How to become addicted to food?

Ultimateaaron12:
I want to get fat fast but I’m very skinny. I’ve tried to keep it a fantasy but I can’t anymore, how can I increase my appetite and change my mindset to be nothing but food and gaining?


A lot of people who struggle with their appetite or aren't gaining enough think developing a food addiction is the best way to go.

These people are staggeringly, breathtakingly, worryingly stupid.

I do not say that lightly,

I've met people with food addictions. Hell, my very first feedee ended up addicted to food because he wouldn't listen to me.

Food addictions destroy your life. I'm talking about friendships, family bonds, romantic/sexual partnerships, and even jobs.

There are worlds of difference between eating a lot and being a food addict. The first is no one's business but yours. The second destroys you and everyone around you.
1 week

I feel so small right now…

Your first mistake was watching Jubilee. That is not the place to go when it comes to thoughtful, respectful discussions with differences of opinion. This is where certain tribes of thought gather to duke it out.

There's a reason why there are so many Youtube videos and channels dedicated to clowning on Jubilee. You might find some thoughtful conversation, but it's rare.

It's best to educate yourself, form your own opinions based on what you've learned, and then keep it trucking. Not everyone's opinion is worth the two cents they give you to listen.
1 week

I feel so small right now…

JN_TumLover56:
Well everyone it seems that my own confidence has taken a bit of a hit.

I have recently watched the “Fit vs. Fat” women edition of Middle Ground by Jubilee on YouTube.

youtu.be/u4gEBRSKi2E

While I did though that it was a pretty decent conversation and it was something that I mostly agreed with what was being discussed, not to mention it gave me that sense of delight how both sides agreed on certain topics. But the comment section though… quite the opposite.

Now this isn’t the first time nor the last that I have seen this before, especially in a Jubilee video when they talk about fat people. But this time it really ended up ruining the whole mood for me with people commenting about how “blind” and “delusional” the people on the panel were, plus the good old “obese is unhealthy” comment that everyone familiar with by now. And of course there was people saying that too many people were making up “excuses” especially for saying how they used to think like so when they were fat. Oh, and I think a lot of people know that the hardest critic of fat people are those who used to be so… or most of the time.

Now yes there were some positive comments (or at least ones with a bit of nuance) of that video. But let me tell you at least 89% of them had a bit of a negative tone to them.

Even I tried to put in a well thought comment on it. Here’s actually what I said:



“Now I’ve said something similar to the one where they had with men… but one thing that I’ve learned from watching this (and that) video and from personal experiences, no body is ever alike nor perfect. Sure health stuff does matter, but it should only be taken for personal reasonings not for anyone else outside of the matter.

I know many people have questioned body positivity in recent times, but there’s one thing that I’ve always stayed loyal to. Is that body positivity is choosing positivity and to learn to be grateful of your own skin and flaws. And whether or not if I wanted to change… I’m still thankful that my features are what make me, myself! ❤️ Now I do acknowledge that there’s nothing wrong with losing weight, but it’s ALSO nothing wrong with being okay with yourself without changing yourself physically. After all self acceptance is just as important as self improvement! There’s a fine line between losing weight for looking after your wellbeing versus keeping up with social beauty standards.”



As of right now it currently has about 25 likes (last time I checked). But compared with all the other comments that I have seen that had hundreds and thousands of likes, especially from the formerly fat people who have commented… I was like “How do you compete with that!” and I just completely exhausted myself mentally from seeing all of that.

Now I’m not trying to get myself feel validated, not at all. It’s more about getting my message out there hopefully to find some nuance or something like that. I do acknowledge that not every comment in that video is considered a hate comment when they are really being more critically truthful.

Either way it made me feel small and not really good about myself. Maybe it’s because I care too much, maybe it’s because of me liking bigger women I worry that one day I’ll face a reality that they won’t exist anymore or be banished from society. Or perhaps it’s a reminder that people like me belong under a rock.

Now I apologize if this was a long post. But I do have a lot to say about it. 😅 I know that it also sounds a little downbeat but I think it’s because well it is a pretty deep topic. I bet the comments of this thread is gonna be interesting! I will always like bigger women and I will try to bring some of that kind of nuance to be an ally to plus size women. But in today’s social climate, it’s getting difficult!

Anyways thanks for coming to my TED talk.
1 week

Actual force-feeding experiences / advice?

RoyalRose:
Hi! So I tried doing some force feeding kink play with my partner last night and it.. didn't go so well. We've tried a couple times in the past but it's always a mixed bag as to how it goes. Which really sucks because we're both super into the idea!

Just wondering if other people have tried, and how it went for them. Maybe even ask for advice I guess?

For us, the best we've found is having me on all fours while he pushes my head into cake. But that position gets uncomfortable so fast! And I always burn out on the cake's flavor before finishing even half, even if im not full yet smiley

Flavor fatigue is my biggest weakness I think, but there aren't a lot of non-dessert soft foods that would be good for this, atleast that I know of anyways


Mix it up. Get portions of savory and sweet foods to combat flavor fatigue. Soft savory foods can include:

- Mashed potatoes
- Chili
- Pasta
- Scrambled eggs
- Beans
- Casseroles
- Shepard's pie
- Pot pie

If you are bent on kneeling (no pun intended), pillows, stools, tables, or any other low furniture can make it more comfortable. Alternatively, you can buy a kneeling bench. You can get a decent one for $200 - $400 with tax.

That said, you do not need to knee for a good force-feeding experience. My partner prefers to either sit in a comfortable chair or lie on the bed with a towel. From there I'll either hand feed him or, if you like verbal domination, demand he feeds himself based on a pace or amount I choose.
1 week

Feedee moms

Thekindestman:
I would love to know if there are any feedee moms Out there. It seems like there must be some


In what capacity are you interested in their motherhood? In a general MILF sense or ...?
1 week

How much weight can a woman gain in 3 months if she is trying to do so?

Mothman1953:
I am working on a fat fetish story. It's called..."What I Have Always Wanted". Check it out if you like. The first 5 chapters are already posted on this site. I am now working on chapter 6 in which the main character has really let herself go in the past 3 months. While she's not intentionally stuffing herself non stop, she has been eating a lot. So I am doing a little research now and I have this question for you...How much weight would a woman gain in 3 months if she really let herself go and gave in to her secret desire to become the "fat girl" she has always wanted to be?


Your character and the person she was with just lost their jobs. Unless there is beaucoup money lying around, she won't be stuffing herself to the max. So, we are looking at cheap, fattening food, lots of stress, and a sedentary lifestyle.

With that in mind, you are looking at 10 - 30 lbs, depending on how much money they have to work with.
1 week

Birthday weirdness

Lawjack:
It could be something weird with daylight savings being tonight but Happy birthday!


Daylight savings time ends at 2 AM, so I am not sure that had anything to do with it.

But it's been fixed. Thanks for the birthday wishes!
1 week

Birthday weirdness

Munchies:
So, today is my birthday. Just turned 29. But when I look at my profile, it says I am 28.

I double checked the birthday I put in my profile. It's definately correct.

What's happening here?

Enas:
This is just me speculating, i dont know your timezone but if you noticed this just past *your* midnight, and the server is in a timezone that experiences midnight later, that might be what's causing it.

Also, imo wishing happy birthday is very lowbar, english doesnt have good wishes, but Greek does, so i wish you to have years many, and good!


I am in EST which is 5 hours behind GMT. And this is a British site. So Idk.

But it's been updated, so there's that.

Thanks for the birthday wishes.
1 week

Birthday weirdness

Kacchan:
I don't know why your age is miscalculating, but - HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!


Appreciation!!!
1 week
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