What steps do I take? I know that experience is what most feedees look for in a feeder (and rightfully so in terms of trust, safety and efficiency), but it's a vicious cycle when you have no experience in feeding to begin with.
What is to be expected in terms of pay, travel, costs, connections, etc.?
I'm guessing for most feeders this is only a side gig/hustle and they have "real" jobs for the bulk of their income and working life.
I'm kinda lost careerwise and still trying to figure out what to do (in general, not just for a living even though that's important) and that it's something I actually enjoy. I'm guessing this might be up my alley.

I feel like mine would have a hard time fitting in to these genres.
My work is like trying to put Tarantino's scripts onto a foot fetish site. You'll have a few pages of intense kink-related scenery then the rest is an epic tale.
I would have more than just a few pages of fat kink stuff certainly, but there's a world around it that needs to be built up.
Also, fan-fiction is something I've toyed with and probably will involve in future works and maybe even some fourth-wall breaking techniques.
I guess we could call it "Hollywood-Style":
*Actor/Actress Weight Gain for role
(maybe Casting Couch)
*Deconstruction of Fat Tropes in Pop Culture ( including Fourth Wall)
*Epic story involving weight gain
*Fan-fiction

Dear Readers,
This is OscarWinner - the author of two of your favorite stories: "Requiem for an Edgelord" and "Silver Bullets, or How I Came to Terms with My Abandoned Esoterica". I have an announcement to make in regards to the future status of each project... they will both continue, but soon I have to delete one and perhaps both for two reasons: 1. Monetization of Silver Bullets and 2. Revising Requiem's introduction. Revising Requiem's introduction is self-explanatory; I felt such a move is worth considering given my role as the storyteller. Monetizing Silver Bullets is the bigger deal that you may (rightfully) be offended by. Money shouldn't be the end-all, be-all for art, but I honestly am strapped for cash and certainly need to replenish my financial reserves at every turn, which was always the case and definitely is right now. In order for me to finish either story, it will have to be worthwhile financially....
So, with that (and PLEASE ALERT ANY AND ALL READERS YOU CAN OF THIS ANNOUNCEMENT) - in about 72 hours, I will remove the chapters of both stories for the sakes of this reworking. If you want to keep the free content that's been provided so far on Silver Bullets, I recommend you download it ASAP. If you need to read more of Requiem, I insist you do so as well. The stories will return shortly after - within a week...
I understand this may be inconvenient and/or heartbreaking for you, but please bear with me and allow me to make the necessary changes before completing each project. As a make-good, I also have a large amount of free content to share and will upload some in the meantime. It will be free forever since it's fanfiction. I hope, as with all of my work, you will enjoy it too.
Thank you

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