Have you been to this point?

Chillguyontheeastside:
I was wondering if anyone else has given up on finding a feedee partner? It's either everytime it's too good to be true or nothing ever leads anywhere. I feel like I just reached the point that if it happens it happens, but it's been to the point that I might just start to pull away from the community/kink


I certainly have myself. I had to force my retirement because it got so bad of some people trying to take advantage of me when they lead me on to so much promise when I felt like I finally got that “special kind of acceptance”.

While I may accept that I may never be able to get the feedist belly queen of my dreams, I still hang around the community and admire all of the pictures and videos. As far as dating IRL I’ve dated plenty of bigger girls who I was lucky enough to play with their bellies without anything to do with the weight gain kink (but sometimes I tease about it).

You can still enjoy yourself with this kink and whatnot, there’s nothing wrong with having a preference to this thing. Just don’t always let it be the most important thing in your life, especially when it’s affecting your dating life. But I am sorry that you are going through a tough time right now, but with time and courage you’ll be able to get back up! And maybe have someone in your life who can be able to find that nuance with your kink.
2 days

Streaming feature

I think that there was a similar topic earlier. While it’s very tempting. I hope to one day try it out and see what it’s like to interact with some people in the community, once it becomes fully functional.
2 days

International trans day of visibility

I like this! I respect transgenders and willing to accept them as human beings just as any other man or woman I have ever known.

We all go through life in a unique way. But we should never underestimate our environment or the people that we have in our lives. In these questionable times, it’s important that we should be grateful for the people who love us, who accepts us. And that’s the kind of people that we should invest our energy on.
2 days

Question about the name of the website

Dunnowhatimdoinglol123:
do you think it's called fantasy feeder because it's our fantasy to be feeders/feedees? or is it because it is feeding our fantasies?


That’s pretty much the main sauce of it. When it comes to fantasizing about weight gain and/or having a chubby partner who we can spoil for all that both parties desire!

But it can also be a place of acceptance. Because we’ll all a bunch of weirdos and outsiders in a society that want to eradicate obesity or belly fat in general. It can be the place where we can talk and bask/brag in our kinks and fantasies… not to mention any other IRL experiences too. Either as a bigger person or someone who has a preference for that.

So yeah, you can say that it’s a safe bet that it can be a place where you don’t have to feel bad about your kink or preference. Let your worries out the door from this site!
2 days

Does anyone use ff's live stream?

I haven’t tried it yet, but it’s very tempting! But I think I’ll wait until it’s fully functional before I try to livestream and possibly interact with some of the fans/community y’know?
1 week

Any chubby asmr channels.

Arame:
What does asmr mean?

JN_TumLover56:
ASMR means “Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response” it’s often a static-like tingling sensation to help you ease a bit to relax. Think of those Oddly Satisfying videos, but instead it’s often from sounds like whispering or some kind of soft thunking on an object or the microphone itself.

Arame:
Yo homie, I STILL don’t know what you talking about Lol. But I appreciate the information. Just never heard of it 😅


Hahaha!! Well at least I tried. I’m sure if you have ever seen/listen to video where it helps to relax you might get the idea.
1 week

Do you just appreciate the community?

Kitsune:
Meh, I personally think FF is toxic but I mainly stay because I know some good friends on here. I prefer Dimensions even though you unfortunately have to pay for a membership to chat in the community.

JN_TumLover56:
There are some definitely some real bad apples. But there’s also some good ones too, and I’m lucky to have met some. You’ll definitely have to use your smarts and intuition to navigate any particular community really.

Kitsune:
I agree although I just have a preference for websites that have a smaller userbase and traditional UI that isn't inspired by the current social media/Corporate Memphis style.

Just from my personal experience I have many stories to tell regarding bad memories on Fantasy Feeder. I won't deny I had bad memories on Dims too but most of them happened on here. Someday I write a DM about them to you and Arame.

Edit: I am not ashamed to admit FF's UI is bad.


Yeah I’ve had some bad memories and moments on this particular site as well. But it helped me be more aware and cautious when it comes to who I speak to. Of course people do have their own preferences when it comes to their choice of community websites.

Alright I shall await your DM whenever you get it chance. 👍
1 week

Do you just appreciate the community?

Kitsune:
Meh, I personally think FF is toxic but I mainly stay because I know some good friends on here. I prefer Dimensions even though you unfortunately have to pay for a membership to chat in the community.


There are some definitely some real bad apples. But there’s also some good ones too, and I’m lucky to have met some. You’ll definitely have to use your smarts and intuition to navigate any particular community really.
1 week

Any chubby asmr channels.

Wolffeeder:
There was an asmr channel on Youtube where she would drink coke and mentos for instance, and record the noises, but I don't remember the name.


Wasn’t this the “Gurgle Goddess” or something like that? I might be thinking of someone else but that’s who I first think of.
1 week

Any chubby asmr channels.

Arame:
What does asmr mean?


ASMR means “Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response” it’s often a static-like tingling sensation to help you ease a bit to relax. Think of those Oddly Satisfying videos, but instead it’s often from sounds like whispering or some kind of soft thunking on an object or the microphone itself.
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