Justapig:
i have so much more lard to gain until I can't reach it, but have played around with quite a few guys of that size. they find it so hot not being able to relieve themself, needing to rely on someone else for pleasure

SquishMaster:
I hate how feedism stuff is always portrayed as a kind of BDSM-offshoot. Like "Oh, he's only feeding her so she'll be helpless! No other reason!"

It's like they can't even conceive of the notion that a woman would want to get fatter for fatness' sake, vs it just being a power-dynamic thing.

Munchies:
People see feedism as men making women fat as a way to extort power over them. This, of course not only erases mutual gainers, queer gainers, bhms, and ffas, but it also does not accurately express feedism.

Can power play be a part of it? Yes. But I find most feedists are not into any aspect of BDSM.

Masuli:
How about all Thinsinapiration crap that people are glorifying on internet & on these women over size 3 are considered obese whales by this movement.

Munchies:
Eugh, I can't stand that crowd. Had an iron grip that seems to be coming back.

I remember being 115 (underweight for my height of 5'7" and being told I needed to lose 5 lbs because I was too heavy.

BBWBecky:
I have found that wearing maternity underwear,pants and shirts are more comfortable and leave more room for you belly especially when I go to the buffet

PhoenixChimera:
I do too, partially for the stretch and space-but also because of the way I gain, they fit better than ‘regular’ sizes because most/all my weight goes to my spherical belly.

BigOke02:
I remade an account on Feabie to try again and see where that goes... I made one on Fetlife, and it's.... interesting to put it lightly.

Will check out Tumblr next.

Masuli:
I have also been part of the community for long time. I remember Dimensions weight room, weight gain stories & forum. Also I was using Dial up modem connection.

I don't really know where did this enjoying being heavier, rounder myself & liking bigger girls come from

I can remember being a young skinny child & spending a half an year with my grandma because family issues. During that time I become lazy, enjoyed my grandmas cooling + all the deserts & I gained so much WEIGHT. I did grow this big belly & moobs, started to enjoy playing with my belly. Also my grandma really loved to hug me & touch my belly while commentin that I looked much better with extra weight.

Maybe this was the start of the prefering female feeders & female fa's

There was also Fatnats, anime boards that had weight gain pictures, stories.

I also remember Fantasy Feeder inner clique mentality with moderators & certain users. Oh how we cannot forgot the controversial Real or Fake voting by the community that was used instantly against person that didn't belong to the inner clique or in other causes you were voted fake just by not living in England or America.

This fetish can be challenging if you live in a small country, less people so of course changes are smaller, especially if you are considering the rarest of them all: Female feeder.

I'm not giving up thought even if this will disappoint some users but keeping my eyes open & being open minded in the present + future.

Munchies:
Female feeders are not rare. We are simply skittish as fuck.

Masuli:
I'm surprised that no one mentioned of bringing back the real or fake meter that was working really well when speaking about abusing it.

Munchies:
I'm confused. How was it working really well if there was rampant abuse?