I'd also like to have a fat/muscular body. The softness of fat and the firmness of muscle is such a great combination. And it's probably the healthiest kind of body you can get.

Just eat lots of nutrient and calorie dense food, and don't overdo the strength training.

1- Having a sneaky feeder who tries to fatten you up without your knowledge or consent?

As long as I don't go over my goal.

2- Submitting willingly to a dominant feeder who takes full control over your gaining?

For short term, sure. There's a slim chance, that I might be into it.

3- Having a lovey dovey romantic encourager who makes sure you are gaining as comfortably as possible?

This! Very much this!

4- Having a boy-toy encourager for you to boss around and send him to run food errands?

No, I'm not bossy.

5- Having an encourager who is more verbally teasing calling you names and slapping your fat around?

Verbal teasing? No. Slapping (and groping)? Yes.

I was diagnosed with Aspergers at the age of 8 and I've been in special education most of my school life.

It has had an impact on my social skills.

Yeah, thus I haven't told anybody about my desire to get fat outside of fantasy feeder.

To some degree, yes. Hips and ass? Sure. Moobs? Not really.