Ever feel conflicted but for more practical reasons?

XFat:
To be completely honest, I can't really relate to your issues, ive always been chubby, my work is sedentary and I do like to stuff my belly... That being said, I do have some tips:

1.) Snacking- If stuffing isn't your jam, try to snack all throughout the day, anytime you have a free moment, always have skittles or something in your pocket, even go as far as setting reminders on your phone. Ive found my days of biggest intake were actually day-long stuffing sessions, where I never fully ate myself completely out of commission, and took only small breaks between refilling my belly, leaving it full/bloated for the entire day. Obviously you dont have to do it to the extent that I did, but Snacking often will help!

2.) Career - I knew I wanted to be fat/was gaining even back in high school, and I did tailor my career path into business, then HR. I work fully remote but even when I was in office, I had to sit for 8+ hours a day... If you dont particularly care about how much money you make or having passion for your job, id recommend administration work, its highly sedentary, largely WFH, and you can get a certificate in 6 months/1 year

3.) Empty Calories - You kind of cover this as being hard, but ill stress it anyways, empty calories will be your friend, ultra processed foods, full sugar drinks, crackers, cookies, fries, etc... if you dont want to feel overfull but put in weight, empty calories will be your friend.

I hope this helps and best of luck to you!


Thanks but unfortunately this advice just doesn't seem to work or be practical for me given my current job and how food affects me e.g. I have no time to snack outside of breaks, 'empty home cooked calories' can still filling and according to my watch I did nearly 800kcal's worth of steps the other day (or 1.8 chocolate bars).

Had another mental slap in the face when a customer said 'at least you're getting exercise' after moving some stock for them, never mind that I was in physical pain due to old injuries I just have to live with.

It's why I wasn't really after advice and just curious if others have similar issues.
2 days

Belly hang?

Unfortunately it's one of those things where there are many different factors, just look at the pictures of people in the pics section.
2 days

Ever feel conflicted but for more practical reasons?

I know it's common for people to feel conflicted about gaining, but as per the title I'm curious how often feel conflicted but for more practical reasons?

In my case, I do have a goal of eventually getting fat enough to have a permanent belly hang.

The conflict however is that I realistically can't see that happening.

For starters I don't enjoy stuffing myself, I don't like to eat too early, home meals make me feel too full and the type of food I can comfortably stuff myself with is take out junk food which obviously costs allot.

Then there's my retail job, which is fairly physical and I only get a half hour lunch break which means at best I have a 500kcal chocolate bar.

Even back when I was pushing myself to gain I found the gains minimal which combined with the above left me thinking that it was impractical to continue so I stop.

Gets worse though because every now and then I do get the urge to try and push myself to gain again by eating more even though the above still applies, so I feel like I'm wasting money over eating only to still be plateaued and then have to give up again.

To be clear, I'm not asking for advice or anything like that, I'm just curious if anyone else has similar issue(s), although I'd be curious to hear if you overcame them and how e.g. new desk job.
6 days

When you've reached your goal, what do you hope people think when they see you?

Honestly, indifference.

My 'ideal' body involves a permanent belly hang across my waistline and I don't expect anyone else I know IRL to 'enjoy' the concept.

If anything my concern is either people talk behind my back or worse say something because they want me to lose weight for health reasons.

So I'd rather they just be indifferent.
1 week

What did you miss about the old technology/media?

KlondikeBar:
I miss the concept of renting VHS and DVD's. There used to be a Blockbuster near our neighborhood when I was a kid. We would occasionally rent VHS tapes until eventually the DVD player became more prioritized. My family rented DVD's from the library, Safeway, and Hollywood Video.

Harleen Zaftig:
I'm actually just about to purchase a record player and casette/CD player that can also export the media into digital format...

Honestly, it's a gift for someone else, but I cannot wait to listen to the quirks of the older media formats.

I remember reading this quote, let's see if I can find it:


.... Well, I couldn't find it. But it was something along the lines of "The flaws of a technology become its greatest feature, retroactively."

I can't wait for the scratchy records and having to rewind the casettes.

The skippy CDs will still drive Me crazy, I'm sure, but in a warm way.


If I may ask, which model are you getting?

I've been looking into getting a relatively cheap tape player/recorder for the odd thing e.g. archiving, retro computers, etc.
5 months

Powder as an alternative to cream?

Hhhggg:
Hi
These weight gain powders are a good addition.

But they are usually many maltodextrin with some protein quite expensive.

The ideal combination for gaining weight would be a combination of fat and a fast carbohydrate.

So for a proper weight gain shake you need a fat source of some kind.

- heavy cream ist good, but also any kind of nut butter works as well.
To much fat will slow your digestion and make u feel full fast.
So don’t go over 60g of fat
—> 200ml of heavy cream
—> 100g of penutbutter

Than you need a fast carb source
Sugar, maltodextrin and fructose

Maltodextrin is far less sweet
So 60-90g of maltodextrin
(U can find it on Amazone and it is quite cheap 2kg come at 10-15€)
Plus some sugar

Than you need to make sure u like the texture. So add what u like milk is the miste common and works perfect.

Last past is the flavour:
There are flavour powders oder protein powders (make sure to use pure whey there should be no casein added because it fills u up more)
Fruits
Coffee
Caco

What ever u like just change it up and try some variations

With that combination each shake Hase around 1000kalories
Is easy to consume and u can add them in between meals.


Sorry for the late response, been travelling.

In the past I used to use Double Cream with Vanilla Ice Cream to make milkshakes, but due to the aforementioned changes basically anything frozen/quickly perishable is something I'd like to avoid.

I also want to be relatively discreet, being a bit of a glutton and vanilla milkshakes I could get away with, but having something obviously intended for body building will set off alarms.

So ideally I want something I can buy from a brick and mortar shop on my way home from work or maybe at best somewhere my family/person I live with doesn't use like Holland and Barrett or Morrisons and then hide in say in my bedroom drawer.

By the sounds of it though, things are either going to be complicated and/or expensive, such as this:
www.hollandandbarrett.com/shop/product/optimum-nutrition-serious-mass-cookies-cream-powder-60033588
5 months

Any thoughts on the announcement of the steam machine

Mixed.

Personally price will be the biggest factor, I might be interested in one if it's 'painfully priced' like the Steam Deck.

If it's otherwise priced against consoles/PCs then I'll just stick with my existing PC/Laptop.

Marketing this towards potential PC converts might be a better idea, especially if it does have a higher price point.

Compatibility will likely become an issue, as I have experienced with my SD/Proton, even Windows has it's issues thanks to the lack of official multiboot support and non-mainstream drivers.
5 months

Powder as an alternative to cream?

In the past I've used Double Cream as a way to try and help gain, especially where I work retail and my shifts are all over the place, however, due to some IRL changes I won't go into this has become less viable.

So now I'm wondering whether something like flavoured weight gain powder with water could be a viable alternative?

To be clear, I know NOTHING about these beyond some health conscious people I know who actually enjoy going to the gym use the stuff.

Thank you.
5 months

I need to get fat but i work an involved job (retail lmao)

I work retail and there are some ways.

Maybe get an air fryer or a deep fat fryer if your oven takes a long time to cook food.

Maybe also see if there's any cheap fast food places near where you live or any cheap food you can find that requires little prep work e.g. spaghetti.

I usually end up just eating a chocolate bar for lunch which I buy from the supermarket next door because my breaks are relatively short.
5 months
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