You know? I honestly couldn’t tell you because I’ve dated so many big people that I couldn't keep track of their weights even if I wanted too.
But if I had to guess,
The heaviest woman that I’ve dated was around 315lbs. And the heaviest man I’ve dated was probably around 320lbs-350lbs.
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Ultimateaaron12:
I’ve been having a hard time trying to gain weight I’ve always been really skinny but have never tried to actively gain until now will my metabolism slow down as I push through and keep eating or should I wait until it slows naturally?
Your metabolism or BMR(Basal metabolic rate) is directly influenced by your lean body mass index(how much you weigh minus the body fat). The leaner you are, meaning less body fat you have, the higher your metabolism will be. To slow it down, you need to increase your body fat percentage. One pound of fat is 3,500 calories. So, to gain one pound of fat a week, you need to consume 500 calories above your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) aka maintenance calories per day to reach 3,500 calories in a 7 day span. Because 3,500 divided by 7 is 500.
By my calculations, you being a male at 5’11, 128lbs. Your BMR should be around 1,593. Assuming that you want to live a sedentary lifestyle, then your TDEE should be around 1,911 calories per day. So, to gain, you should be consuming 2,411 calories a day. Hopefully this helps
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Hmmmm, I’ve never been in that situation before but I have unconventional sex before.
1. This lady I was dating had a very large, round belly and introduced me to belly button penetration. That was FUN! 🤩 😍😍
2. This guy that I dated who also had very large and round belly was the first person that I ever dry humped to an orgasm before because, I was too big to penetrate him.
Maybe you could try those? That’s the great thing about fat people, the possibilities are endless and you never run out of options 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾😊
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Den88:
I was able to keep my daily intake to $10-12 a day and was consuming upwards of 6-7k calories a day. Lots of sodas, pastries, ice cream etc and I blewwwww up fast. I used to limit myself fuck only foods I could get at a gas station, super cheap and super fattening lolol.
“Fuck only foods”?
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Molchubs:
I don’t see enough people talking about their fit to fat experiences, so thought i’d chat about mine haha! As of about a year and a half ago, I was very toned (abs and everything hehe) and was an absolute gym rat- quite greatful for this era because its made me a decent cook and has left me with lotssss of old gym wear i can try squeeze myself into when I feel like seeing how much i’ve truly grown. I ripped my first pair of leggings a few weeks ago, I couldn’t believe how big my belly looked in my lap with the fabric completely torn.
But yeah, going from 110-150lbs in a year is pretty drastic, and it’s caused for some big reactions from the people around me. I’ve had endless family members poking at my belly and making sure I know how out of shape i am, and how much better i looked when i wasn’t “so chubby and round”- it’s usually brought up at least once a day, but i love it. Everyone’s quite touchy so it means ive had plenty of hands shaking my tummy and grabbing the flab on my thighs, I honestly love getting it pointed out to me.
It’s affected my romantic life a lot too- I definitely had a lot more stamina last year.. and never used to have to warn people before riding any faces (no judgement here i beg). But something i do love is feeling my tummy and love handles get really grabbed during intimacy, people seem drawn to them in a way- while i used to have hands digging into my hips, most people just resort to grabbing a fat roll or love handle when we are intimate.It’s hot.
I was always scared to gain weight because I knew how obvious my changes would be, but overall I have no regrets- any and skinny feedees Id definitely reccomend letting yourself go… you’ll love waking up and seeing the little changes in your body every morning, and if you love humiliation then just prepare for all the gym passes family might offer you, and friends joking about your new tum! I still experience some negativity from the feederism community funnily enough, because even though I’ve gained so much, i do look quite small- which makes me feel like my efforts aren’t ever super appreciated, but thankfully ive met a lot of people more recently who like my lil chubby body and can’t wait to help me grow! x
Id love to meet more of you, and would love to find any feeders who will support me on my journey :-) (particularly ones I could dom..)
Sounds like you’re Skinny-fat. Nothing wrong with that. I actually have been saying skinnyfat is an underrated body type. You shouldn’t feel like your effort isn’t enough at all. 40lbs in 12 months is damn impressive
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Alexi IFBB:
40lbs in that amount of time is no joke, must have been eating like a champ
Yo I was thinking the same thing
Like, that was one hell of a “bulk” Lol
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I’ve never been in relationship with a feedee/gainer before, but in the event that I end up with one, do any of you have any tips for gaining on a budget? Is that even thing? Any help is greatly appreciated
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Fattyb89:
Heavy cream lol
What’s heavy cream?
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LysiWicked:
Yes
Yeah that is a nice one. I don’t blame you haha
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LysiWicked:
I have this one 😋
The one that I posted?
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