Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Senner Maier:
For a long-term name, the body Shouldn't matter, Beauty is ephemeral. It is more important that one shares values and preferences. Everything else comes afterwards.  



It's so important to keep this in mind.

Yeah, attraction is important. But how you look now is not how you will always look.
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Think about it

Luisafer:
I think it would be better to delete my account, bye.

Shadowddr:
wait why?!?!? to delete an accoun is a bad idea, you need this to promote your content.

Munchies:
Imagine being a desperate gooner at your big age.

Shadowddr:
you ralize hat people here use fake info to not get identified right?
If you want to live as a "model" you need to get people to find you... how d you do that? you promote your content, with advertising... or you think actors become rich just by goin to one audion and act?... and thats it? they get casted to a big role?


... Bless your little heart.
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Date someone already fat or someone looking/ willing to get fat?

Bbwchaser21:
Suppose it depends on your priorities. Having been with a larger girl who wasn't a feedee (around 340lbs) her body was incredible but intellectually wasn't a match. Met a feedee (220lbs) gained upto around 260lbs but stopped as didn't actually like the day to day aspect of the excess weight.

If you like large go large straight away because it might not happen with a smaller bbw getting larger for you (and herself)


I would not follow this advice because you are setting yourself up for failure. Large people (feedees and otherwise) can decide to lose weight. People don't talk about it much in community, but that's only because people lose they God damned minds any time any talks about losing weight outside of struggling to put it on.

Being very fat is not easy. So even if you get a large partner, they might decide to lose the weight later for health, comfort, and/or aesthetics. I've seen many an FA or feeder who had mental anguish over the fact that their partner is losing weight.

Focus more on the person and less on the relationship. If they are already large or wish to be large, that's great. But it's not that important if your goal is to have a relationship with them.
1 week

Think about it

Luisafer:
I think it would be better to delete my account, bye.

Shadowddr:
wait why?!?!? to delete an accoun is a bad idea, you need this to promote your content.


Imagine being a desperate gooner at your big age.
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Gf under belly rash help.

Cantybrad:
No not yet, ill recommend it.


In the mean time, she needs to keep the area clean and dry. Stay away from tight clothes and wear something that ventilates the area.
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Gf under belly rash help.

Cantybrad:
Hi over the past couple years my gf has gone from 67kg (147lbs) to 131kg (288lbs). She has started developing a red rash under her belly, we put an antiseptic cream on it and it goes away but how do we stop it completely?
What are other ladies doing to combat this?


Has she seen a dermatologist?
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High calorie drink mixes

Butterpup:
Probably the highest calorie drink you're gonna get is by blending maltodextrin, cheap peanut butter, and milk. Use 3x as much peanut butter as maltodextrin and only add enough milk for it to be palatably thinned out. This will produce a slop that has just enough sugar and carbs to shunt calories to fat and fill the cells while forcing your body to pack on new cells with all the fat you've consumed. The protein from the peanut putter is a plus


This sounds ... unpleasant.
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Fun update

Screemtee:
scheduled a meetup with a feeder this weekend, way too excited about it lol. hoping it goes well🤞🏻


Good luck!
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Want to gain, how to ask for help from partner?

Metalbear:
My partner and I have been together for a little over 6,5 years. My relationship with food had always been difficult because of my abusive father. I'm trans (FTM) and I've been on T for three years. This has made my belly nice and soft and my girlfriend lately admitted she's attracted to bigger guys, but never dared saying it because of my issues with food and my body.

I'm attracted to bigger people as well and my own body is now in a way attractive to me. I've gained weight and muscle and I want to be bigger, but I want full support from my girlfriend. Maybe even in a feederism type of way. I don't want to force anything upon my girlfriend of course, but I'm having difficulties to open up about the subject and to speak up about my desires.

Anyone that went through something similar and has any tips for me to get the question out and how to word it? Being bigger just feels like it would make me feel more masculine and just so much better.

I'm not sure how to word myself here, but alas.

Munchies:
Honestly? I'd tell her what you posted here.

If she enjoys bigger men, and it will help you with your healing journey, she'll probably be down to clown. Just be honest.

Canuck:
munchies' advice is right on. you two obviously have a solid, strong relationship, being together that long. just keep the conversation going on what you are feeling, and what you are both finding attractive, and see where it goes.

my partner was into fat guys, we met thru wooplus. after we got to know each other well enough, i shared my interest in feedism with her. i made sure she knew it wasn't that important, there was no pressure for her. it took a bit, but she started to see the aspects of it that she thought were interesting, and we went from there. i don't think she'd describe herself as a feeder or feedist, but we've worked it into our lives and play over the 4 years we've been together.

best of luck!


Also, you guys are really cute.
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Ladies safety (trans welcome)

Morbidly A Beast:
This thread is really hard to follow because enas insists on double posting on one post with multiple quotes


What are you talking about? There's no Enas here. The collective has decided he doesn't exist anymore.
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