I am not disagreeing about the fact that physical attraction is part of intimacy. WhT i am getting at is the lack of consistency and transparency in how people are engaging on these sites.

A large number of users don’t actually provide any clear or recent photos of themselves upfront, yet still expect others to establish attraction early on or move conversations off-platform quickly. In contrast, many people do share content or photos openly, which naturally creates an imbalance in what each person is working with at the start.

That being said it is hard to establish mutual attraction as there can’t really be mutual if only one side is visible before expectations are formed. And when that visibility only happens later, on offsite chats/text mesages, it can understandably lead to mismatched expectations.

So it’s not about being “shallow” or claiming that people cant make life long connections on here. It's about keeping expectations realistic and realizing that the shift comes from people being taken advantage of because of the inherent unbalance mentioned prior. Additionally, there’s often an expectation that access to kink-related content, attention, or conversation should be freely available, while any form of monetization is criticized as “inauthentic” or “not genuine.” That creates a contradiction where one side’s effort and boundaries are dismissed, while still expecting full access to what they provide.

Looking for a "Genuine Connection" of a Fetish site is wild💀💀💀 especially when said "Genuine Connection " is literally just you asking for free content/Fat Chat because f
"Feedees need to show that they are in it for the right reasons"

I am not that big yet but my belly definitely affects my sleeping position. I can feel it just plop to the side when I side sleep and I can feel it jiggle and wobble when I twist and turn at night

Mine is 45🐷🐷

I love this fantasy
Doesn't have to necessarily be a tribe of amazons but being abducted and fatten to be a piggy feast is 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

The suspense of being poked and prodded. Being told and teased about how delicious I'm getting. How I deserve this for being such a greedy piggy

I'm thinking of making ASMR inspired video. Think along the lines of "POV you're laying on my lap" sort of vids. Any in particular you'd like to see me do/talk about during the videos?

You could always meet up with a local feedee and propose the idea to them.
Other than that there's not much you can do

Yes! Especially being teased about how each pound gets me closer to the platter. Or having my cuts bring pointed out as I'm being stuffed

Toxtricity all the way. I don't care that it is a new pokemon.
Trapinch is a very close second

Height 5’ 2
Weight: 245 lbs.
Shirts: 2X (Torrid)
Bra: 42DDD/40F
Pant size: 20 (Torrid)