I personally am not a fan of apron bellies and want a rounder one. Will toning it help lift belly fat?
4 years
Maybe I’m unrealistic but while I love chubbier cheeks I’m not a fan of double chins.
4 years
True! The only downside is that my family won’t stop concern trolling me about it. I’ve managed to pack on nearly 15 pounds since quarantine though!
4 years
I’ve never had a feeder and want yo hear your experiences. Where did you meet them and was it like you envisioned? Better? Worse?
4 years
I really want to be fed irl but can’t try it because of quarantine in my state. : (
4 years
I was at one point. Not anorexic but obsessed with being thin. I know that it sounds strange but don’t try to intervene or push her to change her ways. Instead, let her know from time to time that it’s okay to indulge a little. If she has a slice of cake for instance don’t push her to take another slice but instead start conversation about how good it tastes. Also, try to cook with her more too and try new recipes she enjoys. Make it a fun activity. Also let her know that you don’t care what size she and that you love her body no matter what size she is. I can’t garuntee that this will work but If it doesn’t that’s okay too. Your goal is to assure her that she is free to make her own choices and that you love her at any size.
4 years
1. Been fed IRL
No. I do hope I find a feeder though at one point or another. Just not now.
2. Ate myself to sleep
No
3. Had sex while being fed at the same time
No, not my kink tbh.
4. Stolen food because I�m just a piggy
Yes a few times 😳
5. Been called a fat name in public
Yes
6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly
maybe
No, and if they did, they’d be KO. I don’t like strangers touching me.
7. Been fatter than my current weight
No
8. Ripped clothes or popped a button
No, but hope to someday. My jeans have been constraining since quarantine though...
9. Broken furniture because of my weight
No and I wouldn’t want to tbh.
10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on
Uh... NO.
11. Fantasized about immobility
A couple of times, but it’s not really my thing.
12. Ate until I threw up
No
13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size
No, but this is a fantasy of mine.
14. Posted nudes of myself online
No
15. Been fed online
No, haven’t tried it tbh but I feel like I’d need to interact face to face with the person instead of behind a screen.
16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member
Yeah, a lot
17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat
No
18. Started rubbing my belly in public
No, that is reserved for closed doors imo which I do, a LOT.
19. Been called a pig
No, I know a lot of feedees and gainers find it hot but I wouldn’t like it tbh.
20. Been weighed and measured by my partner
No
21. Been in a gaining competition with another gainer
No, not my cup of tea
4 years
I would prefer my partner to be thin/ average as I like the idea of being the bigger one during sex.
5 years
Selkie:
Dearynight98 & Vestalund: We should all discuss tips on how to gain in an androgynous shape, a lot of people want bigger butts and the 3 of us most likely want the opposite, thicker waists and less hips?
Baba Yaga, lol, bodybuilders are sooo anti-fat I think that's what made me rebel and join this site! 😉
Dearynight98:
OMG YES. You’re on the right page. I’m ok with a little ass fat but I want a big belly for the most part. I don’t like the idea of wide hips or big thighs on me either.
Selkie:
This is me too! Creams containing aminophylline and/ or yohimbe applied to the hips will help keep the fat off of there. I'm doing the so-called visceral fat diet (carbs and sugar)but have gained love handles more than belly, a bit on the belly I guess. To reduce estrogen, eat a lot of broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage and spinach. I also read that nicotine causes a greater waist to hip ratio so I am using nicotine lozenges, building a tolerance slowly as I have never smoked.
Loving the advice so far! Quick question, can the creams be applied to the arms and breasts? I gain more weight in my arms than I want and I don’t want my breasts any bigger. I hear that alcohol can also give a bigger belly but is nicotine somehow different?
5 years
