Morbidly A Beast:
men and women posting about their non-consenting exes/partners is the behavior that should be ridiculed

frankly no one cares and you should learn from this

Archibold789:
Well thank god you’re here to explain it all to us. I sleep better knowing there is a white knight out there cleaning up the dirty work of every person online who posted something about another person. You have a hell of a task ahead of you. Why don’t you get started on actual offenders rather than this pathetic attempt at making yourself seem so virtuous.

I’m done talking at you. You clearly have the intellectual depth of petri dish. Just…wow.

Munchies:
Wanna point out that 3 people said you were being gross. The way you are lashing out isn't helping your situation either.

A bit of advice. If you aren't prepared for people to ask you why you are asking a question, don't ask it at all.

Archibold789:
And I would like to point out that multiple people have DM’d me saying to take your input with a grain of salt because you yourself have a reputation for being toxic af. I even messaged you trying figure out what transgression I made because apparently some of you have a rulebook that only you guys know about. I came to you in good faith trying to figure out what’s going on and yet you jumped in again after leaving it on what I thought was amicable terms.

Again I thought my post was pretty harmless. Maybe you should be prepared for people to defend themselves if an infraction is less obvious than it is to you high and mighty omni-fucking-prescent gatekeepers. So maybe you shouldn’t be saying anything.

Take a look in the mirror and get a life. This is ridiculous.

Morbidly A Beast:
men and women posting about their non-consenting exes/partners is the behavior that should be ridiculed

frankly no one cares and you should learn from this

Archibold789:
Well thank god you’re here to explain it all to us. I sleep better knowing there is a white knight out there cleaning up the dirty work of every person online who posted something about another person. You have a hell of a task ahead of you. Why don’t you get started on actual offenders rather than this pathetic attempt at making yourself seem so virtuous.

I’m done talking at you. You clearly have the intellectual depth of petri dish. Just…wow.

Beachside Farmer:
It's a normal question, to me, however, I think most people are not worried about their exes. We've learned to move on.

Archibold789:
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Why do you care that I care? Maybe it’s more nuanced than you know.

Munchies:
So what's the nuance?

Archibold789:
Didn’t really make the post to air the specifics about my situation. More to ask the community if they’ve gone through a similar situation.

Archibold789:
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Why do you care that I care? Maybe it’s more nuanced than you know.

Archibold789:
Anybody have an ex who was (or wasn’t) into feedism and ended up getting huge after the breakup? I’m kinda going through it

TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.

I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.

This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.

I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.

But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?

Munchies:
Black woman here.

Black men being with fat white women is practically a stereotype. No one will care. No one will bat an eye.

What you should be doing is focusing on how to be a good boyfriend.

TheManOfQNA:
Thank you for responding.

I've heard about and understood treating a woman like a human being. Don't objectify her.

In a place like California, when and how is best to tell a woman my outside-of-the-box appreciation for her beauty ?

Finickyfeedee:
If you want a relationship where you actively engage in feedism, you should probably look on online dating platforms and advertise your preference there.

If you just want to date a fat white woman without doing anything unusual in the relationship, just approach her like you would any other woman, and tell her you think she’s beautiful like you would any other woman. There’s no need to do anything special.

Watch out because there are some white women in the US who fetishize black men and can be very disrespectful and objectifying. It’s important that you’re being treated well in the relationship, too.

TheManOfQNA:
I want to apologize if the title or subject is offensive. I'm a black man, not sure if that makes it less offensive.

I have a special opportunity to work in California and I'm excited about the probability of meeting a woman.

This is just me, I have always been crazy about overweight white women. I've only been with 2, while they were on vacation in Jamaica.

I know Hollywood doesn't portray how many overweight people is in America. I know there are complex social stigmas around obesity. I know I should treat each woman as an individual.

But with that said.
Does anyone have anything to say ?