Originally in 2020, my first gain, it took me about 9 months from 140 to 190; sadly I lost all of it when I got sick-
From March to the end of 2025 I clawed my way from (a very unhealthy) 120 back to my current 170. I hope I can do the same again this year as that would put me to a comfortable weight.
1 week
Maybe I’m coming out of the left field here, but I wouldn’t be comfortable with someone else paying for my food and I see being fed as more of an intimate part of myself, something I only share privately in person.
As far as I am concerned, this was always my decision to take at my speed and for myself, it is my body after all-why should that be anyone else’s bill to shoulder?
If you really want something then it should be you making the effort to make it happen-if you can’t be bothered to then that is also your decision.
There are scammers everywhere these days, scrounging because they think everyone owes them something, but once you get past that then there are some great people-that’s the same anywhere.
Stick with it is the best I got!
1 week
I hope you can get sorted.
These tariffs are crazy-I’m halfway through a PC build and still need one proprietary part from USA which is constantly fluctuating in price.
Good luck!
9 months
BBWBecky:
I have found that wearing maternity underwear,pants and shirts are more comfortable and leave more room for you belly especially when I go to the buffet
I do too, partially for the stretch and space-but also because of the way I gain, they fit better than ‘regular’ sizes because most/all my weight goes to my spherical belly.
9 months
Everyone was new once.
But I always say the more the merrier!
Feel free to say hi.
9 months
Very much, I’m easy enough to find.
10 months
PhoenixChimera:At the risk of sounding like an echo, the two are not mutually exclusive: both trigger responses of pleasure, and I can assure that this works the other way round too-I get hungry, sometimes for more than food.
LuvsChub04:tru, food n sex go together well.. Like that classic episode of Seinfeld when George brought food into the bedroom.
PhoenixChimera:I’ve not seen that one, but I remember a Family Guy where Lois put on-and Peter’s reaction.
The worst is when I get horny and can’t eat enough to satisfy-I literally have no idea how all the food fits into me!
LuvsChub04:gotta keep stretching your tummy

ya like in friends when he said I dont know if im horny or hungry...
PhoenixChimera:Wow! Now there’s a blast from the past-I totally forgot about that, but now you mention it I can recall it. Far out!
It’s more like a black hole inside me-keep throwing food at it but it just never fills fully-I just end up eating everything until there’s nothing left.
LuvsChub04:yea food n pleasure go well together.. im a sous chef by trade n have in past relationships eating then naked fun always went hand in hand... N your body is nicely showing the results of your 'black hole appetite' keep it up ..
Thank you, I will-and you’re welcome to message me privately, you know, if you happen to notice I’m looking more chubby.
And another aspect: job satisfaction; guessing as a chef you see the enjoyment of your work and I’d figure that’s a good feeling.
10 months
PhoenixChimera:At the risk of sounding like an echo, the two are not mutually exclusive: both trigger responses of pleasure, and I can assure that this works the other way round too-I get hungry, sometimes for more than food.
LuvsChub04:tru, food n sex go together well.. Like that classic episode of Seinfeld when George brought food into the bedroom.
PhoenixChimera:I’ve not seen that one, but I remember a Family Guy where Lois put on-and Peter’s reaction.
The worst is when I get horny and can’t eat enough to satisfy-I literally have no idea how all the food fits into me!
LuvsChub04:gotta keep stretching your tummy

ya like in friends when he said I dont know if im horny or hungry...
Wow! Now there’s a blast from the past-I totally forgot about that, but now you mention it I can recall it. Far out!
It’s more like a black hole inside me-keep throwing food at it but it just never fills fully-I just end up eating everything until there’s nothing left.
10 months
PhoenixChimera:
At the risk of sounding like an echo, the two are not mutually exclusive: both trigger responses of pleasure, and I can assure that this works the other way round too-I get hungry, sometimes for more than food.
LuvsChub04:
tru, food n sex go together well.. Like that classic episode of Seinfeld when George brought food into the bedroom.
I’ve not seen that one, but I remember a Family Guy where Lois put on-and Peter’s reaction.
The worst is when I get horny and can’t eat enough to satisfy-I literally have no idea how all the food fits into me!
10 months
And coming out of the left field: I gain because it feels like I’m growing into myself, changes from hormones are pretty obvious to begin with but combined with additional weight really makes a big difference.
As I grow, I feel like I’m understanding myself better as well-I never realised just how much I could fall in love with my own belly, how much better life is at a slower pace because I waddle along and actually notice the world around me, opposed to rushing and missing everything.
And obviously: food! Something that was just necessary fuel opposed to something to be enjoyed and savoured, I see my changes as only for the better.
10 months