Suggestion: displaying sexuality

Jagger is a boss:
Yeah finding out people's sexuality without asking them is a hassle and my good boy self doesent want to be rude and ask X'D


Glad to know that other agree! smiley
5 years

Suggestion: displaying sexuality

becomingoverweight:
That sounds like a good idea.

Thanks!
5 years

How to gain with limited health issues

Soft_Bunny:
Thanks for the advice! I find it very helpful! smiley I wanna gain but I am concerned over the health affects. I guess I�ll further look into it!

becomingoverweight:
You might be interested in two threads of mine.

Compendium of Fat Studies

How to gain SAT and lose VAT


Okie dokie I’ll check them out. Thank you! smiley
5 years

How to gain with limited health issues

Influx:
I don't understand why you have the name "extremefeeder" yet you're clearly anything but.

Either way, unless you're a doctor, you really have no place "setting the record straight" as you say when it comes to weight and health. We've been there many times before on this issue over the several years the feedist community has been gathering online.

The issue here isn't what others do with their bodies, or how they gain, as you suggest it is. You don't want someone fat with health issues, and that's fine - that's a preference that you can have. But you don't need to start preaching healthy gaining like it's your mission here. If it is, your mission will fail just as hard as the many, many health-nuts who've come before you, who've tried to make 'healthy gaining' a thing for one and all.

Others' bodies, others' choice. You can have this conversation with a feedee when you have one. Otherwise, more health-related talk isn't really welcome.

EDIT: checked your profile, and you're apparently a nurse. So while you may have medical knowledge, that doesn't give you the right to preach health to a community that is literally attacked by health-related topics on the daily. That makes you a concern troll who we gather online together to specifically *avoid*


I wouldn’t call it forcing. They’re not forcing anyone to do anything. They even said that they understand that some people are into the other effects and that they don’t care. They said it was for those who want to gain but in a more healthy manner. It’s okay if you don’t want to but don’t take it out on them for wanting to give advice to those who do want to gain in a more healthy way. I honestly appreciate the advice.
Rule of the Internet is if you don’t like you don’t have to read it and leave it be. Regardless I hope you have a good day.
5 years

How to gain with limited health issues

Thanks for the advice! I find it very helpful! smiley I wanna gain but I am concerned over the health affects. I guess I’ll further look into it!
5 years

Anyone else love sneaking food?

Yes and no. On one hand I just wanna freely pig out without caring about others but sadly I live with family while I go to college and I get judged and shamed for my weight. Plus I’m prevented from eating much because of them.
On the other hand I love buying myself a lot of snacks in secret that I don’t have to share. Plus there’s something sexy about doing something you know you shouldn’t. Because it’s kind of naughty.
I hate it and love it at the same time.
5 years

Suggestion: displaying sexuality

TLDR at the bottom if you don't wanna read the whole thing.

I'm a gay lady. I like chubby gals and all. And while I'm okay with talking to dudes in a platonic way I feel like most of the time they start to message me on chat is for more than a simple platonic 'how do you do' chat.

Of course, I make sure to let my sexuality clear (on my profile and in the chat when it's appropriate) but since you can't always click on the user to check out what the persons about (such as their sexuality) it makes it so that I have to repeatedly tell different dudes my sexuality. I've gladly had yet a bad experience with this as most of these dudes seem really rad and respectful (props to you guys!) It's still kinda annoying to always have to disclose my sexuality (not that I'm ashamed I'm a loud and proud lesbian). Plus I feel like an asshole if I ignore these chat requests.

I'm sure that there are other people who may deal with these kinds of things so I wanted to suggest a solution (plus my gf thought it was a good idea to bring up so I did).

Not only should your weight, gender, age, and what you identify as (aka feedee, feeder, etc..) be displayed (in chat and your pics/videos) but so should you're sexuality. Or at the very least the option to display it. I'm sure this will be beneficial so that people get less unwanted messages (PMs or chats). Plus it'll make sure that those people know that unless stated otherwise that it'll be geared towards a platonic conversation.

TLDR: I suggest a way to display sexuality next to your weight, age, and gender in the chat room.

Thanks for hearing me out! smiley If any of you also have any ideas/suggestion I'd like to hear them!
5 years

Anyone like girl scout cookies? + favorite cookie?

Chubbypup:
I bought my samoas and tagalongs today! They had s'mores too but I didn't go for it. Kind of looks like I should have, huh?


You should have! They are really good (I kinda wish I bought another one). I think they’re fairly new because I’ve never seen it before but I also haven’t had Girl Scout cookies in like 2-3 years.
5 years

Anyone like girl scout cookies? + favorite cookie?

It’s that time of year and gosh do I love Girl Scout cookies. Recently I bought some and I discovered a cookie that I’ve never had before. It’s a S’mores cookie and it’s sooo good. Has anyone else have tried this cookie?
5 years
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