I know this is not a stereotypical question for people with our interests, but hopefully someone has experience with it.
Recently, I’ve really enjoyed a bit of indulging and gaining. I want to gain a little more, but eventually, I’d like to stop gaining.
Here’s the hiccup: my appetite and cravings have grown, and now support *gaining*, not maintaining. After a few more lbs (probably 5-15), I’ll want to maintain.
Does anyone have experience in successfully reducing their appetite or cravings?
The only thing I’ve found that ever reigned in my appetite and cravings was a long backcountry trip—I lost quite a bit of weight, and my cravings along with it.
(I’ve read plenty of the “Just give in and enjoy it” stuff over the years, and that’s just not what i want to do, so I’d appreciate it if we didn’t go there)
5 years
lolno:
It's easier to introduce it in a relationship where you already know your partner is weird/kinky. Even if they aren't into feedism itself, they'll usually be more willing to at least entertain certain aspects of it.
"Kink empathy", perhaps?
I've shared my interest in feedism to both partners and friends, and while my experience are certainly anecdotal (and not data), it does seem like the kinkier the person, the more accepting they are.
5 years
As long as consent is freely given, it’s not immoral.
Of course, they have to have enough context to make an informed decision—for example, they should know about your fetish
5 years
FattyFat25:
My sister was always thin weighing in at 110. She went to college this fall and gained 25 lbs. She kept trying to lose it but ended up gaining more reaching 160. She complained of feeling fat but accepted that she was a bigger girl. In the meantime she met a really nice guy who loved how fat she was and wanted to help her gain more. She blew up to 200 and with the quarantine has put on 40 more lbs. I think she looks amazing and can’t wait to see her get bigger.
Wait so your sister met a feeder? And you're into feedism? Tbh that's kind of wild, because we seem so few and far between.
Any idea how she feels about her gain now? Has she come to like it?
5 years
My belly isn't that big--I don't suck it in to hide it. I guess I kind of keep a bit of tension in my core to... support my organs? It feels uncomfortable if I relax all the way. Does anyone else encounter this?
I'm wondering if it has to do with the fact that--at present--my belly fat is more visceral than subcutaneous (which I aim to change)
5 years
Don't "try and get" anyone to gain any weight they don't want to gain. Their bodies, their choices.
5 years
I've not reviewed the research behind SmartBMI, but it claims that age reduces the risks associated with high BMI
5 years
Ahhhh gotcha thank you. Cacao butter it is!
5 years
Has anyone tried consuming stearic acid? Or, does anyone know if it might be a good or bad idea?
This question is inspired by becomingoverweight’s extensive post on scientific articles. (A *wonderfulI* resource by the way)
From those, I gathered that stearic acid seems to be the magic molecule in dairy, cocoa butter, and shea butter that causes (or is at least associated with) your body to redistribute visceral fat to subcutaneous fat. Given COVID restrictions and stress eating, I’ve put on a bit of weight quite rapidly. I like it, and I like my size, but I want to redistribute it.
Turns out you can buy “food grade” stearic acid for pretty cheap... (this is just from a brief search on amazon—-haven’t vetted what “food grade” means). Seems to be used as a binder or lubricant in supplements (eg magnesium sterate) and beauty products.
Anyone have thoughts?
5 years
Ditzy:
That is very true.
If you just think you want to gain or you have a fantasy about being fat isn't quite enough.
You have to have the will and the drive to actually do it.[/quote]
Will and drive is certainly *helpful*, but we can’t overlook the importance of care and support from others. And I don’t mean like a feeder that will *push* you, but friends and a partner (or more than one, if that floats your boat) who will support you and your happiness regardless of amount of food consumed or the direction of the numbers on the scale.
5 years
