Strayguard:
Just a random thought that came to me. When you do an online feeding session are you typically friends with the feedee (or at least talk occasionally) or are you just throwing money at strangers? To me it feels like you should know the feedee a little bit before doing that but seems like that's not what happens.
its always friends for me, having someone close to you encourage you feels more trusting, + they can tease you later for how pudgy you're getting