Chillguyontheeastside:
I was wondering if anyone else has given up on finding a feedee partner? It's either everytime it's too good to be true or nothing ever leads anywhere. I feel like I just reached the point that if it happens it happens, but it's been to the point that I might just start to pull away from the community/kink

MottiF:
You don't understand how amazing this is, this part of fetishism hasn't been researched enough and it's a shame.

There are so many men who want to gain weight and so many wonderful women who love to make us fatter and gain weight. It's just a crime that there aren't any regular physical encounters like that.

Anyway, I just wanted to share my experiences. I met the woman of my life. And she wants me so much bigger and there's nothing more attractive than that. I eat so much for her and I gain weight beautifully 🥰

Munchies:
Love this for you.

And yeah, female feeders practice feedism differently than male feeders. It's genuinely fascinating.

QueenSelene:
I’ve always thought about it. I know there’s a large community of people that absolutely hate it but I wanted to get everyone’s opinion. Personally I love watching others enjoy food almost as much as I love eating. It can be intimate or straight up primal..how do you feel about mukbang content?

Fatpeter:
I’m starting to realise there are virtually no female FA/feeders on this site. Ones that are into guys at least anyway. Most fat women on here seem to be into either only thin guys, or thin girls or maybe other fat girls. But not fat guys. There is even virtually no thin female FAs that are into fat guys. They seem to prefer women too. In fact it really only seems to be other guys that are interested in fat guys. Has anyone else noticed this too?

Munchies:
*Stares at you in heterosexual domme feeder with a male feedee*

Lol, what the heck are you talking about? We do exist on FF. There's a lot of us too. But I have noticed some things that may explain your situation.

There are a lot of guys on here that are ... to put in mildly ... insane, gross, and creepy. Not all of them are like that. But there's so many of them that even some of my bisexual female friends have sworn off all the men on this site.

And for the ones that are straight? It's hell, man. If you look through the forums, you can see horror story after horror story. I can even share some of my own with you if you want.

Still, of the male feedees I'm friends with on this site (bisexual, pansexual, and heterosexual) they don't have issues finding female feeders (romantic, sexual, and platonic). It helps that they are all kind, respectful, personable, and bring more to the table than an empty belly.

These are not rich men. They have average looks. But their character plays a huge roll in their success.

MottiF:
The most important comment I ever read on this issue 👏🏻
You have to bring to the table more then just your growing belly

Kitsune:
As someone who dated BHM feedees over the past years. A common pattern I've noticed is they constantly always talk about their weight gain. Sometimes send belly pics here and there. It's nice once in a while but honestly I just want meaningful conversations. It felt like I was the only one who took the relationship seriously.

Chloe957:
Well, I am a thin girl into fat guys, I'm just not into EVERY fat guy on earth 😭
Being attracted to fat/chubby guys doesn't mean we need to be attracted to ALL fat guys.

Fatpeter:
I’m starting to realise there are virtually no female FA/feeders on this site. Ones that are into guys at least anyway. Most fat women on here seem to be into either only thin guys, or thin girls or maybe other fat girls. But not fat guys. There is even virtually no thin female FAs that are into fat guys. They seem to prefer women too. In fact it really only seems to be other guys that are interested in fat guys. Has anyone else noticed this too?

Munchies:
*Stares at you in heterosexual domme feeder with a male feedee*

Lol, what the heck are you talking about? We do exist on FF. There's a lot of us too. But I have noticed some things that may explain your situation.

There are a lot of guys on here that are ... to put in mildly ... insane, gross, and creepy. Not all of them are like that. But there's so many of them that even some of my bisexual female friends have sworn off all the men on this site.

And for the ones that are straight? It's hell, man. If you look through the forums, you can see horror story after horror story. I can even share some of my own with you if you want.

Still, of the male feedees I'm friends with on this site (bisexual, pansexual, and heterosexual) they don't have issues finding female feeders (romantic, sexual, and platonic). It helps that they are all kind, respectful, personable, and bring more to the table than an empty belly.

These are not rich men. They have average looks. But their character plays a huge roll in their success.

Ultimateaaron12:
I’ve been having a hard time trying to gain weight I’ve always been really skinny but have never tried to actively gain until now will my metabolism slow down as I push through and keep eating or should I wait until it slows naturally?

Arame:
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.

By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps

TheUltimate323:
Is that a problem? Literally my biggest fantasy is to be fat enough to not fit in chairs. That turns me on a lot. Having to use two chairs to fit my fat ass. Hopefully I'll achieve that one day.