Fantasy Feeder

Slippery slope

Igetthejoke:
Not traditionally into d/s dynamics except where it intersects with:

Force feeding
Humiliation
Psychological manipulation to associate food and pleasure to rewire me into a shame and lust fueled eating machine that only needs to be forced when I'm getting too full

The way dom/sub stuff turns me on is in the specific case of the aspect being relegated to the power dynamic of me losing mobility and being helpless. Specifically I have no say in how fat I get - I'm clearly a thing to be used and I don't even need my value degraded or to be objectified in a depersonalized sense.

If anything, I want personal tailored psychological manipulation. To be clearly prized and talked about like I'm a person not an object.. but that my desires still don't matter in the face of the overwhelming need and inevitability of them turning me into a human balloon of fat.

I want to be teased and praised, worshipped for my phyicality but also reduced to it but still with the sense that my individuality is present it's just not important compared to my role as their pet project blimp.

The acknowledgement that I am a person but it still doesn't matter because their desire for my impossibly fat future is just obviously more important.

i am not sure what your post is for... are you putting this out there in search of a dom? or are you just sharing what's been in your head for a long time, in a safe space?

a lot of what you wrote really resonates with me, and i am sure with a lot of others here.

i have been very in touch with dom/sub roles throughout my adult life, in a variety of relationships and as both dom and sub at different times. i think it's important to recognize that these roles (among many others) typically require some compromise in a relationship. we're all unlikely to find someone who sees the world (and each other) thru exactly the same lens, and that's ok. in fact, it's much better - otherwise there would be no surprise!

you've done a good job of stating what you like and your limits, and that's an important place to start. i hope you find someone to explore that with you.

2 days

Canuck

Umbilical hernia from gaining?

Flabinista:
Christ on a bike! As if there aren't enough issues... honestly you'd think our bodies weren't designed for being x2, 3x, 4x x5 their normal weight!

this is our future... we are evolving! look how far (fat) we've come in just 2 generations? we will adapt....

5 days

Canuck

Only fans is a scam

Edddde:
Basically ppl want you to pay them to interact with them. Why should I pay to have someone to interact with me?

if you want a specific someone to interact with you, yes, you may have to pay them for that!

if you want people to interact with you purely out of their own interest, well, you don't get to pick who those people are... they will be whoever finds you interesting.

there's a real undercurrent of male entitlement in these "everything is a scam" posts that i've seen lately, and it's always "the (fill-in-the-blank) is the problem, the problem is not me."

i've been on ff and feabie a long time (mostly ff), i've made great friends on both sites. i've been out to dinner and for drinks with a few members, too. i've never dated anyone from either site, though. i know a few friends that have - but it's very, very, very, very rare.

if you're pissed off that someone won't respond to your messages except through onlyfans, they're a pro, they're not there for casual chit chat. so either pay up, or move on. simple as that.

never expect to get more out of an online community than you're prepared to put into it.

2 weeks

Canuck

Getting muscle chub

Mrsilke:
Thanks for the tips. Is there any certain protein intake that I should get, I've heard of mass gainer protein powder. Any idea if it's worth it.

protein powders are more for people who want to increase muscle mass without gaining fat, so i would say you don't need to go there to be a muscle chub. plus, it is hard on your kidneys.

eat some eggs, lots of meat, cheese, whatever - a gram of protein is the same regardless of where it comes from. but if you eat it as part of a meal, it's probably healthier but it is also way more enjoyable if it is in tasty food!

2 weeks

Canuck

Only fans is a scam

Edddde:
Integrity – We Uphold Trust--- this is what only Fans says. It's just a platform to scam people out of money. Message people on here is you are truly interested in them and don't be saying "I need you to paypal me" pr send money by other means.

not sure what your point is - are you complaining that people on here are promoting their onlyfans and that they aren't interested in a relationship with you?

2 weeks

Canuck

Quoting and replying not working?

working again for me now, too - thanks to whoever made the fix!

2 weeks

Canuck

Quoting and replying not working?

i am not sure if this is a site issue or an issue on my machine, but i seem to be getting no response to the "quote" button on forum posts, and when i reply the circle just spins.

(yet i am able to create this topic!)

i am using firefox on linux.

3 weeks

Canuck

Getting muscle chub

Mrsilke:
Hey all, I've posted a thread before but lowkey got blasted on it. So to summarize that my gf and I have been dating for a few months now and she wants me to be a bit bigger. She says she wants me to be wider and she wants to feel small (she is a bit thicker, not fat by any means though). I am taller but I came into this relationship around I'd say 135-140ish pounds and now I am up to 165. I honestly barely see a difference. Maybe I've widened out a tiny bit and I can see some pudge on my belly but I am not really "chubby" (being that lanky can't really see it). When I first met her she said she'd like if I was bigger, and I was initially confused but after talking for a little bit about it, she's come out and says she wants me to be muscle chub and heavier set, and to widen out. I am about to start hitting the gym again, just been really busy with college classes and all that. What can I do to maximize weight gain to get that muscle chub physique? Thanks for tips if you have any. I can the and answer any questions.

as a former fitness/gym nut for more than 20 years (and now a big fatty), my advice is: eat as much as you can, especially protein. if you are starting to lift heavier weights to gain muscle, you are going to need to really increase the calories you're taking in.

i found it hard to put on weight when i was exercising a lot, but i wasn't stuffing at that time. if you can keep fueling your muscles (and your chu

you'll do great! you'll want to target well over normal calories, though (shoot for 5,000 a day or more if you can manage it).

3 weeks

Canuck

Horror movie recs

FFu5er11:
Awesome. Romulus if not mistaken. I did see AvP but didn't find it to be scary. Same with Covenant (more gory)

JellyfishOwls:
Oh god yes that's it! Romulus was sick as hell. I may have to do a deep dive on the franchise again haha

if you liked alien romulus, definitely go back to the first one - there are lots of links that you will appreciate! even though it is from the 1970s the visuals still hold up really, really well.

great movie all around!

4 weeks

Canuck

Lactation: much extra would someone have to eat to fatten someone else up with it?

Mr Smith:
I've actually seen this as a plot point in multiple stories where someone is mainly fattened up mainly this way.

Obviously not intended to be realistic but does make me wonder.

just doing the math... 1 litre of breast milk contains 700 calories... it takes 3,500 calories to add 1 lb of fat... so someone would have to drink 5 litres of breast milk to gain 1 lb?

so... a lot!

4 weeks

Canuck