People with partners not into this - how have you navigated it?

Basically I have had this fat thing most of my life. Started during puberty and it has been part of my life ever since. I find anything fat related really fascinating.

Been alone this fat prererence, meaning on real life.

Always liked chubby, plump & fat women. Never been a feeder thought but I love to see woman enjoying good food & deserts.

Also soft round bellies on woman are soo sensual & sexy. Never had chance to touch or play with female bellies really. Wishing that someday it will become reality.

I have myself grown from skinny to quite fat myself. Started to enjoying my own soft belly growing bigger, softer & heavier.

Would love to find a female fa or female feeder but I know that both are rare on real life, especially female feeders are rare & ratio on female feeder to feedee is really small. Plenty of feedees available on single female feeder.

Not giving up thought. I keep my eyes open & maybe someday I will stumble on plump woman who enjoys belly play likes food but she is also Fa or even female feeder.
5 days

Meds to make me hungry?

Michigainer:
Mirtazapine/remeron... I take it to sleep and I'm gaining like crazy lately

I gained 42 pounds in a year when taking Mirtazapine for insomnia on small dosage.
1 month

Whatr changes do you notice when you gain weight

This sounds really good. Would love to try this myself as well. What AI did you use to get this?
1 month

Weekly public weigh-ins

Would love to go into doctors, nurses office to get measured & weighted on regulary. Listen nurses reaction on my growing, expanding body especially if nurse would poke, shake my belly.

Really hot situation would be if nurse would be a feeder and enjoy my weight gain, swelling body.

I can always dream right smiley
1 month

Purge ai content

Not a fan of AI at all.

Tag for AI would be good. Also pictures, videos & stories should always said that they were made using AI if it was used to create them.
1 month

Anyone else tired of feedism getting in the way of dating ?

GoddessRandi:
Being in a country like America doesn't really help...

Its still too stigmatized even there where the feeders and FAs are unlikely to stick around.

Its more normalized to be fat, but this kink is still not normal there.

Honestly dating in this age in general is kinda broken even without adding this kink into it.

I find plenty of feedees around, but feeders/FA are hard to come by and rarely stick around or want to meet in any normal capacity


Thank you so much for the comment.

It was my mistake to assume that this fetish is much more normal on America.

I can agree that being older adds challenge to dating.

Hoping that you will find nice person to be with & this person would be on same level with this fetish like feeder or fa. If wanting to gain weight.
1 month

* location shout outs part 3*

Male feedee, foodee & mutual gainer from Finland. Would love to meet people with similar interested, share experiences & explore more of this fetish with people.
1 month

Anyone else tired of feedism getting in the way of dating ?

Nathan P:
I just can't see my self in relationship without feedism and it sucks . The problem is this fetish feels so niche. There really isn't that many people near me who are into it me and even less that want a relationship. Everyone now and then someone will come along and give you a bit of hope but it never seems to go anywhere. I just feel like I'm always an expendable second option 😔

Sorry for making a bit of a downer post but I just need to vent and was just wondering if anyone else feels like this ?


I can feel that. I have been searching for female fa, feeder or mutual gainer for long time but never really found one on IRL. I understand that female feeders are rare.

Also distance can be issue because small country and there is no similar minded peope in here.

One resolution would be to move to another country that has more people with samekind preference, like on America.

So I can feel your pain but don't give up. I still believe there is the right one for everyone.
1 month

Feabie ban

I have also treated badly on that site, also if you are male on there that you are creep automatically that is reason for ban.

Please avoid that site in general is my advice.
2 months

Male feeder ---> feminization and feedeeism

I'm really interested on growing much bigger moobs when I gain weight, like heavy & round that would need bra for support. Don't know if these hypnosis files would help that but I'm interest.
2 months
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