Well, not exactly banned, but they have a report button for feedism in SPECIFIC now. As someone who has been on the site for upwards of a decade and made a lot of my lasting friendships there in the feedism community, including friendships with better writers than me that I consider my mentors, this is a HUGE slap in the face. I know it's just one website, but it super duper sucks.
1 day
Oof that's rough, and I'm sorry you happened upon that. Your mom has every right to a sex life, but I can't imagine it feels good having seen her in that light. If I were you I'd probably block her so that you don't stumble upon any more racy pics of her, as I'm sure you don't want to see that. But remember that she's a human being too, and not everyone is going to have the same relationship with her as you do being her child. Imagine if the situations were reversed and she found your profile on a feedism website...she'd probably be mortified. But you both deserve a right to privacy. Fortunately, it's within your power to set the boundary--just use that block feature.
1 week
I'm fattening up my husband right now, he's quite the enthusiastic feedee and enjoys using his weight advantage to pin me down and dominate me, which is super sexy and hot
4 weeks
Jenny by Studio Killers
1 month
Mothman1953:
Because of its limitations, I think of ChatGPT as a tool - something akin to spell check.
One of its major limitations is that it will not suggest text that pertains to sex or drugs.
But when it comes to certain other topics that you may not be familiar with and are considered "acceptable", it can be useful. For example... I just wrote a fat fetish story entitled: "What I Have Always Wanted". In that story I wanted a description of elegant women's clothing. Me being a man, I really know nothing about this and could not describe nice clothing very well. So I asked ChatGPT to suggest some text. "She" did a wonderful job writing a narrative about something I know nothing about.
But like I said...I use it as a tool. Even after "Chat" wrote the text about the clothing, I revised it. I never use the exact text from "Chat" because to me, that kinda feels like cheating.
But like I said before...Chat has its limitations. You can't just say to it...write me a good fat fetish story and expect to get anything that is any good. I only use it for certain things. And then you have to spend a lot to time describing to the program exactly what it is that you want.
Another limitation is that it's "memory" of what you have already done is short term.. It ends sessions every so often and therefore has no record of what has been previously accomplished. So you end up writing a long description about something you and "it" have already worked on.
But I recommend that you try it just as long as you keep in mind what I have already said and other things that you will learn on your own.
This exactly! ChatGPT has an advantage over Google in that it won't bombard you with ads or give you a million top-page search results that you don't want, but it CAN act like a search engine in case you just need to look up something not-that-deep in terms of writing a story.
The inquiry about ladies' clothing is a great example, if you don't have any lady friends you're comfortable asking questions to about their clothes. (I happened to have a friend online for when I needed to dress my protagonist for a formal dinner, and ya know, bless her.)
But yeah, generative AI language models can come in handy for things like "Generate 5 possible first names for a chubby body-positive female protagonist that sound bubbly and fun" or "name five possible desserts that a rich guy might buy for his date at a restaurant for a special occasion," but don't ask ChatGPT to write you a whole smut story (it won't) or for any factual information (it can screw up).
Also I guess it's bad for the environment, but so is international shipping of all the crap we buy on Amazon. One search once in a while won't kill you or the planet, but even for non-smut writing, I think relying on a computer to generate ~300 words based on a single-sentence prompt is the first step towards the death of true creativity.
2 months
I can't think of a time I wasn't turned on writing feedist fic, even if the fic contained plot elements I wouldn't be okay with in real life (such as captivity, drugged food, etc.) Just thinking of descriptions for fat, bellies and weight gain gets me going.
5 months
1. How long have you been writing?
For about 11 years when it comes to feedist stories, but a little longer for fiction in general. There was always this impulse I had to put my WG fantasies onto paper, but for a while I was too shy and would hide it under a blanket of "It's hurt-comfort! He's lost too much weight and she's nursing him back to health!" Then when I was 20 I discovered Alittlepudge-neverhurtnobody on Tumblr and got inspired to just go for it.
2. What genre would you say you write?
I think I'm a satirist. I've done a few different genres (slice of life, superhero, heist, right now I'm working on a courtroom procedural), but I think all my work kind of has this habit of calling out both systemic and internalized fatphobia and kind of casting it in this ridiculous light?
3. Have you taken classes or received instruction for creative writing? What did you enjoy, and what did you dislike?
I took several classes at the university level on creative writing. I had some great professors, but it annoyed me whenever some of the men in my classes/workshops would mistakenly read a misandrist intent into my stories when really I was just going for femdomme vibes.
4. What are some of your favorite writing reference books?
Write Your Novel from the Middle by James Scott Bell
5. What do you think is the biggest problem you need help with in your writing?
Have you read me? I'm pretentious as heck. I need to learn that sometimes the curtains were just blue.
6. What are your writing goals for the next 12 months?
Incorporate more kinks. I'm on a mission to collect them all.
8 months
I've already found my sweetheart, but if I had to determine everything about my ideal feedee:
-They could be a man or a woman, ideally with floofy hair that's as soft and fun to play with as the rest of them
-They would submit to me, but less in the "I'm the boss of them" way and more in the "they trust me with everything" way. They'd try any food I put in front of them knowing if they turned out not liking it I'd put it up and get them something they'll like better
-They'd be intelligent and have a nerdy sit-down hobby like gaming, chess, or DnD
-Whenever I felt like getting it on I could get them in the mood by bringing them a snack or fondling their fat
-They'd get turned on out of their mind by me keeping track of their weight, measurements, calorie requirements, etc
8 months
In addition to the above, make sure you're still hydrating with water. A lot of times a headache is due to being not sufficiently hydrated, and sweet/sugary drinks and sodas DO hydrate you--like, if there's nothing else to drink, it's better to drink a soda than drink nothing--but getting enough water goes a long way.
8 months
