I get turned on by a female coworker who allways tries to pace me going up the stairs- and ends up out of breath- she's overweight and a type A hyper competitive type, but it makes her look weak, and some how sexier. She's a manager and I'm wondering if she'd do it with her own employees. She probably doesn't give a damn, and I probably only care because I think she's hot.
I love this!
Reminds me of a friend, who always get´s out of breath when we walk a couple of stairs and it always turns me on.
Weakness=sexiness seems very strange but I can´t help it.
7 years
Whoaa I´m really into this! I used to ask my ex to do rope jumping and jumping jacks and loved it when she got out of breath.
Sometimes we made a deal, having me work out and feed her in exchange and I am also crazy about this...
7 years
I though about this lately...
In day-to-day life I am all about consensus, I´m actually very put off by dominant people and don´t like hierarchies. Sexually, I love to be dominant, but not openly, but in a calm and friendly way, but with a treacherous side to it. Being friendly, offering tasty goodies while contemplating how all that fat will stick on her body and how hard it will be to carry it around...
It´s not an easy combination, when I talk openly about it, the inherent double bind often causes irritation or mistrust. But that´s just the way I am wired.
7 years
I am a masochist feedee, in my fantasies anyway. ...I like the idea that something I can't resist (food) makes me gain weight, get fat, out of shape, looked down upon by many, makes me lose control again and again of my body and I like the idea of a feeder who gets off on that with me.
Yay!
;D
8 years
Geodude:Couldn't agree more with the huge breast lovers
My better half is quite blessed there I'm scared I'll be suffocated in my sleep!! Haha
Yeah! Sounds great!
8 years
I love big, very big breasts. Actually, that was the fetish the was clear to me from early on in puberty. And in my 'breastman mode' I am into slim women - big breasts stick out much more above a flat stomach. It took me quiet some time to discover FA and feederism, I think I was around 35. My then girlfriend constantly complaind about eating too much and gaining weight which gave me the chance to notice that I didn´t mind at all.
Since then, I have been exploring both, sometimes they are like different camps, sometimes they overlap.
And in both cases I have a tendency to a very subtle form of sadism, I definitely like humilation and domination in a context of mutual consent.
8 years
I also had erotic fantasies about weightgain in my childhood so I think such things are not defined by some incident in puberty. The french philosopher Georges Bataille has interesting thoughts on lust in general. He writes that it is always connected to transgression - crossing into forbidden territory, so to speak, like 'get dirty'. In hies view, the thrill of arousal is linked to fear, comparable to the thrill we experience when riding a roller coaster or doing a base jump etc. So, this is like a general underlying pattern of any kind of sexual orientation and we feeders, feedees and FAs just find our specific way of getting into forbidden territory in the taboo zone of fatness.
Personally, I feel my interest in feederism is a variation of sadism, a sadism with the outer appearance of friendly care. I�m really into the details of a woman getting out of shape, supporting that with encouragement is not a friendly act on my side but a strategy to get her into a state of unfitness so that I can tease and humilate her. Don�t get me wrong, I value mutual respect, I have a sense of awe towards women I find attractive and generally I try to be a friendly, 'good' person. But concerning feederism I must say that I perceive it as some kind of lust of manipulation, of fooling someone and than taking advantage.
I found it to be tricky to be outspoken about these darker aspects of lust in a relationship, the women I encountered that can relate in some way to the role of a feedee were mostly interested in aspects of support and care that are linked to food and it�s supply. Where are you in real life, masochist feedees?
8 years
I am also really into this.
When feeding someone, I always have on my mind how the adding weight is going to make her gradually unfit...
So if anybody feels inclined to take pictures of struggling with some physical tasks like hurrying up a lot of stairs - or to let me take these pictures - don´t restrain yourself.
9 years
