiences.
6 years

Has anyone found themselves encouraging another to gain weight?

ajmbsb4life:
I challenge her to how many calories she can eat in a set of days, week, months or months. I just had her come off a 60,000 calorie challenge for the month of August. She actually completed it with one day to go.


I am proud of your friend! I hope she can take it up a notch in the months to come! And I'm glad at least one person knows and wants to be encouraged outright. It feels so much more freeing to know they really want it.
6 years
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