James444:
When my clothes wouldn’t fit anymore

EarlOfNewton:
Here’s a fun idea: a rebrand of the fitness challenge called 75 hard. This challenge normally consists of working out twice a day etc for 75 days straight and if you fail any component you have to restart.

My idea is for a weight gain version:

Rule 1: you have to eat a minimum of 8,000 calories a day.

Rule 2: you have to drink a minimum of 2,000 calories a day (weight gain shakes, alcohol, soda) any drink with a decent chunk of calories

Rule 3: no exercise, and you can only walk a maximum of 2,000 steps a day. This means you’ll need to maximise driving, delivery, use of drive throughs, having partners/friends/family go grab you things etc

Rule 4: spend at least 9 hours a day in bed, not necessarily asleep and doesn’t have to be in one go, but plenty of naps and sleeping on a full stomach assists with weight gain

You have to do this 75 days in a row and if you fail any component you have to restart.

Munchies:
Hmm.

Who is spending 9 hours in bed in this economy every day? Love that for them tho.

With that said, I would not have any feedee of mine do this challenge. (As someone who works out until failure, the 75 Hard Challenge sounds like an ER visit in the making, but that is outside of this kink community."

Instead of eating 8kcal and drinking 2kcal, I would combine these two categories. Make it a minimum of consuming 10kcal. Give them that flexibility to minimize illness. This sounds like a puking session in the making.

Nix the heavily relying on others for all their needs for 75 days. Unless they can afford to be Ubering and Doordashing like that (in this economy?) or have a dedicated feeder, this is just going to piss their loved ones off.

I don't know anyone who is interested in exercise while eating 10kcal + a day, but you need to at least walk around to prevent constipation. This is painfully common if you are regularly overtaxing your belly. And I wouldn't keep that up for 75 days. A month at most. Two and a half months is too much.

Njn:
I worked at a grocery checkout during university, where I reside there is sadly a lack of Super-sized indivuals. However I had this one customer that would waddle in every day at around 10am. I could confidently place her at well over 400 pounds. She had a long, hanging belly that always peeked out under whatever she was wearing.

Her breath always smelled like sweet pastries and she always brough a 3L bottle of diet soda, she was a treat.

Chillguyontheeastside:
I was wondering if anyone else has given up on finding a feedee partner? It's either everytime it's too good to be true or nothing ever leads anywhere. I feel like I just reached the point that if it happens it happens, but it's been to the point that I might just start to pull away from the community/kink

MottiF:
You don't understand how amazing this is, this part of fetishism hasn't been researched enough and it's a shame.

There are so many men who want to gain weight and so many wonderful women who love to make us fatter and gain weight. It's just a crime that there aren't any regular physical encounters like that.

Anyway, I just wanted to share my experiences. I met the woman of my life. And she wants me so much bigger and there's nothing more attractive than that. I eat so much for her and I gain weight beautifully 🥰

Munchies:
Love this for you.

And yeah, female feeders practice feedism differently than male feeders. It's genuinely fascinating.

QueenSelene:
I’ve always thought about it. I know there’s a large community of people that absolutely hate it but I wanted to get everyone’s opinion. Personally I love watching others enjoy food almost as much as I love eating. It can be intimate or straight up primal..how do you feel about mukbang content?

Fatpeter:
I’m starting to realise there are virtually no female FA/feeders on this site. Ones that are into guys at least anyway. Most fat women on here seem to be into either only thin guys, or thin girls or maybe other fat girls. But not fat guys. There is even virtually no thin female FAs that are into fat guys. They seem to prefer women too. In fact it really only seems to be other guys that are interested in fat guys. Has anyone else noticed this too?

Munchies:
*Stares at you in heterosexual domme feeder with a male feedee*

Lol, what the heck are you talking about? We do exist on FF. There's a lot of us too. But I have noticed some things that may explain your situation.

There are a lot of guys on here that are ... to put in mildly ... insane, gross, and creepy. Not all of them are like that. But there's so many of them that even some of my bisexual female friends have sworn off all the men on this site.

And for the ones that are straight? It's hell, man. If you look through the forums, you can see horror story after horror story. I can even share some of my own with you if you want.

Still, of the male feedees I'm friends with on this site (bisexual, pansexual, and heterosexual) they don't have issues finding female feeders (romantic, sexual, and platonic). It helps that they are all kind, respectful, personable, and bring more to the table than an empty belly.

These are not rich men. They have average looks. But their character plays a huge roll in their success.

MottiF:
The most important comment I ever read on this issue 👏🏻
You have to bring to the table more then just your growing belly

Kitsune:
As someone who dated BHM feedees over the past years. A common pattern I've noticed is they constantly always talk about their weight gain. Sometimes send belly pics here and there. It's nice once in a while but honestly I just want meaningful conversations. It felt like I was the only one who took the relationship seriously.

Chloe957:
Well, I am a thin girl into fat guys, I'm just not into EVERY fat guy on earth 😭
Being attracted to fat/chubby guys doesn't mean we need to be attracted to ALL fat guys.