Transformation fetish

Anjou:
Is that a thing? I got into bodybuilding for the last year and really loving watching my body put on weight and size (be it mostly muscle).


Maybe, im curious about how you experience this. I would like to know in more detail. Is it the progression that makes you feel in a certain way? And if yes, why exactly is that it, etc.

Im trying to think of questions that would help direct your attention somewhere, but really anything towards questioning what it is that you like exactly about this, will be helpfull in answering the question of your post.

I can only provide a short example of myself. By getting fatter i also become weaker (or i at least percieve it like that) which is something exciting for me because im into dom/sub dynamics etc. Does that make sense of what im asking you?
6 hours

Are there any other feederism sites? one with block features that actually work???

The chat has still leak problems, although admitedly since some months now, they're not as bad.
1 week

Fat wife has to lose weight

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?

Enas:
Get into phylosophy!

Munchies:
This is not as helpful as you might think. If anything, it's a largely neutral aspect.

Enas:
It is a largely neutral aspect, but philosophy is interesting by itself which can be a nice distraction from one's libido! Maybe... 😅

*cough* certainly not for me *cough*

Munchies:
If it doesn't work for you, why recommend it at all?


It doesn't work on me because i havent a crazy high libido, i assume other people generally have a more relaxed libido.
1 week

Fat wife has to lose weight

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?

Enas:
Get into phylosophy!

Munchies:
This is not as helpful as you might think. If anything, it's a largely neutral aspect.


It is a largely neutral aspect, but philosophy is interesting by itself which can be a nice distraction from one's libido! Maybe... 😅

*cough* certainly not for me *cough*
1 week

Fat wife has to lose weight

Viper1:
FA here, my wife has to lose weight due to health issues. Currently 400lbs and very sexy. Having a hard time dealing with the losing weight and working out. Anyone else dealing with that?


Get into phylosophy!
1 week

Personal trainer defends obesity…sort of?

Arame:
...
Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
...

Enas:
AHAHAHAHAHAA 🤣

This is so stupid, its like saying "We must do something for covid because a lot of people will die" and instead of letting it as that, we add "... and that will be very bad for the economy!"

Arame:
Yeah bro, that was extremely stupid. That’s the bias I was talking about. They just had throw the taxpayer line in. That’s every bigot’s favorite talking point. Hiding behind conservatism to disguise their hatred.


Now, let’s discuss said economy shall we?
You mean the SAME economy that creates fat people in the first place??? 😂

Think about it, America literally promotes processed foods it’s in every commercial and on every street. Processed food is usually very high in calories, high in unhealthy fats (hence why it tastes so good), and is also high in simple carbohydrates which is easy to digest hence simple. Once the food has been digested, you feel hungry again, so you eat another meal that’s processed. A diet that’s high in calories that doesn’t keep you full for long is almost a guarantee for fat gain unless you have an high metabolism which why I brought up skinny(Ectomorphic people). In short, America creates the very fat people that they complain about. That literally makes no sense.

Now, this is all great for communities like this because obviously some people LOVE food and or love the feeling of being full or stuffed so much so that it sexually arouses them.


There is no point in arguing against this,really. This is an example where attacking the person (or, in this matter, the Fox channel) instead of the argument is a valid response, because they are not genuine. The key is to find the right rhetoric to make people believe you.


My thing is, who give a fuck? Thats nobody else’s business.


Thats not a really good argument though. For example, if people loved each other they would care for each other's "business" and that would be a good thing.
2 weeks

Personal trainer defends obesity…sort of?

Arame:
...
Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
...

Enas:
AHAHAHAHAHAA 🤣

This is so stupid, its like saying "We must do something for covid because a lot of people will die" and instead of letting it as that, we add "... and that will be very bad for the economy!"

Munchies:
You must not be familiar with Fox News.

Good. Keep it that way. Quality of life decision.


No, i am - unfortunately.

Its not that they are biased, its just that they are actively trying to make America a terrible place. The brainrot propaganda they do is just the logical continuation of that.

There is something else i wanted to point out, which ive learned through one of David Graeber's talks "All Economies are Human Economies". Look it up, its actually real good!
2 weeks

Personal trainer defends obesity…sort of?

Arame:
...
Fox News, spoke on obesity from an economic point of view, discussing how rising obesity rates lead to higher healthcare costs for taxpayers,
...


AHAHAHAHAHAA 🤣

This is so stupid, its like saying "We must do something for covid because a lot of people will die" and instead of letting it as that, we add "... and that will be very bad for the economy!"
2 weeks

Uncolicited advice - a conversation

Munchies:
Unsolicited advice is simply advice you did not ask for. Sometimes it's appreciate. Most of the time it's not.

And that's the gamble of it all. No matter how good your advice is, some people do not want to hear it. You can have the best intentions in the world, but sometimes, it will not be appreciated.

This does not mean the person rejecting your advice is wrong to do so. Maybe they already know what they are doing. Maybe they are going for something different that you are suggesting. Maybe they just don't care like that.

Whatever the reason, it's bet to respect their no. If you keep pushing, then no matter how good your advice is or how well meaning your intentions are, you are now the asshole.


You are touching on a lot of interesting issues, one being the "objectively helpfull (or unhelpful advice", the other is the possibility that someone who acts as giving (uncolicited) advice, in reality just self-serving himself in some way.

I think ive covered them pretty well on my last replies i wrote just now.
2 weeks

Uncolicited advice - a conversation

Eleanorrigby:
i think i understand what you're trying to say in your 'pros' paragraph. sometimes it's important to tell someone straight up if they're in the wrong in a specific situation, and help them brainstorm solutions. it's how we grow, and how we help the people around us grow. if we surround ourselves with people who won't encourage us to be the best version of ourself, even if we don't necessarily want to hear it, we'll remain stagnant.

HOWEVER- the vast majority of the time, this is NOT the category that 'unsolicited advice' falls in.

unsolicited advice is usually not appreciated because assuming you know a person or their situation better than them is, quite frankly, incredibly condescending. in my opinion, if someone isn't asking you for advice, and is getting upset when you give it, there's probably a reason. maybe they already know how to handle it, maybe they've tried the advice already, or maybe they just need a friend to listen to them for a bit.

sometimes, the best thing we can learn to do in life is learn we don't need to be 'right' all the time. if someone says the advice that's given is unsolicited, or is upset by it, just apologize and move on. if it's someone we care about, we should have enough respect for them to trust that they know whether or not they 'need' advice or not.


Im considering "(uncolicited) advice" to strictly be what you'd consider "valid". For example, is the advice given on point, relative to what the reciever is troubled with?

If you just want to vent, for example, for something that you know how to solve, but nevertheless gets you frustrated, the problem is... how the problem is articulated by someone who might attempt to give advice. That is, its not a matter of finding a solution (since you already know that), but something else. In this case, its actually something i can't quite pin down really, but its something within the domain "I need to socialize".

Another criteria is, is the reciever of the advice already conciously aware of the information given? If yes, thats of course another case the advice is not "valid" (=helpful) That case shouldn't be difficult to manage. The reciever should just state that. It removes the need for you to guess if they already know what you told them.

You are basically right when you say the vast majority this is not the category that "uncoliced advice" falls in. I think thats also a problem because it makes it harder for us to identify errors.

With the case where the reciever is already aware, for example, the error is not that the advice given was not apropriate, because thats a valid logical consequence of missjudging. So the error made is not on somebody's behavior, but on somebody's thinking process.
Also, i find it interesting to try and map out all of these situations that result in unhelpful "uncolicited advice" . Categories like, self-serving, missjudgements, all these are valid possibilities.
2 weeks
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