Being an fa - acceptance?

dubiousjacob wrote

Second, all of the bigger women I have dated have been very self-conscious about their weight. They weren't comfortable with themselves like a lot of you guys are. They always talk about losing weight and how bad they feel about themselves, and I don't know how to say much more than "I like you the way you are" without sounding like a perv. Several of them gained weight (not on purpose), and I told them they looked cuter but they didn't believe me smiley


This right here. I've relived this scenario a few times myself. I have this uncanny ability to fall in love with women who gain weight and hate themselves for it. Of course, it's impossible to convince a woman that she looks beautiful if she refuses to believe it herself. Not to mention they can't understand why I feel the way I do.

The one who does believe it has to be out there somewhere, right?

And my family has always been a little puzzled by my taste in women, but ultimately they just want to see me be happy. Hopefully yours is the same way, even with the teasing.
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Favorite fat feature besides belly?

There's nothing like nuzzling a fat girl's neck and having a little extra chin and other stuff to kiss on.
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Similarities that we all share, but never mention.

If you're musically inclined, it's difficult not to do just about anything rhythmically.
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Ten techniques for spotting fakes

then I got bored and just asked them what they got out of being a faker


Interesting question. I wonder that myself. Outside of the obvious scammers out there who try to get your money, what in the world would someone be out after at a place like this? Humiliation? Their own jollies? Satisfying their urge to be a bully?

I had someone dubious hit me up in the chatroom for a private chat the other day, so I accepted for my own amusement. A couple of minutes of inane banter and they went away. Whatever. Go ahead, laugh at the weird guy who likes fat chicks. I'm too old to care anymore. I got nothing to lose, so I'll take some chances.
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