In my opinion, not really. This is dependent on living situation, country you reside, etc.
From a US standpoint, no, it’s not possible as all of your money would be used on housing/trying to have groceries.
6 days
Fatgirlbelly:
This is it, isn’t it? it’s finding what works for you and ultimately what you can and can’t compromise on and what you need to live a happy life while sustaining healthy relationships.
I would take some occasionally belly rubs as a starting point 😫
JN_TumLover56:
Absolutely. And sure it’s going to be different from one person to the next for who you date and end up being in a relationship with. However there are some things that someone should be able to accept certain things and interests about yourself, take my interests for bellies for an example.
If they are willing to accept that from you then that’s great! If not then it’s a potential dealbreaker.
Fatgirlbelly:
I do wish I hadn’t repressed and ignored those feelings for so long. I think in my 20s I didn’t know what the hell I wanted and I never expected I could be in a place where I accept this side of myself and even explore it with a partner.
I never had a discussion of any sort when I got with my now husband about likes or dislikes. That’s on both of us I suppose.
Now I’m 40 I know myself so much more, and know what I need to be truly happy in a relationship. Whether that can evolve in my relationship or have that side of me be met elsewhere somehow without it causing issues within the marriage remains to be seen.
Right now I feel a bit lost with it all!
Certainly understandable. And keep in mind, not all who wander are lost! Hoping for the best for you!
6 days
Torchcacti:
I don't intend to contradict anything anyone has said so far, but for myself, I have felt like the possibility of finding love and kink fulfillment to be wildly rare. This might be an unpopular opinion in this space, and I understand why, but I think if you’ve found love, that’s worth holding on to. Platforms like this and Feabie make it possible to connect with people and feel like we aren’t aliens for being into what we’re into, and that’s so important. But I think it also exaggerates the possibility of having it all. There are some people who have found it all, and I admire them (envy, really) but if I’ve found love in a vanilla situation, I don’t find it worth it to throw it away and try to find that one person whose way of being a feedist matches mine. And I also don’t feel like it makes sense to leave these spaces since I’m always going to come back to try to scratch the itch. So maybe that’s being kind of trapped in terms of sexuality, but 90% of my life is happy. I hope at least that much for everyone here.
That’s just me, others may have a stronger need for feedism than I do (mine feels pretty strong for what it’s worth….but some people may need it to survive, I don’t know). So anyway, solidarity.
Very well put!
2 weeks
Feel free to DM. I understand where you’re coming from and had a similar path myself.
2 weeks
My fattest ex was 260ish. She started out at 185. She just got out of shape as she stopped playing sports and made poorer eating choices.
Fattest situationship was 230. She got fatter long after we stopped seeing each other.
2 weeks
Intriguing sure. I don’t think I could live with it permanently though as you’re giving things up that are maybe mundane to you, but are part of the human experience.
Depending on what you’re filled with, maybe you’re not restricted to where you’re inflated?
2 weeks
Almost did this myself last week
3 weeks
I’ve had it go the way of I can’t stop eating to I don’t want to eat at all.
3 weeks
Whatever is comfiest for them.
I do love a good form fitting top and yoga pants or sweats though
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