My what metric? I mean wrt to dosage and hepatoxicicity there is certainly something to be said in favor of your stance, and looking at cbd and thc as isolates will give you a skew but, once you add the word weed, one tends to find that they are adding in a specific usage type which is smoking.

High tar contents, high temperatures etc and the simple.fact that it is smoke inhalation (usually repetitive) you will find the "danger" is more present with "weed" [smoking].

Back to the core topic, there are many variables and as previous posters have written there is certainly correlation for a number of issues such as type 2 diabetes which now seems to be related to visceral fat around the pancreas.

However a key concern that you can bet on, is increased joint strain. Heavier and more active people stress their joints more. This isn't just about being fat though, body builders, athletes, infantry soldiers, they all have an extra load and all seem to suffer similar issues.

This. Literally, make her happy and secure and make sure she knows it's for the long term then you'll more than likely end up with more to cuddle.

But remember, once she starts to gain, make sure you she can see your increased attraction. And of course, when asked be honest.

I was amazed at how happy my wife was when given a carte blanche to be any size she found herself according to her natural habits. Again note that it's a proper carte blanche which means if she finds herself slimming down to 100lbs again (she's currently 170lbs) she knows she's safe in our relationship.

As far as I can tell: feederism (feeding for sexual gratification) is a paraphilia as it is something that is para (on the side of) your general love making.

Fat admiration and a sexual attraction to a large body type is not generally defined as a paraphilia, just as one would not define a preference for brown hair, low bmis, sportiness etc a paraphilia.

Most stuff seems pretty much covered, but it's the adaptation to finding places catering for someone of significant size. The UK is ill equipped with small parking spaces, doorways etc.

Romantic vacations are harder after a certain size as there is often a requirement to buy 2 economy seats etc.

Vehicle choices: a Prius won't work too well if you want to under home from a date.

Clothes shopping for/with her/him is not so easy either which results in a change in gift choices.

Regarding physical stuff outside of the bedroom, I've generally found no difference in energy levels. When I used to date slimmer people I've found a fairly similar spread in "lazyness".

I had a brief fling with a lady just short of 300lbs (5'4) and her favorite hobby was going for long walks in the park with the dogs, 2+hrs. She was still gaining and seemed happy about it but just liked to be out walking in the autumn air. Equally I know plenty of 120lbs couch potatoes.

It's mostly about the size consideration for furniture, transport and other things out of the house where you'll see a difference.

Indeed it is not.

Without revealing too much, she works for a a Forbes list family and slimmed whilst going from a very minor position to being in a very major position.

Whenever we all socialise together with the mentioned family there are occasional comments about her previous weight from the wife and the kids and how she slimmed down.

Her weight loss happene at the same time as the kids in said family started to go to fat camp.

Oligarchs have a lot of social pressure and the spill over to the staff in language alone is quite intense.

I had suggested it but she just occasionally browses without logging in. It she looks at Tumblr where there are a number of BP blogs.

The odd thing is is that from those that have known her longest, it appears about 5 years before I met her she weight in the low 200lbs range and kept a wider circle of friends and was more outgoing including in her attire.

I've suggested a social before but the kids didn't leave time for the outing.

That is basically what we have fallen in to in the last 2 months.

Also finding good fitting clothing has helped a lot (the move from NYC to London really made is realise that larger European women have a hard time finding ways to accentuate their bodies).

The baby leaves little time for "her time" but he'll be weaning a little next month so hopefully she'll also be able to do more things that make her feel good. She used to go out dancing and do zumba classes even when she was actively gaining, and I think that did a lot for her.

Thanks to all for the advice

It's seems very similar. I often catch her playing with her now rather fat tummy and it's her go to place with her hands in the bedroom but there's a definite self consciousness outside of the house

Keep the insulin spikes to a minimum, do it slow and with longer carbs.

Stay off the heavy boozing as well as visceral fat comes on quickly with alcohol consumption.

Soft fat is great and like anything great it's worth waiting for.