Any regrets

Feedeeinprogress:
I am a new Feedee and I was wondering if any of y’all had gained a significant amount of weight and regret it to the point of you losing it back. just curious.


early on i had a few moments of panic, questioning what i had let happen and resolving to lose weight...

it happened twice in a big way. first was when i'd gained almost 50 lbs, and then again as it got closer to 100 lbs.

but those feelings left didn't last very long. a visit to the gym and a plate of nachos later, and i realized i'd made the right lifestyle choice. smiley
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Sort of personal

The Wicked Pear:
So I've got my bed height raised to the point where I sit up, pivot, and just stand up. Just wish it was just as easy for toilet height as well. Going out shopping for affordable ways to raise the toilet deck. But then I'm wondering if, with the easing of getting off the throne, should I be concerned that my pelvic tilt is too shallow for proper bowel movement?


in hospital i used a toilet seat riser, there are very similar-looking items for sale on amazon.

while i had no issues with the one i used, i would note that the ones on amazon quote a 300-lb maximum weight. not sure where to get something heavier-duty?
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20 chapter limit

as a long time user and an avid story reader, i totally understand this change. to me, it's exactly like the messaging limits. the limits make sense for most users and if you need more, you can pay.

the way i read stories these days, is i am typically reading new chapters as authors post them, so i am well below the threshold of 20/day. i can see if someone is new to the site (or discovering the kink) it may seem very limiting, but for 85-90% of us it isn't.

hiccupx, i appreciate how thoughtfully you make and apply rules here - it is the key reason that ff is so great, has such a great community, and has gone on so long. thank you!
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How to be unapologetically fat

CatgirlEva:
So yeah, I want to be the kind of fat person who's big, not ashamed of it, and knows she's getting fatter. But I don't know how to go about this other than the obvious. Like I want to show people that yeah, fat people can be happy too! Y'know?


since becoming very large, whenever i am in a new situation or environment, i try to project confidence. i smile big, i greet people, i try to be upbeat. let me tell you, it's not how i always feel - it's more of a "fake it until you make it" kind of behaviour.

i basically try to avoid shrinking, being part of the wallpaper. i am definitely not flaunting my body, as others have suggested, but i want to project that i am not ashamed of being fat, i am not trying to hide myself, or minimize myself.

usually i find if you greet someone with joy, they will reflect that back at you (for the most part... there are always miserable people, who are the exceptions).
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I turned my boyfriend into a feedee lol

Angelhoney:
My bf and I have been dating for over 7 yrs now, he’s tall (6’3) and handsome, when we first started dating he was pretty skinny! We started dating right after high school for reference.

Over the years I’ve introduced him to my fetish, which he accepted but at first wasn’t super into. Honestly, I mainly am interested in the fantasy of me gaining weight but I love to see others indulge as well.

I’ve fed him a ton of hearty home cooked southern meals. He always bragged about how good my cooking was, and how good his metabolism was. He loves junk food, his favorite meal is pizza or anything fried and he’s obsessed with soda. I knew his slim waistline couldn’t last long once he started drinking beers pretty consistently a couple years ago.

He’s about to turn 26 and I’ve managed to help give him a pre-dad bod. It’s soo hot to me and he likes to tease me about it!!! He joked that I just want him bigger and that he eats more for me.

I love his soft chest and how he almost has moobs. He has a pretty soft ass too lol. I’m bisexual so he jokes to me about how his ass is fat like a girls, and it turns me on.. He has a permanent muffin top in all his clothes, he wears XL shirts but we both notice how the swell of his belly pokes out in all his clothes now.

I’m seriously not writing fiction! I’m just aroused and feeling grateful for my boyfriend and wanted to give anyone hope in a relationship that wants to practice their fetish- I was terrified to share my fetish with my boyfriend at first. He slowly accepted the notions of it and we had some awkward sex sessions messing around with it but now it’s awesome.

We still divulge in my own fantasies of gaining weight some times but the spotlight is definitely on him right now. I always thought feeder turned feedee stories are hot and it happened to him and I might let go one day with him and get fat.

For right now though, I like the difference between our bodies. I’ve always been the one in the relationship that actually likes working out (he dislikes doing so, at a point he was only working out his arms but never his abs so he could ‘keep the belly’). I swear he’s such a fatty, if it wasn’t for his metabolism that is slowly eroding with age he’d be huge right now.


thanks for sharing this, it's wonderful to hear about experiences like this.

too much of the time people dating in this community seem to focus on "i need to find a feeder," rather than finding someone they just genuinely really like! if you can find someone that you are compatible with, that you can trust and can fall in love with, that is soooo much more important than anything else.

similar to your experience, my partner was not aware of this feedist world at all, she just liked fat guys. and i think once you can get to trust someone, and they're not pushing their fetish on you, but just giving you a window into it, it allows a person to see it through the other's eyes, in a way.

wishing you two all the best, and many more pounds in the future! smiley
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Surviving the heatwave - a fat person's guide to staying cool

this is a great thread - thanks for all the advice. it is especially necessary now!
3 weeks
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My lovely gf and i have thought about creating content - what do you all think of her ?

she has a great figure! and cat people are generally great people. smiley thanks for sharing.
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