I stand behind this. I feel like this is the end goal. Perfect love of them for there pure form. A life that rewards this for existing. Rubbing her belly just after a large meal, cuddling in the night, finding a new delicious treat she can eat and enjoy.

All of this is the end goal. Everything before that, to be cherished after its achieved, it might even become the goal in-between a relationship with someone interested in feederism. 🙂

For me? I'm not sure where it originated from. But when I was around 12 or so, before looking at porn I was google searching weight gain. After that, the only women I'd talk to or even ask out were large.

The fascination for me is related to how it moves, how it takes over an entire body. At first, this was just fixation. I just wanted to know what things fat can invade and take over. But soon after, I stopped thinking about it the way it was presented before me (media calling fat unattractive although it was more or less just it being something people avoid), Instead I viewed it as a pure desire.

If someone is large it may be to many circumstances but they are truly free if they can just eat to there means and live with someone who loves them for the quality that shapes there body. They say the mind shapes your reality for you. For some its not a choice which I respect but for others it is and that's a quality I find the most attractive.

As for gaining myself, I've had fantasies as a child but I'm around 150 and I play badminton as a sport because I really enjoy it so I have to say I probably won't indulge in that until I'm old enough to just jump into it.

As for being a feeder, I have 2 instances that most people would disagree with. 1 was a girl in college/university. I'd buy her baguette rolls with tikka filling every single lunch time and talk to her all the time. In the first year she looked 190 but by the end of my last year of my degree she was at least 350. TBH I probably didn't play that big or a role in her gaining
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Although, lets just say I had a sibling who'd beg to differ. I'll tell you more about that if you ask. I saw your question and just had to jump in with an answer. (Also enjoy your holidays.)

My sister once broke a table with her ass. She weighed around 230 at the time and was standing on a chair to close the curtains. She fell from the chair and her ass landed on our wooden table. The table snapped on impact and she was perfectly fine. She got up and walked it off. 😱