Marshmellow wrote
I hear all the time how this person is a great kisser, or that person is horrible. What makes a good kisser in your opinion?
I have a friend who claims that the first kiss tells you if the relationship is going to work or not.
It sounds absurd, but I've found it to be true.
I don't think it has anything to do with kissing skill. It's just magic. Or not.
14 years
Babybelly wrote
I greatly dislike the term size acceptance. It implies one is aware that there is something not right with their appearance but they accept it as part of who they are. Wheres the size celebration movement? What about embracing and loving who you are and what you look like, no matter the size or if you are actively growing or shrinking. I can't comprehend why people can't just give a little more self love.
I love "size celebration" but face it, some people can't get there. But they might be able to get to "size acceptance" and if they make it, more power to them!
14 years
Lately I've noticed that a lot of people seem to be from Buffalo, New York.
Just now I checked on "maps". Sure enough, there's a huge cluster of people in Buffalo, male and female.
Is Buffalo some kind of fat-positive paradise or what?
14 years
chubbyhoney wroteAskDrFeeder wroteHow do you spot a FA?
If you have a nice-sized belly, put on a too-small t-shirt. Make sure the shirt is small enough so that it exposes a bit of your belly. Go out in public. From time to time, "absent-mindedly" pull down the shirt to cover up your belly. Of course the shirt will immediately ride up as soon as you let go. The FAs will be the ones gaping at your belly.
And how do you distinguish the FAs from all the other people who will also be gaping at your belly?
Just spit-balling here. I haven't worked out all the kinks yet...
14 years
How do you spot a FA?
If you have a nice-sized belly, put on a too-small t-shirt. Make sure the shirt is small enough so that it exposes a bit of your belly.
Go out in public. From time to time, "absent-mindedly" pull down the shirt to cover up your belly. Of course the shirt will immediately ride up as soon as you let go.
The FAs will be the ones gaping at your belly.
14 years
<quote>I agree with ChubbyHoney, why make it directed at their weight at all?</quote>
Two reasons that occur to me:
1. We imagine that if the woman knew we prefer her size she would like that about us;
2. There are some women who think they have to lose weight before even getting into a relationship and we would like to disabuse them of this notion. There are probably fewer of those than there used to be.
But you're right...it would probably backfire at least as often as it worked!
14 years
A take-off on Vinylrider's idea.
In the scenario where someone has gained weight since you saw her last, you say: "You look great! Have you changed your hair or something?"
Obviously if this line of questioning makes her uncomfortable, drop it. Otherwise, continue, pretending you don't know what has changed: "No...that's not it. Hmm...you definitely look different though." And she may eventually admit to having gained some weight. Then of course you say: "Oh, that must be it! Looks good on you!"
14 years
The "eating emoticon" would make a nice feedee badge:
:G
For feeders, I suggest the fork:
--E
or simply:
I <3 :G
A non-serif font would look better for all of these.
14 years
emmyjk and I were just chatting about how inspiring all the weight-gain photos on the internet can be and both think there's a feedback effect:
1. People post pics of their gain...
2. inspiring more people to start gaining themselves,
3. resulting in even more gaining pics...
4. [goto step 2]
If true, we could end up with a lot of fat and gaining people!
Works for me!
Think it's true?
14 years
