Has anyone’s partner originally not been okay with gaining and then change their mind?

When I met my husband 20 years ago I was a curvy 150ish at 5'4". Always on and off the diet train like most women.
He always told me he loved my bod the way it was and that any size I was would be sexy.
I never wanted to gain back then.
2 kids and several years later I was up around 220. I knew HE thought I was sexy but I just couldn't see myself that way. πŸ˜₯
Then one day I saw his porn collection. πŸ”₯πŸ‘€πŸ”₯
Women ranging from 200 to 500. All gorgeous women. (Some of them are on this site 😘)
I started to see the beauty and sexuality in all that extra fat they were carrying.
Sowly but surely I started seeing my bigger self as sexy the way I was.
That's when my inner feedee and feeder came out!
Now I'm at 300 and looking forward to see what this bod looks like at 350.πŸ’‹
4 years

Weight check

I actually prefer taking my measurements to weighing in.
Don't even own a scale so it's usually a big surprise for me when I do get weighed. Usually at a doctor's apt. or something.
4 years

Fat acceptance?

When I first signed up it was more for the acceptance.
Over time, once my acceptance was firmly established, my feedee tendencies started to come out more.🐷🐷 Then my inner feeder showed up! πŸ–
4 years

How much do you want to gain?

My answer used to be 250.......Then I said I could never weigh more than 300..........Now i'm past that on my way to 350!
It all feels so good on me that I just want to see my butt and thighs keep spreading wider.
Mobility and being able to keep up with my family is important to me so I guess that will be my limiting factor when things start to get difficult.
4 years

Anyone else not attracted to feeding someone into morbidly obese?

In a fantasy world it would be fun to let myself give in to the ultimate feedee desires to eat and screw all day and night. Key word here is fantasy.

Here in the real world where I have responsibilities it would never be a possibility. This doesn't mean I'm going to stop gaining yet. As long as my joints don't complain too much and I can still go for walks and take care of my family. I am a very healthy and active 300lb fatty. Let's see what happens at 350.

And it all depends on how she carries it. I know women who stopped being attractive to me at 250ish, and some who are 600 or more and are still drop dead gorgeous. I'm all about proportions. If suddenly I stopped gaining evenly and only my belly got bigger i'd be done gaining.
4 years

Lets play a game of never have i ever (for feedees and gainers)

Sure why not........
1. Been fed IRL
Yes

2. Ate myself to sleep
Yes, woke up with melted chocolate on my belly.
3. Had sex while being fed at the same time
Just foreplay.
4. Stolen food because IοΏ½m just a piggy
Yup.
5. Been called a fat name in public
Yes.
6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly
Yes. Lady thought I was preggo.
7. Been fatter than my current weight
no
8. Ripped clothes or popped a button
yes
9. Broken furniture because of my weight
Creaky chairs count?
10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on
No bestiality here.
11. Fantasized about immobility
No.
12. Ate until I threw up
Close but no.
13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size
Not yet....
14. Posted nudes of myself online
no
15. Been fed online
Encouraged. There is no real food in a chat.
16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member
Every holiday gathering.
17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat
Hubby loves it.
18. Started rubbing my belly in public
All the time.
19. Been called a pig
Yes.
20. Been weighed and measured by my partner
Yes
21. Been in a gaining competition with another.
Yes but she quit early.
4 years