Over 40 too late to start gaining?

Fanedfox:
Your age shouldn’t be an issue at all. I had to weight to gain deliberately until I retired from the military.
Being older you will gain a lot easier as your metabolism will continue to slow.
Enjoy yourself!

Kacchan:
Wow - FanedFox sighting! 😎

I can vouch as someone who didn't start gaining until my late 40s - it's slow and then it's fast. At first it will feel like you're not making any progress, and then it starts to pile on pretty quickly.

Listen to Munchies - be mindful of blood sugar and blood pressure, and be aware of increased potential for sleep apnea.

I actually started my deliberate gain at 60. I loved how quickly I put on weight and how effortless it was. I gained 35 lbs. over a few years, no stretch marks, I have a 48” waist which I love, smooth round firm belly.
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Getting turned on writing a fat fetish story

The writing is such a turn on. That’s why I have written so many stories!
5 months

Over 40 too late to start gaining?

Your age shouldn’t be an issue at all. I had to weight to gain deliberately until I retired from the military.
Being older you will gain a lot easier as your metabolism will continue to slow.
Enjoy yourself!
5 months

Gaining slowly

Thick2bbw:
Trust me, I want to gain and be big. But I want to do it slowly and enjoy the journey. So please any advice on my following plan:

Continue my normal meals just get an extra serving and drink a soda to every meal.

Every night before bed, ice cream chug.

Snack time that will be considered healthy in public: peanut butter (I usually will eat a few spoon fulls at work)

Make every fast food meal a large and go from having zero meals a week to at least 2 a week. (Will increase once I am bigger).

And lastly: stuffing on the weekends. I am loving stuffing myself to the point I cannot move. But it has to be on the weekend since it will be impossible to do it on the weekdays due to work.

Let me know what you guys think or if I should add anything else. Would love to gain at least 5 pounds a month. (Please don’t push for me to gain over 20 pounds a month).


To me, anyway, you’re describing a rapid weight gain.
I retired from the military reserves in 2013. My weight was 206lbs. In 2023 I hit my highest weight at 240lbs. So 34lbs. Over ten years, I just ate more at meals, always had dessert, and few binges here and there. I still run in the mornings and I’m fairly active I.e. mowing the lawn, home maintenance, etc.
Just a few thoughts on your proposed journey, enjoy and have fun!
7 months

Job to get fat wanted

Working from home. No need to get dressed, work in your underwear, access to food all day and not worrying what your co- workers think.
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9 months

Inflatable fake bellies

Twig Bug:
Idk if I am in the right section, but I am trying to find some fake bellies that are inflatable and realistic looking...would anyone happen to know were I can find one?


I have a couple of inflatable beach balls. I know, you're thinking that's not realistic, but weight! I have some larger briefs, partially inflating the "ball" and stuffing it into the larger briefs for support, with sweat pants or larger basketball shorts, it looks pretty real and convincing.
9 months

A weight gain idea

I gained around thirty pounds over several years mainly on binges while "home alone" or at our vacation cabin.

The binging is really fun and gains showed up very quickly. I kept on the pounds by eating more after binges.

I went from 206 lbs. to 235 lbs. My waist around my love handles and belly button is 48", around 42" where I wear my belt.

Eat up!
9 months

Getting fat in middle age

GrowingLoveHandles:
“Middle-age spread” is a thing and basically expected and accepted in our society.

There’s no such thing as “teenage spread”.

You’ve gotten to the age when your metabolism just naturally slows down.

Just enjoy life and good food, and let nature do her handiwork.


I've gained thirty or so pounds over the last few years. I'm seventy now, I think it is expected that older you get, not only is it easier to gain, but you're "supposed too" gain.

I was in the military reserves for over twenty five years and had to watch my weight. The older I got the harder it was to meet the standard, though the standards were adjusted for age.

So, of course, when I retired I started to indulge, not totally gorging myself, but eating more and higher calorie foods.

I'm now hovering between 235 lbs. and 240 lbs. at 5'11" in height, so clinically obese.

My wife hasn't mentioned my increased weight, which I do nothing to hide from her. She is obese too.

My only concern, really is how fat do I want to be?
9 months

Sighting: see evidence of wg that is a turn-on

Billedmeup:
I thought it might be interesting to start a thread about favorite WG sightings. Whether your checking out the opposite sex or same sex, man or women, what catches your eye as evidence of weight gain that you might find as exciting.

I’ll go first. My turn-on is evidence of those first 10 to 30 or 40 pounds. Here are some examples.

1. Relationship weight, especially on display at the beach or local water park. I love to spot a youngish couple, like maybe in their late 20s, who are still wearing the same bathing suits as when they were single and thinner. Only now, he has a soft beer gut bulging over his swim trunks and she is sporting a burgeoning muffin top spilling over her bikini bottoms. As an added bonus, maybe she has an ill-fitting top because her boobs have grown a cup size or two and it is pinching into some back fat.

2. Sweater dresses or other types of clingy dresses that show off an expanding pot belly. A necessary ingredient is the visible indentation of a deep wide belly button, and maybe a panty line. This just drives me wild. It is a signal that there is no body shaper, just a nice soft belly just under a thin layer of clingy cloth.

I remember seeing a lady sporting a full plump belly in a clingy dress waiting to be seated at a nice restaurant. I imagined it would be even rounder after she stuffed herself with a big three course dinner. When she got home, maybe she would pat and rub it and complain that she ate too much. She seemed un self-conscious and even proud to have it on display. Just made me wonder, was she showing it off, knowing it would drive some men crazy.

3. Professional women with too-tight clothes. I like to see a professional woman in slacks and button up blouse with the buttons straining and pants so tight that the zipper is straining and it looks like a seam could blow out if she sat down. I recently leased a new car, and amid the potbellied male salesman was a very hot female. She was about 30 and very attractive. She was wearing gray wool slacks like a man’s suit pants. The kind that don’t stretch. She had a nice bubble butt and a round little pot belly. The pants were so tight, I couldn’t imagine how she could sit down. I couldn’t keep my eyes off her. I figured that there is no way she bought clothes so tight. She had to have grown into them and is in denial about going up a size or two.

Those are my big three. If anyone is interested, next I’ll list my top sightings at the gym. I would love to hear favorite sightings from others.


I really like this thread. Yes it is objectifying persons gaining weight and if you are on this site, think about it!

I agree with all "three" observations.
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