Thatguest:
Forgetting that I can't just walk up a few flights of stairs at a decent pace any more.

Urchie:
Most mukbangs are just people eating, cutting the footage, spitting it out, and repeating. That or vomiting it up. If they're actually eating it all I say yay but otherwise nay

Munchies:
Not overly fond of mukbangs because eating noises, but I love the ones that actually gorge themselves silly and get fat.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I've worked exclusively from home since the pandemic, and I haven't seen my coworkers in person since January 2023, when I was about 300 lb. In May, we have a mandatory team work retreat, and I'm concerned about logistics. Fortunately, I won't have to fly like some of our team members will, but the retreat entails 2 and 1/2 days in a hotel conference room. There is also a work dinner on the first night, and an optional social hour on the 2nd.

I'm not quite sure how to approach a request for accommodations, but I know I won't be able to fully participate. I'm 600 lb, and I have a very big midsection girth, which means I can't get into many cars. I also no longer drive, which means my husband will have to bring me to and from the venue. Additionally, I wouldn't dare sit in a standard conference room chair, and I also am unable to work at a conventional setup. If a computer is on the table in front of me, I would be unable to reach it because my belly protrudes further than my arms can reach. I have a special setup at home that includes a laptop stand and tray table, which I can maneuver into a comfortable and efficient position. Finally, the evening outings present a challenge. I'm not homebound, but I do choose restaurants carefully based on layout and seating. My company has arranged a shuttle to the destinations, which will present a challenge for me since I use a scooter and also need a sliding van door setup in order to get into a vehicle. Additionally, I use mobility aids to take care of restroom hygiene, and I struggle without my bariatric toilet seat, which is elevated and has reinforced grab bars on both sides.

Does anyone have any advice on how I can navigate this with my director? I want to attend, but my life is basically built around accommodating my size. Should I request accommodations? Should I gracefully bow out of the evening activities? All thoughts are welcome here!

Munchies:
Have you spoken to HR?

Not verbally, but I put in a request for accommodations today listing my need for bariatric seating as a starting point.

Munchies:
I would have a proper conversation HR and maybe your supervisor if you feel comfortable doing so. Either way, the only way forward is getting accommodations to attend or being excused completely.

BigBallBellyGirl:
I did, and HR was helpful. The person I spoke with is reaching out to the venue to see what accomodations can be made. I also had a high level conversation with my supervisor, explaining I've developed mobility issues and other needs in the past 2 or 3 years. She was kind, and she encouraged me to be open with HR about exactly what I need to participate. I will add, we have one other team member who isn't going because of a child with a chronic health condition, so it's not unprecedented to be excused if there aren't easy solutions. I did get the feeling my supervisor, who only sees me from the shoulders up, has absolutely no idea how big I've gotten. She may be about to find out that I've gone from "fat" to "the most obese person many people will ever see in real life".

PhoenixChimera:
At the risk of sounding like an echo, the two are not mutually exclusive: both trigger responses of pleasure, and I can assure that this works the other way round too-I get hungry, sometimes for more than food.

LuvsChub04:
tru, food n sex go together well.. Like that classic episode of Seinfeld when George brought food into the bedroom.

PhoenixChimera:
I’ve not seen that one, but I remember a Family Guy where Lois put on-and Peter’s reaction.
The worst is when I get horny and can’t eat enough to satisfy-I literally have no idea how all the food fits into me!

LuvsChub04:
gotta keep stretching your tummy
ya like in friends when he said I dont know if im horny or hungry...

PhoenixChimera:
Wow! Now there’s a blast from the past-I totally forgot about that, but now you mention it I can recall it. Far out!
It’s more like a black hole inside me-keep throwing food at it but it just never fills fully-I just end up eating everything until there’s nothing left.