I have one called The Queen Mother. It's about an Amazonian-like queen who gets very fat and pregnant to repopulate her dying queendom.

This is not great advice.

They come back. They always come back because they feel like there are no consequences. You don't gotta engage with them, but you need to report harassment.

I have explained this to you multiple times in other threads.

gags

Keep away from those. The side effects are not worth it.

You are better off systematically stretching out your stomach via bloats and/or stuffings.

I think so. I remember when she posted to Youtube during her first weight loss, several commenters mentioned it. But those were her spicier videos and they are deleted off the site.

If a feeder fattens you up without your consent, this is abuse. I would consider it rape due to the sexual element.

As a female feeder, it disheartens me so much to see how many of my male counterparts do not seek out enthusiastic yeses from others. To them, "no" doesn't mean "no". It's a challenge to overcome.

It's all wrapped up in entitlement and shame. They feel entitled to having a feedee but are too chicken shit and impatient to go about it the right way.

And on that note, some of y'all need to be bashed with a steel chair. Specifically, the ones who are either in a relationship with a non-feedee or a feedee who's losing weight and are looking for ways to fatten them up. Knock it off. That's gross. You're gross. Be better.

Jigglephysicist:
This is the only way I ever see it portrayed. The feeder (usually a man) is just manipulating the feedee (usually a woman) and the feedee has zero agency. They're just a victim who's being controlled and the feeder is insecure and making them fat to trap them in the relationship. It breaks peoples' brains to think someone would actually want that.

Addiction To Chewing:
There's only two examples I can think of that go against the grain, but even then only one really breaks the mold. One is of a sapphic couple, but since one is a trans woman most people in the comments use transphobia to make it fit the narrative. The other one is a female feeder and male gainer, but most of the comments are exactly the same.[/quote]

Interesting.

As a female gainer with a male feedee, my girl experience is kinda praised. Like "You're such a good woman for standing by your man when he's this big. And you are such a good girlfriend for cooking for him."

They cannot wrap their heads around a woman purposefully fattening a man up for personal pleasure. Most of the intentional stories you hear about are from insecure women who want to make their man too ugly to cheat.

People see feedism as men making women fat as a way to extort power over them. This, of course not only erases mutual gainers, queer gainers, bhms, and ffas, but it also does not accurately express feedism.

Can power play be a part of it? Yes. But I find most feedists are not into any aspect of BDSM.

Eugh, I can't stand that crowd. Had an iron grip that seems to be coming back.

I remember being 115 (underweight for my height of 5'7" and being told I needed to lose 5 lbs because I was too heavy.