Gaining fat but also gaining muscle

PhatNotty:
Hi I'm wondering how I can gain both but gain much more fat. I am 18 years old and at 162lbs, I am decently pudgy too.


Just do a traditional bodybuilding/powerlifting bulk. Meaning eat 500 calories above your maintenance calories aka TDEE. So you can gain 1lb a week. Why 500 calories for 7 days? Cause 1lb of fat is 3,500 calories. You’re gonna gain more fat than muscle anyway because natural hypertrophy is a very slow process.
2 weeks

Who was thin and got fat

Say,

I have a question. When you all first started to go from thin to fat, how firm was your belly? Was tight and round? Or was it jiggly and doughy? The reason I’m asking is because it’s been my observation that people who are skinnyfat tend to have tighter rounder bellies than obese people. Would you agree?
2 weeks

Feederism gets a bad reputation online

SPOOKYFEEDHER:
most media, feederism is treated as a punchline. Characters who participate in feeding dynamics are often portrayed as either grotesque figures or objects of ridicule, existing for shock value or comedic relief. Instead of exploring the emotional or psychological depth of these relationships, writers rely on stereotypes: the manipulative feeder, the helpless feedee, and a dark undertone of obsession and loss of control.

Shows like My Strange Addiction or Taboo have featured feederism in ways that prioritize sensationalism over nuance, offering audiences an exaggerated and stigmatized view of what is, for many, a consensual and intimate exchange. Rarely do we see portrayals that highlight the communication, boundaries, or even the joy that can exist within these dynamics.


Feederism may not be for everyone—but neither are countless other kinks or relationship dynamics. The problem isn’t that media covers feederism; it’s how it does so: with bias, ridicule, and a lack of empathy. It’s time to challenge those narratives and push for more honest, informed, and human portrayals. Because behind the fetish are real people, with real desires—and they deserve to be seen without shame.


There was another thread about 4-6 months ago where similar topic was addressed. In fact, I think it was about social media influencers basing their entire niche off of fat shaming I’m paraphrasing. Any who, me and few others on that thread agree the shaming needs to stop, but we as a community should take some accountability for broadcasting our business online. Not everything needs to be accepted by the mainstream or public. Especially kinks and bedroom activities. It’s nobody’s beeswax 🤷🏾‍♂️


I get what you’re saying about negative stereotypes and wrongful portrayals in media but bro that’s life 🤷🏾‍♂️.
2 weeks

Fat envy

FertileFatty:
There’s this girl I work with who is so much bigger than me. She was talking about ordering food and the enthusiasm she had. She also kept eating popcorn with extra flavoring (I work in a theatre) during our shift. She was talking about eating meatball subs in bed and everything. It was hard for me to focus lol. I’m so jealous but also kinda excited to see if she gets bigger. Does anyone else have a bit of gaining/fat envy like me?


I’m sure there are others like you. I follow a lot of feedees, foodies, stuffer, inflators, bloaters and gainers on IG and they all have a great deal of respect for each other and with mention how they admire each other’s size or capacity even if they themselves aren’t there yet.

I would befriend her and ask if she could take you under her wing if I were you. Then make it a friendly competition to catch up to her and or surpass her. Me and my brother did that’s for YEARS with Tekken and Super Smash Bros. Loool. But now we got old. We’re in our 30’s now 😅
2 weeks

Too big

Thiccbell:
There's something about being too big for normalization. Like reserving two seats in an airplane.

There's unspoken rules about standard measurements and sizes of the regular human person, so just having the feel of occupying more space than regular gives me an elated feeling of progress and depravity in a weird way I can't explain.



Even though I’m not fat, I actually know what you mean because as a bodybuilder I kinda go through something similar. My own coworker joked about my shoulders being too wide while standing next to me. As far as measurements, I can’t shop regular retail anymore because my proportions are off due how small my waist is compared to the rest of my body. It sucks sometimes cause there’s stores with dope outfits that I want to wear but can’t. But it also feels good that I cat fit what regular sized guys can wear. So there’s pluses and minuses to everything 🤷🏾‍♂️.
2 weeks

Are there any other feederism sites? one with block features that actually work???

ILuvChubbyChix:
I think a lot of people may not fathom the amount of effort it can take. Sometimes, it takes hours, at least due in part to how I don't want to be sloppy and check things out. I'm happy to continue engaging in the effort though, to give back to a community that has given me a lot.

Stopping the scammers who manage to register anyway, is a never ending game of whack-a-mole. And for the most part, it's volunteers who stop them.

There's no set schedule, it's whenever we have a free moment. We do have lives and obligations.

Given we have quite a large, diverse membership, it's pretty much guaranteed that not everyone will like everyone else. However, everyone is expected to get along with everyone else, at least in public. The simple fact of the matter is, there can be user disagreements that aren't covered by the rules. That's just life.

This is why blocks only prevent private messages from that person. However, one small change I may like to see is for the block to prevent comments on one's content (such as pictures) from the blocked person.

I saw one person reply to this thread about other users who are "not respecting boundaries." While it can sometimes be difficult to prove, this is unacceptable behavior under rule #3 (respect others). So please, report this behavior.

A single report is not guaranteed to result in bans, particularly since without evidence provided, it does turn into a "he said, she said" match, and because real users are typically given chances to not repeat this behavior. However, multiple repeated incidents can and do eventually result in bans of varying lengths.

One more thing... if the blocks are being used up because of scammers, please... don't do this.

Don't just block scammers and hope they go away. That just gives them more opportunities to scam others. Report them, and give as much information as you can. If you can provide a link of say, where stolen pictures came from, even better.

If we determine they are scammers, and we often do, rest assured, they will get banned. Scamming is an instant ban offense upon discovery.

However, it's not always feasible to check every single account, which means we rely a great deal on you, the users to point them out.


I hear what you saying but see? Here’s the flaw with that. Someone on this thread brought up the guy with The Weekend profile pic and how much of a menace he was. But there is another individual who is equally just as bad if not worse because they make sure not to technically violate the rules, while still being a nuisance. Which means they’re doing it on purpose. And you know it’s bad literally people are is messaging each other venting about this individual being the common denominator.

So what do you say to that? We can’t report them, because they technically don’t violate the rules. But we can block them which would stop them from seeing our comment and replying to it on public forums. So what the alternative? We just continue to put up with their nonsense on every single forum? That’s gonna make people not want to come back to this site.

This is a niche website. The stuff we want to talk about here, we can’t talk about on other platforms unless we’re willing to fight in the comment section. That’s literally why the site exists but if we’re gonna fight anyway, then what’s the point?
3 weeks

Transformation fetish

Kitsune2:
On Deviantart there are a lot of muscle transformation artwork. So there's definitely a sexual interest of it.



Really? I did not know that. Ive known about muscle worship. But did not know muscle transformation was a thing
4 weeks

Transformation fetish

Anjou:
Is that a thing? I got into bodybuilding for the last year and really loving watching my body put on weight and size (be it mostly muscle).


Idk if I would call it a fetish. But gaining strength and muscle is definitely addictive. At least it is to me.
4 weeks

Is it possible to reverse pre diabetes just by improving my diet?

TacticalMilk:
I recently did some blood work in a lab to test for pre diabetes and unfortunately i just barely tested positive for pre diabetes.I already do a lot of strength training as well as make sure eat some balanced meals through the week but I still eat a good amount of fast food/junk food as well as protein powder with high amounts of sugar.

So my question is if its possible to maintain or even keep gaining weight as well as reverse my diabetes just by eating a lot of complex carbs,cutting put as much sugar as possible and making sure I just eat as much healthy foods as possible?

P.S Also is there a way to ask this to doctor without having him/her questioning me why I dont want to lose weight?



Weight gain or loss comes down to calories. So yes, even if you ixnay on processed foods, you will still gain weight on healthy food. And typically once you cut out the processed food, you can potentially reverse pre-diabetes
4 weeks

Your dream interaction?

Lovergirl9834:
I’m at the stage in my life where I know this kink is never going away, and I’ll be my happiest self giving in & being with a man who wants to feed me, make me bigger, worship me, watch my belly grow. And just accept that life together. Just want to be fed, taken care of, provided for, safe, and give into all our fantasies



Wow that really does sounds like a dream
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