I'd say I'm definitely more of a dominant gainer. I love using my weight to my advantage, especially when there's a significant size contrast. I've never actually been fed, I managed to gain the weight myself so I feel like that brought around "if I want something, I have to get it myself".

Soooo many, I can usually tell which ones are catfish but some of them are getting pretty good! I've changed my profile to say I'm a gainer and I like mutual gaining. However, I still get some of them messaging me asking me to send them money for food lol. Nope!

I'm moving to Edmonton from the UK in the next few months, it that counts?