Chillguyontheeastside:
I was wondering if anyone else has given up on finding a feedee partner? It's either everytime it's too good to be true or nothing ever leads anywhere. I feel like I just reached the point that if it happens it happens, but it's been to the point that I might just start to pull away from the community/kink

Canuck:
i want to recognize that today is the international transgender day of visibility.

to all of the trans members of ff, i want to let you know that i see you and support you!

to my beautiful partner; i love you, respect you, and admire you for all that you are and all that you do.

Funwithcustard:
I had reason to do a general web search on my username recently - in the results of the search engine, came up a post that I had written on Fantasy Feeder a good number of years ago - it is there for anyone to read, even if they are not a member of Fantasy Feeder.

I don't know what other people's feelings are, but this seems quite a security risk to me.

I thought that search engines would not be able to crawl pages that you would not normally be able to see without a login?

Munchies:
You don't need an account to access the forums, although you do need one to access certain site areas or to post. The forums are open to the public.

Funwithcustard:
That seems a bit strange to me and exposes peoples user names outside of what is a protected space - I am guessing this is probably mentioned in the small print, but I wasn't aware of it.

Is there a particular reason for doing this? If you are trying to encourage people to the site by having a forum post pop up on someones internet search, wouldn't it be better to remove the user name?

For me, it will make me less likely to post, knowing that what I write is going out on the internet, rather than to like minded people in a private space.

Beachside Farmer:
Any solution or we have to wait for techs to get on?

Bellyempire:
i dont think you can beat the supersize me diet

MottiF:
You don't understand how amazing this is, this part of fetishism hasn't been researched enough and it's a shame.

There are so many men who want to gain weight and so many wonderful women who love to make us fatter and gain weight. It's just a crime that there aren't any regular physical encounters like that.

Anyway, I just wanted to share my experiences. I met the woman of my life. And she wants me so much bigger and there's nothing more attractive than that. I eat so much for her and I gain weight beautifully 🥰

Munchies:
Love this for you.

And yeah, female feeders practice feedism differently than male feeders. It's genuinely fascinating.

MottiF:
thanks!
agreed, female feeders are so much better. hell, females are just better hehe

Enas:
Would i be a Trump apologist for saying that Trump was not the facilitator of all this crazyness?

Munchies:
Yes, actually. You would be.

I'm all for acknowledging system issues, but you cannot ignore the impact of individuals. Focusing on one over the other is, as you like to say, illogical and stupid.

Take FF, for example. This place used to be rife with lots of bigots. Misogynists, racists, homophobes, transphobes, and more. Lotta fucked shit. It was very systematized. This is not to say FF condoned the behavior per se, but seeing that the site owner is an older white British man, there were a lot of blind spots.

You know what changed it? Individual members confronting other individual members. Some changed, some left, and some stopped posting gross things as much. And as people grew unified in standing up for the vulnerable, the system changed.

And this is why you specifically are getting the pushback you are getting. Focusing on systemic issues while overlooking individual actions exonerates the individuals (even if that's not what you meant to do) and strengthens the system. In your efforts to play "enlightened scholar," you are propping up a system that FF as a whole is trying to leave behind.

Enas:
(thanks for this response, ive been slowly working on a reply but it takes time but havent posted yet because its not done at all yet. I just wanna let you know i appreciate the effortful response)

Bellyempire:
us.shein.com/risk/challenge

Do not go to Shein if you can avoid it. The clothing they sell is often toxic and can make you sick. It's best to shell out some money for clothes of better quality. They'll last longer, too.