Fantasy Feeder

Female feeder

Digpic:
Apparently I need to move to Massachusetts 😍

My thoughts exactly!

1 week

Strip mall restaurant stuffing/challenge

PurpleJade:
I’ve had this idea for a stuffing challenge involving strip malls/plazas that are mostly restaurants.

Essentially the challenge is eat either a side, combo, or entree at each unique restaurant back to back until you’ve ate at every restaurant in the strip mall. I’m not attempting to try this. Just wondering if anyone else has done something like this or if it sounds interesting.

i would love to do it! need to be prepared for a lotttt of eating hehe

1 week

MottiF

How big would you be if health issues weren’t a thing?

SteakFryThighs:
Weight gain honestly feels like the lottery, some people seem to take it well and can get huge( at least looking from the outside though I'm sure it's still hard especially at sizes that limit mobility) where as others don't get that luxury.

I know if I could I'd absolutely push for the 700s or maybe shoot to break 1000lbs.

Well, If there were no health issues or limits, I know without a doubt I’d easily push myself to around 660 lbs. That’s where my head goes when I think about a perfect world where gaining comes without consequences.

For now, though, I am actively gaining and working toward my goals, but it’s definitely not simple. Eating enough, dealing with digestion, and managing all the physical challenges that come with extra weight - especially mobility - can be exhausting at times. It’s a slow, deliberate process, and there are moments where my body reminds me that it has its limits.

Still, the drive to grow is there, and even if I can’t get to that ultimate fantasy size right now, every pound gained feels like a step closer to living that dream.

1 week

MottiF

How to plan to be 600lbs+

Spoilsandriches:
Some day there will be a point where I can't work. How can I prepare for that?

Well, If your plan is to grow that big, part of the journey is also about planning for the life that comes with it. At 600 lbs you’ll be incredibly dependent, and that can be deeply fulfilling if you see it as part of your dream - being pampered, cared for, and indulged without limits. But it also means you’ll need to prepare so that you can enjoy it fully instead of stressing about survival.

Financial stability - The bigger you grow, the harder regular work becomes. So try to explore remote or online income streams, or relying on a supportive partner who enjoys providing. That way you can focus on your growth without the pressure of “what happens if I can’t work.”

Accessibility - Furniture, living space, and comfort all become central. Planning for a bed, chair, or environment that makes your growing body feel like a throne is part of turning this into a lifestyle rather than a struggle.

Medical prep - Even in a fetish context, your body will demand attention. Having a doctor who understands your choices or at least helps you manage issues can keep the fantasy sustainable.

2 weeks

MottiF

How fat would you like to be?

The truth is, I’ve wanted to gain weight for as long as I can remember, but I’ve only started gaining seriously recently, and I’ve begun to realize that I’m ready and willing to take it very far. I have a feeder, and I hope things go well with her because she wants me huge, so right now it’s an interesting process I’m entering. I’m ready to bulk up to 440 pounds as a start and keep going, knowing she’ll be by my side. For her, I’m not supposed to weigh less than 880 pounds.

3 weeks

MottiF

How do you know for sure if you want to gain beyond fantasy and in real life

James556:
Ive made a few posts on here before, and still feel the same level of confusion. I'm sure many can relate but this kink at many times gives me a genuine desire to try gaining out. I'm not into extreme weight gain either on myself or on women, but mild gaining. But even that I've always struggled to know if I want it beyond fantasy, and as many have described my desire fades after getting off until it comes back and the cycle repeats, leaving me certain I want to keep this as a fantasy even though just minutes before I was planning on a trial gain! It makes no sense leaving me so confused. I am genuinely happy with my current body but obviously these fantasies are still with me. Do you think I should just accept that the thoughts/ cycle will come and go like this forever or should I maybe commit even though Im conflicted on so many levels. It's also confusing that with this kink you can't just leave it in the bedroom and have to live with the gains even when you may regret it, so maybe fantasy is best. It feels like it would be too intense if I gain.

It’s the same for me, but to be honest, I’m acting out this fantasy with gaining and overeating because I really want to be a big, fat guy. Recently, a determined feeder entered my life, and my weight is climbing, and if things go well with her, I’m ready to go very far with it. So in my opinion, it’s really individual and depends on the circumstances. For example, alone, I wouldn’t gain this much, although I do gain and don’t mind reaching a point where I’m truly huge while still staying mobile. If it’s in the context of a relationship, like I said, I could even go further, knowing she’s by my side.

3 weeks

MottiF

Female ssbbw feedee looking for feeder!

BbwAshleyBaby:
Hey 👋 I'm Ashley! 😊 I'm looking for people to help me gain! I'm a silly, nerdy, feedee who loves to have fun! Strictly online (massive social anxiety issue's). Message me! I don't bite....hard hehe

good luck! you look fantastic

3 weeks

MottiF

How can i convince my parents that i really want to gain

Slim7833:
They don't approve or want to help with the process cause of the cost and the card worried about my health but I want this and I want to gain up to 50lbs before December if possible

To convince your parents, approach the topic calmly and respectfully, showing that you are thinking about your health. Explain that you plan to do it in a controlled way, with proper and consistent nutrition, and that your goal is not just to gain weight but also to maintain a healthy body. You could suggest involving a nutritionist or doctor to ensure the process is safe. If they see that you are planning carefully and have knowledge and readiness, they will be much more open. Additionally, show them that gaining weight is very important to you emotionally and that it’s a life goal that brings you happiness.

Also, gaining about 50 pounds in three months is almost impossible in a healthy way. To gain that much weight in a short time, you would need to consume enormous calorie surpluses every day, which could lead to serious health problems (like strain on the heart, liver, pancreas, diabetes, high cholesterol, digestive issues, etc.).

In reality, healthy weight gain is about 1-2 ibs per week, which means in three months you could gain roughly 13–26 ibs in a healthy way. If you want to gain as much as possible relatively safely, you should focus on couple things:
Eat more calories than you burn, mainly from calorie-dense foods like avocado, nuts, peanut butter, pasta, rice, whole breads, and healthy oils.
Protein: Important for building muscle, not just fat – eggs, milk, cheese, meat, legumes.
Frequent meals: Eat every 2–3 hours, including healthy snacks.
Calorie-rich drinks: Shakes with milk, protein, fruits, peanut butter.
Light strength training: So that the added weight includes muscle, not just fat.

In conclusion, you can realistically and relatively safely gain 13–26 ibs by December. Trying to gain 50 ibs in such a short period is unsafe and harmful to your health. you might gain 50 ibs from 6 to 12 months, which is more realistic.

GOOD LUCK!

3 weeks

MottiF

Best simple gainer shake

Karma3425:
Oh yea you right lol 🤣🤣🤣

Ingredients:

2 cups of heavy cream - Approx. 1,600 calories (For a lighter option, you can use whole milk, but heavy cream brings in those extra calories!)

1 cup of full-fat ice cream - Approx. 500 calories (Choose a calorie-dense flavor like cookie dough or peanut butter for maximum indulgence!)

1 ripe banana - Approx. 105 calories (Adds natural sweetness and creamy texture)

1 cup of peanut butter - Approx. 1,500 calories (The heavyweight champion of calorie boosters)

1/2 cup of Nutella - Approx. 600 calories (Or use chocolate syrup for an equally rich option)

1/2 cup of oats - Approx. 150 calories (Adds fiber and extra carbs)

2 tablespoons of honey - Approx. 120 calories (Sweet, sticky, and full of energy)

1/4 cup of powdered milk - Approx. 150 calories (Packs in extra protein and calories)

Whipped cream (as much as you like for topping) - Approx. 100 calories per serving (The more, the better!)

Optional: 2 scoops of mass gainer - Approx. 500-1,000 calories (depending on the brand; the ultimate calorie boost)

I’m going to try this 🤓😋

3 weeks

MottiF

I think it was easier to get fat in the past

OhHey:
All the places turning health conscious and making sure their menu is under a certain amount of saturated fats and calories makes wg hard.

I miss the days where you could get a salad that was 700+ calories. Back in the 90's and 00's, a Southwest Grilled Chicken Salad from Mcdonalds contained over 730 calories! (Now its just 350)

Also, I used to get the chicken fried steak meal from ihop that was over 1000 calories. It was really good too. Now its been nixed. RIP.

What are some menu items/places that you miss or remember that used to help you put on the weight?

Munchies:
I think some of these issues are location-specific. When I'm at (one state north of you), I can buy the IHOP chicken-fried steak meal. In fact, there are a lot of places where I live where you can buy a meal for well over 1,500 calories. But I live in a fairly rural area, so that may have an impact on this.

I will say it's more expensive to gain weight - especially past a certain point. Not just the food, but also having to size up when you outgrow things.

BigBallBellyGirl:
It's absolutely more expensive. My household food budget is probably average for a family of two, maybe a little more because I'm making a concerted effort to eat healthy, and vegetables are costly. But when I was gaining, our food budget was our biggest expense. Additionally, having a dress made for someone my size costs around $250. My feet have also grown too wide for regular shoes. I only have one nice pair appropriate for wearing out.

Reality is hard. We're well educated and successfully employed, but most assuredly middle to upper middle class income-wise. But my size still taxes our budget, even with "normal" food expenses.

Munchies:
Money is the ultimate reason why most people stop gaining - even more than health, comfort, or peer pressure. At some point, it gets hard to afford.

FattyBeefPatty:
Man, how come the moment I’m committed to gaining everything’s gotta be so expensive 😔

Munchies:
Truly unfair

Indeed, same with me. I was gaining weight really fast but now I’m gaining much slower due the food costs, everything is just too expensive

3 weeks

MottiF