Are female feeders unicorns?

Never met a female feeder in real life and I think it will never happen because they are so rare.
3 years

How many female feeders are on here?

It's more likely to get hit by an asteroid than find a real female feeder in real life.
3 years

What could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?

Maybe Fantasy feeder should bring back to good old fake or real meter that worked really well in the past!

I mean you were automatically voted fake by not living in the USA or UK.

Also you were voted fake if you were male.

Voted fake if you didn't belong to Fantasy Feeder "inner circle"

Maybe moderators should have more power, we all remember that one woman moderator who didn't abuse moderating power at all and banned males because they "males" or voted them fakes.
3 years

What could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?

Louiefat:
Masuli, that's very true. It's a frustrating divide to see. Female feedee's (in general) expect to be paid for fat chat by male feeders, and to be given paypal for food. But this does not go both ways. Because the same is true for female feeders! It's not uncommon when you find a FFA on feabie to see them link their paypal account and be expected to be paid first to interact with you (you, aka the elusive precious dedicated feedee who apparently only has value when you were born with a vagina). Why are men, and those who present as men, or even gender neutral people with male bodies, completely unable to monetize their fetish like women are able to without catering to the gay community? Hansi's superchubs, and other USSBHM marketplaces seem to be only patronized by men. I''d love to study the history of this. Sex work is almost exclusively purchased by men. That's really interesting to me and I'd love to get closer to an answer that goes beyond our western puritan roots. Is it something deeper? How we are wired? Or is it just a cultural holdover from our more sexist past?

That is so true.

It seems that all that BHM porn is catered towards gay community or men who likes men.

Like there are so little porn that has female feeder feeding a male feedee. This is really rare and shows how few female feeders actually there are.

There are more female feeders feeding woman videos around but that's a "lesbian" thing so it's automatically more popular.
3 years

What could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?

Louiefat:
Never mind the fact that I'm fairly certain that there's only about 5 or 6 people who are legit feedee's on the entire planet and not just selling a fantasy as sex workers (nothing wrong with that line of work, just saying), I'm real tired of making seemingly legit connections with these one in a billion needle in a haystack feedee's and engaging in these multi thousand word emails with them while knowing that there's a 99.99999% they're gonna delete their profile soon and go missing. When I get the rare message from someone in this community, I'm pretty apathetic right off the bat. It's like I can see a month into the future and I just can't keep doing it to myself. It's at this point where I'm just as guilty of disappearing because I'm unable to keep having that happen over and over and over again

Yeah. I feel the same way. If you want to make things even more extreme try to find a female feeder smiley I think the odds are better for getting hit by asteroid than finding a real female feeder who isn't pretending to get money or catfish you.
3 years

What could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?

People always like when things cost money so maybe hide more content behind paywall, that's the easiest way really....
3 years

Is there a massive gender imbalance in this community?

There is always going to be male dominance, I mean more more males than females on dating sites and this site isn't exception.

Trying to find a female feeder is like trying to find a real life unicorn.

They are really rare but do exist. I have chatted with two female feeders and both just suddenly disappeared without saying goodbye or reason.

Yeah I'm a massive dick and I deserve to be treated like dirt on everyday basis, or so it seems.

I don't know how many female feedees are on this site.
3 years

Tall or short feedee?

BHM feedee means: Big handsome male, read tall, heavy male.
3 years

What made you wanna gain weight?

When I was young my body was really skinny. Then one spring my parents sent me to live for my grandma about 5 months.

My grandma is heavy woman who loves cooking, taking care of the family. She lived on a small farm near the woods. There were no other children to play with.

I remember when I arrived grandma was waiting m, she had made lasagna, deserts and had plenty of candy.

Slowly I started to eat more, getting lazy by sleeping late, reading comics and watching television same time as snacking.

At first I didn't notice that I was getting fat but slowly my belly would start to round out. There was clothes on different sizes from my older cousins.

I did notice that walking and climbing stairs would be more difficult.

Then one morning when I woke up and when I raised into sitting position I could feel something warm in my lap. My belly rest on my thighs, it was really soft and warm. Really lovely feeling. I put my shorts on that where tights, I could pull them to cover my belly. I remember walking down the stairs and I could feel my belly jiggling and bouncing.

It was warm day and I remember walking in the kitchen without shirt, feeling my belly bouncing and seeing my grandmas warm smile when she did look my belly. She gave me a hug and after that she would gently rub my belly which felt really nice.

After that my grandma would rub my belly on regular basis and encourage me to eat more which I happily did.

I went from skinny kid to fat kid with big belly about 5 months. I was quite short back then and now so all that extra weight would show even more clearly.

My parents were little shocked when they picked me up in the fall to take me home. They weren't mad at my grandma. My parents are both slim, we didn't have like plenty of candy around or other sweets. Slowly I lost the weight because being more active, I didn't get back to skinny state but remained normal weight.

I have always wanted to find similar woman to be my girlfriend, nice, caring, loves to cook & bake. She would also love fat men and making them bigger would be a turn on for her. It would also be nice if she would tenderly love play with my soft belly
3 years

Share your dark fantasies

jamiela33:
tying someone up and stuffing/bloating them for hours. force feeding them all day and possibly inflating them after until their big hard gut nearly bursts! and repeat this everyday while i keep measuring how much increase until they reach my goals.

I would love to submit to that kind of treatment and I would be so turned on
3 years
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