Theres always hope.... The real question is how realistic is it that she will gain.

So thunder_thighs, just to make sure I understand you, its not ok to love someone who is not everything you want? And he should leave his current fiancee that he loves, and marry a fat girl just cause she is fat?

The fact that he is marrying says he cares a lot about her. I didn't pick up on him saying that she HAS to gain weight. He was just curious if she ever would.

I have never understood why some people want to start a riot over a simple question. Its not the worlds greatest thing to say, but its not enough of a reason to lambaste someone.

I always thought in the next 50-75 years, the normal "acceptable" weight will be around 220-250. About 100 more than it is now.