Elarci:
i love shaved bellIES , because i love keep my face on smooth belllYYYY and kissing licking BIG FULLLL smOOOTH belllYYYY ))))dont like when i had full mouth of hair )))
You shared my sentiments exactly šš
1 week
I get what heās saying. And I agree it would VERY interesting to meet a feedee/fat acceptance/body positivity activist, particularly one that is a woman or one that identifies as a woman that is also conservative. Iām curious, myself. Haha
1 month
As far as women, I think she was 315lbs?
As far as dudes, I think homie was close to 400lbs. Basically he looked like he was lineman in high school.
4 months
I mentioned a while back how Double Chins and people who are Skinnyfat donāt get enough credit.
4 months
Captain Cake:
To start with, this is a serious question and I'm very curious about it, particularly when it comes to men as I have somewhat a personal experience of it to some level.
For those of you who are super fat men (or dating/partners of super fat men), has there been a point at which standard, penetrative sex has become impossible without the use of toys or other additions to make it work? I'm aware that every man is equipped differently and fat distribution plays a big part, but I'm generally curious about it. Is there a point where you've tried and then had to basically say "okay, this isn't going to work anymore so we'll have to do things another way from now on"?
Twise:
Luckily I was pretty "well endowed" but some of my members has been buried, i find laying on your back being the best position with a partner (in part because I get too out of breath at times when I'm in control and I have gotten lazy lol). Now on my own, someone recommended putting a pillow under my butt to help raise the hips higher to reach around the belly.
It's all trial and error tbh.
Yes, thatās exactly how youāre supposed to have sex with fat men in the Missionary position. You get to still hug their big belly tightly while deeply penetrating them.
4 months
PhatNotty:
Hi I'm wondering how I can gain both but gain much more fat. I am 18 years old and at 162lbs, I am decently pudgy too.
Just do a traditional bodybuilding/powerlifting bulk. Meaning eat 500 calories above your maintenance calories aka TDEE. So you can gain 1lb a week. Why 500 calories for 7 days? Cause 1lb of fat is 3,500 calories. Youāre gonna gain more fat than muscle anyway because natural hypertrophy is a very slow process.
6 months
Say,
I have a question. When you all first started to go from thin to fat, how firm was your belly? Was tight and round? Or was it jiggly and doughy? The reason Iām asking is because itās been my observation that people who are skinnyfat tend to have tighter rounder bellies than obese people. Would you agree?
6 months
SPOOKYFEEDHER:
most media, feederism is treated as a punchline. Characters who participate in feeding dynamics are often portrayed as either grotesque figures or objects of ridicule, existing for shock value or comedic relief. Instead of exploring the emotional or psychological depth of these relationships, writers rely on stereotypes: the manipulative feeder, the helpless feedee, and a dark undertone of obsession and loss of control.
Shows like My Strange Addiction or Taboo have featured feederism in ways that prioritize sensationalism over nuance, offering audiences an exaggerated and stigmatized view of what is, for many, a consensual and intimate exchange. Rarely do we see portrayals that highlight the communication, boundaries, or even the joy that can exist within these dynamics.
Feederism may not be for everyoneābut neither are countless other kinks or relationship dynamics. The problem isnāt that media covers feederism; itās how it does so: with bias, ridicule, and a lack of empathy. Itās time to challenge those narratives and push for more honest, informed, and human portrayals. Because behind the fetish are real people, with real desiresāand they deserve to be seen without shame.
There was another thread about 4-6 months ago where similar topic was addressed. In fact, I think it was about social media influencers basing their entire niche off of fat shaming Iām paraphrasing. Any who, me and few others on that thread agree the shaming needs to stop, but we as a community should take some accountability for broadcasting our business online. Not everything needs to be accepted by the mainstream or public. Especially kinks and bedroom activities. Itās nobodyās beeswax š¤·š¾āāļø
I get what youāre saying about negative stereotypes and wrongful portrayals in media but bro thatās life š¤·š¾āāļø.
6 months
FertileFatty:
Thereās this girl I work with who is so much bigger than me. She was talking about ordering food and the enthusiasm she had. She also kept eating popcorn with extra flavoring (I work in a theatre) during our shift. She was talking about eating meatball subs in bed and everything. It was hard for me to focus lol. Iām so jealous but also kinda excited to see if she gets bigger. Does anyone else have a bit of gaining/fat envy like me?
Iām sure there are others like you. I follow a lot of feedees, foodies, stuffer, inflators, bloaters and gainers on IG and they all have a great deal of respect for each other and with mention how they admire each otherās size or capacity even if they themselves arenāt there yet.
I would befriend her and ask if she could take you under her wing if I were you. Then make it a friendly competition to catch up to her and or surpass her. Me and my brother did thatās for YEARS with Tekken and Super Smash Bros. Loool. But now we got old. Weāre in our 30ās now š
6 months
Thiccbell:
There's something about being too big for normalization. Like reserving two seats in an airplane.
There's unspoken rules about standard measurements and sizes of the regular human person, so just having the feel of occupying more space than regular gives me an elated feeling of progress and depravity in a weird way I can't explain.
Even though Iām not fat, I actually know what you mean because as a bodybuilder I kinda go through something similar. My own coworker joked about my shoulders being too wide while standing next to me. As far as measurements, I canāt shop regular retail anymore because my proportions are off due how small my waist is compared to the rest of my body. It sucks sometimes cause thereās stores with dope outfits that I want to wear but canāt. But it also feels good that I cat fit what regular sized guys can wear. So thereās pluses and minuses to everything š¤·š¾āāļø.
6 months