Wowthatsbig:
Hi. Hope this gets buried in the forum. Need a place to put my thoughts and any feedback from others is welcome.
Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a while. She's a big name in the community. Pun intended.
It's been on and off for a while and everytime I think we're making progress one of us backslides in the relationship.
She lives 2 hours away.
I work 60 weeks.
She's an amazing person but she's got her own struggles.
Take her struggles and mine and it just doesn't seem to work.
But dear God I want it to work. At least I think I do. I don't know. She's such an excellent person and I've been more vulnerable and intimate with her than anyone I ever have.
I think I'm afraid it isn't working so I quit trying.
And now shes with other people while we still message and hurts.
Thanks for listening.
Munchies:
Bro, if you don't feel like it's working, and you can't handle being just friends, then move on.
What benefit does it bring either of your guys to stay in this zombie of a relationship? Just let it die. Are you so afraid to be single? Or are you terrified that you won't find another play partner?
Damn. Zombie of a relationship. That hit the nail on the head. I don't mind being single it's more the fear that I'm unlovable. That's not the right word but I can't think of a better one. Incompatible?
4 months
I had an ex that was definitely into the fetish but both of us were too afraid to talk about it to each other.
Yet shed let little things slide like "eat a little more. Get a lil bigger"
4 months
I had an ex that was definitely into the fetish but both of us were too afraid to talk about it to each other.
Yet shed let little things slide like "eat a little more. Get a lil bigger"
4 months
Hi. Hope this gets buried in the forum. Need a place to put my thoughts and any feedback from others is welcome.
Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a while. She's a big name in the community. Pun intended.
It's been on and off for a while and everytime I think we're making progress one of us backslides in the relationship.
She lives 2 hours away.
I work 60 weeks.
She's an amazing person but she's got her own struggles.
Take her struggles and mine and it just doesn't seem to work.
But dear God I want it to work. At least I think I do. I don't know. She's such an excellent person and I've been more vulnerable and intimate with her than anyone I ever have.
I think I'm afraid it isn't working so I quit trying.
And now shes with other people while we still message and hurts.
Thanks for listening.
4 months
I work too much and need friends
5 months
You were saying you wish you could talk to your bf about it. Maybe it's providence
1 year
Well hell why not make a post. Hit me up if you want
1 year
Yeah it's not good to be flirtatious as an interview. Setting up a culture that won't be the friendliest. You'll find a place that will be a good fit, even if your jean never are.
1 year
YumNom:Are all accounts on these platforms just scams looking for money?
Munchies:You've caught onto the ruse. Every user on all of these sites are scammers. Even you. Congrats on finding your people. You are one of us.
CuppaJoe:Munchie Snark!!! 🥰
YumNom - if you spend any extended time in an anonymous community, you will encounter individuals who are looking to profit from various "connections in common".
The good news is that:
A) We are NOT all scammers.
The more time you spend with all.of us, the easier it becomes to detect when someone is scamming/artificial.
Now... can I perhaps speak with you about your car's extended warranty?
So very true, it took me years to feel comfortable in the community and after my own fair share of getting scammed it becomes pretty obvious. All part of the learn curve.
Now is the lady of the house available, we'd like to talk to you about your eligibility for Medicare Advantage plans
1 year
They definitely exist. My last relationship was a mutual
1 year
