Gaining has become addictive

I share this experience and i have very strong and mixed feelings on this. On one hand an addiction is dangerous, i know that. But on the other hand its so insanely hot! And then as the addiction grows stronger, its so hot to still give in fully and feed it even stronger that way.

But to go a step further, i think the reason we like that addiction is because we like the idea of completely unrestrained -reckless, even- hedonism.
2 days

Transformation fetish

Enas:
After a quick look at muscle transformation artwork... Im still a bit troubled. But at this point, im more troubled with the articulation, which can be a phylosophical thing more than anything. I have one example i can give. I certainly have a sexual interest towards muscular women. The articulation problem comes here. Is it fair to label that interest per se as a fetish? There are some reasons i would avoid doing that. The interest in muscular women is there because i have this fantasy of being in the hands of someone so powerful i could not resist, etc. Which means its not necesary that i like muscular women on their own, a muscular figure on a partner, for me, serves into making the sub/dom dynamic more real, or more extreme, or whatever, right? So, shouldn't maybe the sub/dom thing be labeled as a fetish by itself, instead?

Then of course there are all sorts of arrangements. For example one could say that both are fetishes. Someone could even say that they both are just one fetish and the articulation is bad because in it, they are seperated when they shouldn't.

All that kind of makes it hard for me at least to answer a question of "is X thing a fetish"? (Which is similar to "Is X fetish a thing?"smiley

Uhm, maybe its a bit easier to just think of all this as a big box with everything about sexuality, and the criteria for if a thing can be included in it would be "Something that alters how you'd wanna have sex"?

Edit: I hate it when some characters turn into an emoji... FF please change that... 🫠

Munchies:
Lord have mercy.

Enas, it's not that deep. If you like muscular women, but you don't feel like it's a fetish or a kink, then it's not.


The thing is what i described is going to be a problem when i need to articulate my fetishes to some hypothetical partner. I could describe just the fantasies, but that has its own problems.
5 days

Transformation fetish

After a quick look at muscle transformation artwork... Im still a bit troubled. But at this point, im more troubled with the articulation, which can be a phylosophical thing more than anything. I have one example i can give. I certainly have a sexual interest towards muscular women. The articulation problem comes here. Is it fair to label that interest per se as a fetish? There are some reasons i would avoid doing that. The interest in muscular women is there because i have this fantasy of being in the hands of someone so powerful i could not resist, etc. Which means its not necesary that i like muscular women on their own, a muscular figure on a partner, for me, serves into making the sub/dom dynamic more real, or more extreme, or whatever, right? So, shouldn't maybe the sub/dom thing be labeled as a fetish by itself, instead?

Then of course there are all sorts of arrangements. For example one could say that both are fetishes. Someone could even say that they both are just one fetish and the articulation is bad because in it, they are seperated when they shouldn't.

All that kind of makes it hard for me at least to answer a question of "is X thing a fetish"? (Which is similar to "Is X fetish a thing?"smiley

Uhm, maybe its a bit easier to just think of all this as a big box with everything about sexuality, and the criteria for if a thing can be included in it would be "Something that alters how you'd wanna have sex"?

Edit: I hate it when some characters turn into an emoji... FF please change that... 🫠
6 days

Transformation fetish

Anjou:
Is that a thing? I got into bodybuilding for the last year and really loving watching my body put on weight and size (be it mostly muscle).

Enas:
Maybe, im curious about how you experience this. I would like to know in more detail. Is it the progression that makes you feel in a certain way? And if yes, why exactly is that it, etc.

Im trying to think of questions that would help direct your attention somewhere, but really anything towards questioning what it is that you like exactly about this, will be helpfull in answering the question of your post.

I can only provide a short example of myself. By getting fatter i also become weaker (or i at least percieve it like that) which is something exciting for me because im into dom/sub dynamics etc. Does that make sense of what im asking you?

Anjou:
Totally. I was 225 5 years ago. Went on wegovy, dropped over 100 lbs, but while I was elated that I was finally the size I wanted to be my whole life, I felt weak and sick all the time.
So I got off the wegovy and focused my once again large appetite on protein and started a training two time a day 6 days a week to battle the depression I had developed.
I feel transformed internally now. My confidence, sex drive, self image is 100 times better than when I was 103 lbs.
Like I legit feel like a different person lol


You could go into more depth, but that's a good enough response! So, assuming from the title, i now have another question. What makes you think that what you just described is a fetish?

I mean, no doubt that its definetely something that makes you feel really good, and its actually good too, but where is any kind of fetishization in that? At least with how you described it so far, i really don’t see something that would make it a fetish per se.

What do you think?
6 days

Transformation fetish

Anjou:
Is that a thing? I got into bodybuilding for the last year and really loving watching my body put on weight and size (be it mostly muscle).


Maybe, im curious about how you experience this. I would like to know in more detail. Is it the progression that makes you feel in a certain way? And if yes, why exactly is that it, etc.

Im trying to think of questions that would help direct your attention somewhere, but really anything towards questioning what it is that you like exactly about this, will be helpfull in answering the question of your post.

I can only provide a short example of myself. By getting fatter i also become weaker (or i at least percieve it like that) which is something exciting for me because im into dom/sub dynamics etc. Does that make sense of what im asking you?
1 week

Are there any other feederism sites? one with block features that actually work???

The chat has still leak problems, although admitedly since some months now, they're not as bad.
2 weeks

Fat wife has to lose weight

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?

Enas:
Get into phylosophy!

Munchies:
This is not as helpful as you might think. If anything, it's a largely neutral aspect.

Enas:
It is a largely neutral aspect, but philosophy is interesting by itself which can be a nice distraction from one's libido! Maybe... 😅

*cough* certainly not for me *cough*

Munchies:
If it doesn't work for you, why recommend it at all?


It doesn't work on me because i havent a crazy high libido, i assume other people generally have a more relaxed libido.
2 weeks

Fat wife has to lose weight

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?

Enas:
Get into phylosophy!

Munchies:
This is not as helpful as you might think. If anything, it's a largely neutral aspect.


It is a largely neutral aspect, but philosophy is interesting by itself which can be a nice distraction from one's libido! Maybe... 😅

*cough* certainly not for me *cough*
2 weeks

Fat wife has to lose weight

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?


Get into phylosophy!
2 weeks

Personal trainer defends obesity…sort of?

Arame:
...
Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
...

Enas:
AHAHAHAHAHAA 🤣

This is so stupid, its like saying "We must do something for covid because a lot of people will die" and instead of letting it as that, we add "... and that will be very bad for the economy!"

Arame:
Yeah bro, that was extremely stupid. That’s the bias I was talking about. They just had throw the taxpayer line in. That’s every bigot’s favorite talking point. Hiding behind conservatism to disguise their hatred.


Now, let’s discuss said economy shall we?
You mean the SAME economy that creates fat people in the first place??? 😂

Think about it, America literally promotes processed foods it’s in every commercial and on every street. Processed food is usually very high in calories, high in unhealthy fats (hence why it tastes so good), and is also high in simple carbohydrates which is easy to digest hence simple. Once the food has been digested, you feel hungry again, so you eat another meal that’s processed. A diet that’s high in calories that doesn’t keep you full for long is almost a guarantee for fat gain unless you have an high metabolism which why I brought up skinny(Ectomorphic people). In short, America creates the very fat people that they complain about. That literally makes no sense.

Now, this is all great for communities like this because obviously some people LOVE food and or love the feeling of being full or stuffed so much so that it sexually arouses them.


There is no point in arguing against this,really. This is an example where attacking the person (or, in this matter, the Fox channel) instead of the argument is a valid response, because they are not genuine. The key is to find the right rhetoric to make people believe you.


My thing is, who give a fuck? Thats nobody else’s business.


Thats not a really good argument though. For example, if people loved each other they would care for each other's "business" and that would be a good thing.
3 weeks
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